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    SO i'm breaking down, nothing seem to be going right, no close friends whatsoever, no family is around except my parents, everyone else lives in a different state. Anyway I don't want to ramble to get to the point. I want to stop complaining and pull myself together, I just don't know where to start. I want to pray but honestly I've done so much crap that God probably wouldn't even listen. I just want to pul myself up by the boot straps and start ALL over again. My daughter is absolutely amazing and I was in school but dropped it because I had so much on my mind that I couldn't concentrate. Anyway I'm not working so I do nothing but sit at home, sleep, cry, eat. YEAH....NOT GOOD!!! I just want to finally be the woman I want to be. I was dancing but had horrible self confidence and was painfully shy so I quit and NEVER went back. Anyway, do you ladies have any helpful advice for how to move on form a painful past that you fully regret?? I want the best for my daughter and I and it's about time I wiped my tears away, held my head high, and lived life. Just don't know how.....

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    start by writing a list of all the goals you want to achieve and realistic time frames. tape it to your wall and get going!

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    Until I want something badly enough for myself I have found that it never comes to fruition. Once u are exremely sick and tired of things then u get to ur end when u cant take all the bs anymore. Then one by one like the earlier poster just said u need to set realistic goals. Just take little baby steps and try to do one thing at a time. U can only do so much at a time when it seems everythings going wrong. And as things slowly get better..some goals may take stretches of time remember. AND THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO REMEMBER TO DO IS TO NOT BEAT URSELF UP OVER PAST BS OR MISTAKES. I know its hard, Ive made plenty of stupid mistakes that affect me to this dayand Ive also had horrible things done to me which may explain why I dont trust nor like most people in general. But anyways..Thats life fucking up..Then hopefully u regain composure and put one foot in front of the other and as ur ready rebuild urself and ur life..But u must heal first.

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    Give urself crdit and a pat on the back for attaining any and all goals. As stupid as it may sound u really have to love urself first.

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