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    Lately, I've been going to SCs for lunch, and don't have a lot of time to eat, chat and get LDs. (Specially, since it takes me about 30 minutes to "warm up" and find the dancer I'm interested in.)

    Dancers - How do you feel about a customer who wants to skip the intro chat and go straight for LDs? Is this good for you because its quick money - or is it rude, because it seems that he has no interest in chatting with you?

    Would you rather spend a few minutes getting to know a new customer, before the lap dances? - Or do you appreciate a customer who gets right down to business?
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Lately, I've been going to SCs for lunch, and don't have a lot of time to eat, chat and get LDs. (Specially, since it takes me about 30 minutes to "warm up" and find the dancer I'm interested in.)

    Dancers - How do you feel about a customer who wants to skip the intro chat and go straight for LDs? Is this good for you because its quick money - or is it rude, because it seems that he has no interest in chatting with you?

    Would you rather spend a few minutes getting to know a new customer, before the lap dances? - Or do you appreciate a customer who gets right down to business?

    Are you....are you serious? My FAVORITE customers are the ones who skip the small talk bullshit and go right into dancing. My ideal customer chit-chat goes like this.

    Me: Hi cupcake, I'm Meghan! How's your day going?

    Custy: It's going swell! Wanna get naked for money?

    Me: Sure do!

    *Runs off the VIP with customer*

    I don't really need to know the guy to dance with him. It helps if we exchange a couple of lines of dialog first just so I can get a sense of his personality and what he wants out of my dances, but in general the faster I can get you back to the VIP the better.

    I'd say you'd make a dancers day with this approach. Mind you, because she hasn't chatted with you any she won't really know what you're looking for in a lap-dance, so don't give up on her after one song. You might have to verbally express your likes/wants more because the girl didn't have a chance to pick up on them in your conversation together.



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    I <33 men who want to dance instead of chat!
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    I LOVE this type of customer! Favorite evarrrrr!
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    Default Re: Skip the Chat?

    Agreed, as long as there is nothing major to dislike about the person - I'd rather skip right to dancing.
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    This is what I liked about day shift. Many dancers think day shift sucks but if you get out there around noon, get your stage rotation done, you can catch guys running in for a bite and dances, not sitting around getting drunk and obnoxious, not much time to talk.

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    do we like customers who immediately give us money to do our job while not forcing us to pretend we are interested in what they have to say in order make a sale?

    yes. yes we do.
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I love it, it's a compliment if a guy wants a dance having spotted me across the room.
    It does annoy me though, to have to do introductions while on the way to the private room or during/after the dance. It feels awkward and cold. Ideally I like to exchange names before moving from the spot where we meet.

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    Of course they enjoy it Jack, that is the way I get dances too, When I go in a club, I'm ready for dances as soon as I step in there, If a dancer I like sits down after she tells me her name I ask her if I can get a dance, When I don't want a dance I tell them "i'm not looking for any company right now" until one I like comes over.

    Trust me, you have the right idea, just like me, go in, ask for a dance, get as many as you want, pay her, and say thanks = transaction over. And then move onto the next dancer if you want more. Probably the easiest money she will make all night, and reading this thread only confirms they do appreciate it. And it's fun.

    I've heard of people telling me, don't you want your moneys worth? Because I can go through $200-300 in an hour or two, instead of wasting their time or sitting at the stage putting down one's. If only they could see what they are missing, anyone in sales truly appreciate NO BS customers who give them lots of cash with no hassle.

    In over 2 years I don't think i've actually talked to any dancers other than small talk waiting for the first song (no more than 10-20 seconds..) to start and then saying thanks at the end.. and my fun hasn't diminished.. it's gotten better.

    Others start to notice too, Jack.
    Trust me, you can be a very well known customer without saying anything other than "Can I get a dance?"
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    I never cared either way as long as both approaches ended in money.

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    OMG I LOVE THESE GUYS!

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    Default Re: Skip the Chat?

    You could probably skip the dance and go directly to the tip without too many complaints. It would be much more convenient and save time for both you and the entertainer.

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    By the way, thanks for this thread, Jack. Probably the best one i've read, ever.
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    Are you....are you serious? My FAVORITE customers are the ones who skip the small talk bullshit and go right into dancing.

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    favorite custy ever!!! makes the dance SOO much more enjoyable

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    You could probably skip the dance and go directly to the tip without too many complaints. It would be much more convenient and save time for both you and the entertainer.
    Or you could go down with her to the bank and transfer all of your funds into her account... your sarcasm is not funny. You can continue to waste their time.. i'll try and make up for your waste of time with my lack of BS, thanks for making me look better.

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    My favorite moments are when guys just walk up to me and ask "Excuse me? Are you busy? I'd really like a dance right now." Fuck no, I'm not too busy to do a dance and make money RIGHTNOW! That's what I'm here for.

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    Default sry to intrude...

    but question. what about if it's someone you've gotten to know, and would feel pervy/rude to just ask for one instead of chatting like you normally do?

    thanks for any answers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettJanuary View Post
    I would still prefer to go straight to the dance.
    .....
    Even if there is a guy I really enjoy talking to at work I will not be offended if he gives me exactly what makes me happy ($MONEY$) without chatting me up first.
    ...
    See?
    okay, yes. thanks!

    but, I mean, yes, I think we are eveyrthing you said, and I actually tip her well throughout the nite, for stage and chat and drinks and then lot at the end, but after my first and only dance from her I haven't gotten one, except when she gives me some for free, sitting with me and now, I think this will be my last, so I wanted to kinda remember her (cheesy, I know).

    I'm kinda confused about how everyone views this sort of emotional attachment between 'strippers' and 'customers'. Honestly, i think we're kinda friends. A couple of nites when there were times I looked bored, (I don't mind when she has to leave me and hustle for money) she actually came to me and told me that I should go have fun in a club somewhere rather than stick around.

    I kinda don't want to ruin what I have with her just to get a lap out of the way.
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    Default A Reverse Skip the Chat Attempt

    I sat down last night and before a drink hit the bar in front of me a girl sat down next to me and said the following:

    "I just started working here again and it would really help me out if you would get a LD."

    Not at all hot.

    No sale.

    Then she asked for a tip for "trying".

    $2 later I leave.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jbviper4 View Post
    I sat down last night and before a drink hit the bar in front of me a girl sat down next to me and said the following:

    "I just started working here again and it would really help me out if you would get a LD."

    Not at all hot.

    No sale.

    Then she asked for a tip for "trying".

    $2 later I leave.
    And that has what to do with the OP?
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    It's not chatting I want, it's seeing everything you've got so I can decide more quickly. That's the part that frustrates me. I can chat with the dancer I like during her LD. However, I do like to chat with strippers in general whenever they linger at my table. As long as I can scope the room and the stage at the same time when I need to.
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