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    Angry i dont get it at all...(ranting..raving thread)

    ...so i "auditioned" at this club (which was my last resort bc the one i WANTED to go was full of dancers)
    Pin Ups (THE $5 lap dance club)

    i went to go change my clothes as told to and was suppose to get ready to speak to female manager/dj..so that i could get on stage and perform..she apparently looked in a camera, walkie-talkied a bouncer, to come and tell ME that i had to come back when i toned up!

    "okay.. fine..i understand"
    bouncer asks me "ur not mad at her are u"..im like "uhhh no?"
    As im walking back to the restroom to change back into my street clothes to leave, i see big-big (bigger than me) girls dancing on men inside, with tons and tons of stretch marks, cellulite, one girl looked like she was pregnant (no offense) , one dancer was smiling to a customer asking if he wanted a dance with gaps in her mouth, gold teeth, hair in a tangled hot mess...i think the only thing they had working for them compared to me was their smaller arms!!
    WTF!?

    i just ran out of there..sooo pissed, frustrated, annoyed..i pretty much starved myself for 24hrs to get my belly as flat as possible..

    i dont know what else to say..
    i know that i AM going to continue working out and going on a strict diet and try again in several weeks..didnt want to lose alot of weight bc i dont want to lose the valuable curves for these standardized hip-hop clubs...i like my curves now..esp when i cant target fat

    but now i see what i have to do..


    i give MAAAAD credit and sincere respect to the thick or voluptuous or chubby-or whatever u wanna call it- women who go out and make that money..i see its def hard, but as for me, i cant do it now!

    *not really looking for any smart-ass remarks, or anything else to bring me down even more..i just felt like expressing my "audition" moment and venting on how it made me feel*
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    Those girls have been there a while and its tougher to fire them when they are bringing regulars and their money to the club. Honey, you are a really beautiful girl, you'll find your place.

    Its tough out there, and you will honestly feel more comfortable, have more stamina, and make more money in better shape. But don't starve yourself, you look fine in general. Just get more athletic and active and lay off the delicious southern food.

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    Yup, the dancers that have been there get a pass. Usually what happens is for whatever reason when the club decides to tighten hiring standards, they just won't let anyone new who doesn't fit the criteria in, but they won't necessarily fire the dancers already there.

    You don't have to lose your curves, but you will need to tone up- get outside if you can't go to the gym. For the belly, you'll have to leave the sugar, white bread, milk (unless it's skim) in the fridge. That will help that area and having less of that in your system will help with your workouts.

    I haven't tried Tonalin CLA but there are a bunch of threads on it, supposed to help you tone up faster.

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    No starving! That won't help your belly. You can keep it full while getting rid of the extra, you'll just have to fill it with something else that's more nutritious.
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    Bang those fucking drums.
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    Have fun and stick it to the man at the same time.
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    Default Re: i dont get it at all...(ranting..raving thread)

    thank you KS, PV, and DDeath... :-)
    PV--i actually tried CLA for 3 weeks..ran out bc ...hmm didnt really notice anything diff happening..maybe i needed to stay longer idk

    and yeah i ll prob feel better tmrw..hate that i invested soo much into dancing thinking id get hired..
    i was SHAT on..
    oh well..

    hmmmmm...whats camming like??
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    You need to work out pretty intensely and keep a lower fat diet for the Tonalin to be most beneficial. Its not a diet aid or a thermagenic booster. But it does work in helping you lose weight more evenly, or appear to, hehe.

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    do u think it was the tatts? how couldn't she tell from when she saw you? y would she make you change? maybe try abbother county and cam work

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    Agreed, this does happen all the time. I'm getting to the point that I rarely recommend clubs to other entertainers because you can't really ever predict who they will hire.

    Tone up, diet & exercise...

    You may want to try some other clubs too. Oddly enough, sometimes the better clubs hire entertainers that the middle of the road clubs won't. Who knows why... total oddity.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MISS.NY View Post
    do u think it was the tatts? how couldn't she tell from when she saw you? y would she make you change? maybe try abbother county and cam work
    idk..thats another reason why im pissed!!
    i changed my clothes, and then came out waiting for her inside by THE ENTRANCE which faced the main road, ass cheeks out, standing there waiting like a complete shat on-dumbass watching customers for 15min:: enter the club, pay the cover charge, get frisked and then look me up and down...for freee!! ahhhhhh


    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    Agreed, this does happen all the time. I'm getting to the point that I rarely recommend clubs to other entertainers because you can't really ever predict who they will hire.

