First off, this is my first post here on SW. I've been reading for awhile, but just registered today. What a great site for dancers to share experiences!
OK, here goes - I've only been dancing for about 8 months, and it's been quite a learning experience. I've made pretty much all of the newbie mistakes a dancer can make, including drinking WAY too much while working and leaving my purse unattended out on the floor. Both are stupid, I know. No excuses offered - I just learn from my mistakes and try to move on.
I'm 22yo, and while I'm pretty much grossed out by the old guys that come in (they seem to be the bulk of the customers here), I deal with them as best I can to make my money. Nost customers here are decent, tho. Right now I'm working mostly days, since I have school at night.
Then, one rainy day, SHE walked in - on a slow weekday afternoon. She looks to be in her late thirties or early forties. Just adorable and spends alot of money when she's here. She is very popular with the other dancers, and seems to not have a favorite. I've always considered myself bi, but didn't ever expect to run into something like this! She's charming her way right into my heart, and I can't stop thinking about her. I know that when it comes right down to it, it doesn't really matter if its a man or woman - falling for a customer is killing my hustle and just making me CRAZY.
And I thnk she's married, too. Sheesh!
I tried searching SW for any threads dealing with this, but really couldn't find anything that would help.
Short of changing clubs, which I don't want to do (LA is the kind of place once you find a decent club you stick with it) - any advice for dealing with my irrational emotions? Should I tell her? What's the worst that could happen? (uh oh - don't answer that!)
Thanx to you ladies for any insight you can give me.



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or so is how i conned him into it) - which I used to do with coworkers all the time no issue, but I really really like this girl in a not just my hot coworker/lover way.

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