My man and I have basically been arguing for the entire month of May almost. And its just gotten worse and worse. I admit, I am clingy. But for justified reasons. #1 I basically have NO friends, one friend I did loose because of him, but others were just shady and I recently realized it. #2. I have no hobbies! I work, come home and thats it. I cant think of anything I like to do, so I cant develope a hobby. #3 We have been in each others lives for a year, and when I lost my friends, he took over the role.
He was my lover, my man, my friend, etc. I felt like nothing else even mattered. Then all of a sudden, he hits me with "I need my space". I'm not going to say it came out of no where, because we had been fighting like cats and dogs, over him disrespecting me at times, or him not wanting to spend time with me, or something like that. So when he first said he needed his space, I took it lightly obviously, and continued to call him and text him. But that only made matters worse.
Its to the point where I feel like he is disgusted by me. And it doesn't help that his BM has decided that she's all of sudden wanting to try again with him. My mind just has so much on it, and my heart has so much hurt in it. I love him, I feel like this is the person that I want to be with, because our happy times, are AMAZING but our not so happy times, will make me feel like the lowest of the low.
So now that he has decided that he needs his space, how much space do I give him? How long is too long? How long should I wait before I just give up?![]()






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