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    Maybe this should be in life support, but I mostly frequent here in Other Work.

    I hate my job, some of you know I just started working from home with alpine access I took the job because I was dealing with alot of stress dealing with escorting and other drama in my life. that drama is gone and I am starting to breath again.

    but I deeply miss escorting independently, technically I can't quit the job yet since there isnt any money to post ads, get a new phone and get a hotel for entertaining clients.

    School is going fantastic I am really glad I am back at it and I can feel like I am going to stick with it then before. but on the work front still unhappy and not sure what to do.
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    Default Re: hate the job can't quit it yet it just started

    Id say...make it worth your time and stick around long enough to make some money that you can invest into getting your escorting up and going again.

    Set a time limit for yourself too...to stay in this job. Whether its a couple months or a couple weeks..either way, you wont feel like theres "no end in sight" youll have a definite end date to look forward to, and put as much as you can away soley for getting back to escorting.

    And cam cam cam! Thats my motto right now...lol! Trying really hard to get and keep myself motivated to do it. Already I love escorting, but its so hit or miss, and I havnt developed a regular client base to depend on it, so I have to get in gear with cam.

    Just work everything you have at your disposal, with the end goal of being able to get out of a job you dont like....but in the meantime, if you have to do it..make it worth it!

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    That is what I am trying to do since I am not camming full-time, there isn't a balanace here it's getting harder to make friends, and then annoying thing is they always want to know what you do for work, but clearly do not want to hear the answer that your a sex worker.

    so I have pretty much isolated myself staying home all the time and only being with my cats, and my only "normal" human contact is when I was escorting with clients. it's even harder to make friends with other escorts because they are soo damn frigging catty or malicious.

    and having online friends is not enough.
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    I feel super fortunate in that I have a a few very select friends who know what I do...

    ...the rest I tell them I freelance....Ive had a few small projects, but no major project in *months* but its my cover when I cant get away or be on the phone or need to concentrate on cam and such like what Im trying to do now... I just tell them, I have a huge project Im working on so I cant talk/get away/etc... but still allows me being able to be flexible and not hold a "regular" job without any questions.

    ..its a good cover for me, because I do sometimes get asked techie questions, and I can help no problem...so Id say, pick something that you are knowledgeable at, and convince people you freelance from home doing that. Even just saying you are a image consultant, or pr manager...I swear, of all the ones Ive come across...they dont do *anything!* and I secretly think they are all in the adult business anyway... lol!

    I dont know how bold you are...but really,though Im a hermit, I still *need* to get out of the house and around people...and Ill think nothing of it to just go down the block, have a drink at a bar, or check out some music..what have you, and then come home and keep on working. Just taking an hour out of my time to go out in public and be around people and do something other than sit at home by myself does *wonders*

    It helps too...that Ive developed friends who will insist I come have lunch or see a movie with them when they havnt seen me in a few months. Ive come to really appreciate that...

    Really thougn, I was in that boat..where I knew *no one*...I lived here for about 4 years with no friends save my bf at the time, and then another year totally alone without anyone..just kiddo and my computer....i seriously lost my shit one day, and posted an ad on Craigs looking for a friend. I was at the end of my rope...and from there it literally took off and Ive made some close friends without cutting into the time I need to work.

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    I know P411 isn't super popular up there, but can't you get a P411 and a Datecheck which are both free, along with a Google number (also free though it forwards to your real cell number) and then just try to catch as catch can with the rare, outcall appointment?

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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    That is what I am trying to do since I am not camming full-time, there isn't a balanace here it's getting harder to make friends, and then annoying thing is they always want to know what you do for work, but clearly do not want to hear the answer that your a sex worker.

    so I have pretty much isolated myself staying home all the time and only being with my cats, and my only "normal" human contact is when I was escorting with clients. it's even harder to make friends with other escorts because they are soo damn frigging catty or malicious.

    and having online friends is not enough.
    I completely identify. I've got friends to chat with and text, but I'm on tour right now and going to brunch with a local provider tomorrow. Last night I was thinking I might just apologize and request a hug because I need some non-work-related human contact.

    Luckily, my dog helps with that. Good thing he got a bath last night-- hugging him was getting kind of stinky!

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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    I know P411 isn't super popular up there, but can't you get a P411 and a Datecheck which are both free, along with a Google number (also free though it forwards to your real cell number) and then just try to catch as catch can with the rare, outcall appointment?
    It's alot different and harder to advertise here. which is why I need to keep the job I hate longer so i can have more money in savings to advertise.

    p411 and datecheck might bring in website traffic but not always ac lient unless the odd one is visiting my city.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    can't you get a P411 and a Datecheck which are both free, along with a Google number (also free though it forwards to your real cell number)
    There's no Google number in Canada.
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    I might get a pay as you go phone or try using tigits.
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    You should keep the job and quit when you have enough money to pay escorting expenses and two month's worth of bills.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    You should keep the job and quit when you have enough money to pay escorting expenses and two month's worth of bills.

    what I am paid at that job does not even cover the bills. that is where the worry is coming from.
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    I tell people that need money right now to sign up with Princess Jenny's daily pay! I don't have to wait a week or 3 for my check. I use the service. While she does take an extra %, it's very convenient.

    You'll have to add up what your escort expenses would be

    Pictures
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    Incall money (If you will be working outside your home..which I recommend)

    I think you told me once that you already had pics and a place to work out of.
    If I need $500 for ads I'd just cam for a while week and set goals $150-$200 each day and by the time you know it you would have the money you need for expenses. I don't know if you want to go back to camming though .. I remember reading you were suffering from burnout.

    If the job couldn't handle my bills I wouldn't be doing it anyway ... maybe as supplemental income and I'm guessing alpine gives you no freedom?

    However, If I were you I'd stick with it until I start seeing the money rolling in escorting then quit.

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    I am just probably overwhelmend being back in a straight job when I haven't had one in almost 3 years and also school as well.

    I will be keeping this job til I have enough money to get back to escorting then get back to camming some how when escorting isn't busy.

    getting hotels all the time might be a bit costly but I don't want to risk the same type of reviews I had before.
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    What about it do u hate? I looked into this company but didn't want to invest in the start up costs. Is it just the lack of money?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    What about it do u hate? I looked into this company but didn't want to invest in the start up costs. Is it just the lack of money?
    It's call centre jobs i hate in general, nothing is wrong with. I just don't find the call centre environment home or building to be productive to my goals. even though I barely know what they are.

    part of me thinks I will be in this sex biz forever since I have been doing it for so long.

    I like the adventure escorting brings and I should be way more ahead escorting then i am now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    It's call centre jobs i hate in general, nothing is wrong with. I just don't find the call centre environment home or building to be productive to my goals. even though I barely know what they are.

    part of me thinks I will be in this sex biz forever since I have been doing it for so long.

    I like the adventure escorting brings and I should be way more ahead escorting then i am now.
    That is why you have to sit and think about what it is you want to do with your life before getting into escorting. YOu have to be focused because you and I both know that money goes as fast as it comes naturally. If you just get into escorting with NO goals .. it will be like a never-ending cycle and you will never get ahead!

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