    Tone up, diet & exercise...

    You may want to try some other clubs too. Oddly enough, sometimes the better clubs higher entertainers that the middle of the road clubs won't. Who knows why... total oddity.
    hmm thats wierd..yeah
    i think im going to do this for the next following weeks:
    research/try cam work, work out to get my body back in shape and try out another club then
    ..it IS the summer time and heard most clubs dont do so well..soo maybe this is not a good time to start..
    maybe fall/winter season i ll be already slimmed and mentally/physically ready!
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    Default Re: i dont get it at all...(ranting..raving thread)

    I wouldnt wait that long. Just keep auditioning until a place hires you.

    You'll prob tone up and lose some weight(depending how you eat too) while working. Some girls do, some don't.

    Start changing your diet now. Run, or do some type of workout.

    Look at it as a blessing that you didnt get hired there. Five dollar lap dances... Maybe there is something out there better for you. Aim high. My first club was at one of the high hustle upscale clubs in town. Thanks to this website's HH, I was well prepared and did well as a newb.


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    Gahh I know how you feel about starving yourself for 24 hrs and then getting turned away!!

    I didn't starve myself but the day of my audition I only had water and tomato soup all day so my tummy would be as flat as possible and I was SO pumped and SO ready to audition and SO confident but the guy at the door was a total dick and i didnt even get to go inside

    He wouldnt let me in because of the identification I had but still...putting that much effort into preparing and getting yourself psyched up just to be turned away is so dissappointing!!

    But don't worry, I'm sure if you just put a lot of effort into working out and eating healthy you'll do great...or find another club maybe?

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    Gahh I know how you feel about starving yourself for 24 hrs and then getting turned away!!

    I didn't starve myself but the day of my audition I only had water and tomato soup all day so my tummy would be as flat as possible and I was SO pumped and SO ready to audition and SO confident but the guy at the door was a total dick and i didnt even get to go inside

    He wouldnt let me in because of the identification I had but still...putting that much effort into preparing and getting yourself psyched up just to be turned away is so dissappointing!!

    But don't worry, I'm sure if you just put a lot of effort into working out and eating healthy you'll do great...or find another club maybe?

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    ^^ Very true - audition everywhere before you go into crazy diet mode.

    When I started, I thought I wasn't slim enough and definitely not pretty enough, so I was going to start at the lowest clubs and work up. But the way timing worked out, I auditioned at the biggest club in the city first... and got hired! Don't underestimate yourself, go try other places. If you get hired somewhere, you'll tone up just in no time just by dancing anyway.

    And I'm really sorry the manager put it to ya like that. I know it's a tough industry and I can take plenty crap from customers but if a manager told me to lose weight and come back, I'd be a bit inside


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    *double post... gahhhh*


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    I'm sorry it happened to you hon. But for future reference never assume you'll get hired at a club based on the quality of the dancers. They could be grandfathered in, make the bar tons of $$$$$$$$, be fucking a mgr/dj, or all of the above.

    Keep yo' head up as Pac would say and work out, eat right and you'll be sashaying across that stage in no time.
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    eh ive seen perfect barbies gettin rejected from time to time. i think it depends on their mood. sometimes they're in a good mood and you're hired. Try again I'd say. I was rejected at this club where the girls were uglier and I'm in great shape long legs and all that, whereas another club of equal class (same owner!) hired me walking in with jeans and a tank. It's all subjective, there is really no measurement of beauty..

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    Oh, how maddening! I feel ya, really!

    Just keep trying like everyone says. Stick to your diet and exercise, but don't wait until you are "perfect" to go out and look for a job you want. Getting on a stage and a pole will help your exercise routine, believe me. During the 3 1/2 weeks I worked at the big club, I lost 5 pounds, eating a diet of pretty much whatever I could grab on the fly--candy bars, Dairy Queen, Taco Bell. (I went back to a normal diet as soon as I had time to cook formyslf, but I was on the scale again this morning and the weight has stayed off--yay!)

    In the meantime, don't get discouraged. Sometimes you just have to hit a club when someone just quit or they have decided they need more girls or whatever. If you keep trying, you will eventually wear them down and/or catch a lucky break.


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    Omg luxi I feeeeeeeel for you! I'm kind of in the same position, having a super hard time getting hired at a club in my hometown. It sucks when you get rejected for being to big/not toned and then you see a whole bunch of girls in worse shape than you working...it makes you WTF big time!

    One of the clubs I went to one manager even said that I could work, I went and dropped off my bf somewhere, came back an hour later, and the other manager told me they had too many girls. If you're thicker and on the edge of hireable at many clubs (me too) it really often comes down to luck...which is unfortunate. Make sure you try all the clubs in town, on a certain shift (i.e daytime weekday), and if you can't get in somewhere, come back at night (there's often a different manager working) in a couple weeks. If that doesn't work try daytime on a saturday in a couple weeks.

    I saw your pics and you're really cute! I think you will get hired somewhere you just have to keep trying. Do you drive? If so, clubs that are located outside of major cities in the suburbs or in smaller towns tend to be more lenient with the girls they hire, you might have to settle for travelling for a month or two until you can slim down enough to get hired at a city club. That's what I'm doing right now, sucks, but at least its temporary (hopefully).

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    ya, dont starve urself for that club or any club~

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    Been there too! Just wanted to say. Keep working on yourself (No starving! Eat sensible) and you'll get hired somewhere soon.

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    ^^^^ ooo wow..didnt think of that

    but then again she didnt even see me face-to-face..she saw me on janky camera!!
    but i ll DEF remember that next time, i have a smiley, and septum hoop in..

    oops! :/
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    I wish you all the best, great advice here, I'm sure you'll do fine!


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    ummm....yeah.... starving yourself for 24 hours is not going to do anything to make you look better, it will just make you tired and cranky.

    Go on a low calorie, lots of fruit and veggies diet, dont eat junk food, and work out. give it a month or two and you will lose weight. any type of starvation diet you will look bloated and just gain it back right away when you go back to eating.

    As per the bigger girls you saw in the dressing room, as others have said, they have probably been there a while or are sucking someones dick. Especially in this economy clubs can be really picky about new hires, and if they already have a bunch of mediocre/bigger girls and dont have many spots open they are only going to hire super hot/skinny girls.

    Quote Originally Posted by luxi_kitty View Post
    idk..thats another reason why im pissed!!
    i changed my clothes, and then came out waiting for her inside by THE ENTRANCE which faced the main road, ass cheeks out, standing there waiting like a complete shat on-dumbass watching customers for 15min:: enter the club, pay the cover charge, get frisked and then look me up and down...for freee!! ahhhhhh
    the whole standing by the door, having guys look at you for free while your ass hangs out....that is EVERY NIGHT stripping, if you can't handle it for 10 mins this job may not be for you. A million guys will look at you, make critical comments, or say perverted shit, grab your ass etc, for FREE. It sucks but you have to get through it to find the guys that will spend money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by trishaxxxo View Post
    ummm....yeah.... starving yourself for 24 hours is not going to do anything to make you look better, it will just make you tired and cranky.

    Go on a low calorie, lots of fruit and veggies diet, dont eat junk food, and work out. give it a month or two and you will lose weight. any type of starvation diet you will look bloated and just gain it back right away when you go back to eating.

    As per the bigger girls you saw in the dressing room, as others have said, they have probably been there a while or are sucking someones dick. Especially in this economy clubs can be really picky about new hires, and if they already have a bunch of mediocre/bigger girls and dont have many spots open they are only going to hire super hot/skinny girls.



    the whole standing by the door, having guys look at you for free while your ass hangs out....that is EVERY NIGHT stripping, if you can't handle it for 10 mins this job may not be for you. A million guys will look at you, make critical comments, or say perverted shit, grab your ass etc, for FREE. It sucks but you have to get through it to find the guys that will spend money.
    hahaha aw
    naw i was being silly on the free part.. i was just frustrated and letting out some steam...
    but, however, i still didnt want to moon everyone that drove pass on the busy public street..
    it would be like leaving the club after a long day in ur stripper attire..
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    Quote Originally Posted by luxi_kitty View Post
    hahaha aw
    naw i was being silly on the free part.. i was just frustrated and letting out some steam...
    but, however, i still didnt want to moon everyone that drove pass on the busy public street..
    it would be like leaving the club after a long day in ur stripper attire..
    LOL I know what you mean, we've all felt that way, especially during auditions.... auditioning at the Spearmint Rhino in Vegas I had to stand in my two piece and heels against a wall in the dressing room hallway for an HOUR until someone came and saw me that was fun.

    Sorry I didnt mean to sound harsh You will find a club eventually girl!! Hiding the septum ring will def help.
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