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    Quote Originally Posted by sammii View Post
    Yeah, agreed ... it would turn me off too. Especially since I always look at the guys on these sites as "desperate" and "creepy." But each to their own; just be safe.
    Yeah 99% are creepy and desperate but not 100%. I never thought i would even tell a client my real name let alone marry one but i did. Ever considered that most of these 'desperate' and 'creepy' guys probably think that all cam girls are money grabbing sluts? Is that true? Are you? People shouldn't make assumptions - there is all of life out there in the cam world. Even decent guys get lonely sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TXCamgirl View Post
    Ok so you ladies that have successful met and had relationships with cam customers... how do I be safe about this?

    I have been with the same guy since I was 15 so I have absolutely no experience in dating or even talking to other guys. How do I do this in a safe way and how can I know that he really wants a relationship or what not?

    Any signs to watch out for?
    Ok back on topic. To be honest i just had a 'feel' about my husband - it just felt right. However i didn't go on that alone, i asked lots of questions, i recorded his answers, i asked similar questions again weeks later and checked for inconsistencies. I basically tried to figure out whether what he was saying was true or BS. That coupled with how i 'felt' led me to believe he was genuine.

    I'd had guys before who confessed their undying love for me and said they would buy me an airplane ticket to come and see them and all that but i could always tell with them that they just wanted to fuck me for a couple of weeks and then move on to the next girl. Those kind of guys will start to ask you to do little things on cam for free. Sexual things, like a quick flash etc. When you refuse they start with the whole "but i love you and if you loved me you'd do it for me" BS. Or they'll ask you to send them pics and videos etc. My husband never did that, he never asked for anything for free. To be honest we didn't even go prvt at all after a while. It was enough just to talk to one another. So that might be a sign too - if the prvts continue at the same rate maybe that's a bad sign. I don't know about that though - guys still want to get their rocks off even if they are in love with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by boobygirl View Post
    Yeah 99% are creepy and desperate but not 100%. I never thought i would even tell a client my real name let alone marry one but i did. Ever considered that most of these 'desperate' and 'creepy' guys probably think that all cam girls are money grabbing sluts? Is that true? Are you? People shouldn't make assumptions - there is all of life out there in the cam world. Even decent guys get lonely sometimes.
    Well most of us think the clients are creepy and desperate. I don't care if they think I'm a slut. Hell this is the adult industry. Strip Club goers think strippers are sluts, even as an escort, It's amazing how most of my clients just want to talk about sex the whole time just because they're paying for......company. However, I do not look at my escort clients or the guys I met at the SC as I do cam clients. Cam clients are a different breed. I couldn't imagine marrying one. I rather just use them for their money. Sad but true. I don't even see how one would give a cam client their number. That would be something Id love to watch.

    I'm a bit close-minded to this sort of thing and I know that. For those that have married cam clients, more power to you.

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    I would never meet in person nor date cam customer no matter how much he spend on me and I always tell those that try it this is not eharmony it's ehornypaidcamshows. Strictly business money related to cam customers and also I think when some try to do meetup hookup because they want to have excuse to not pay anymore since romantic link and if he met me on cam he probably most likely still seek other cam models paying them no longer me and that's like slap in the face to me.

    No offense to those that do love partner up with guys they met in the business. If you two have healthy relationship and both happy that's all that matters

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    Meh. I don't think they're "creepy and desperate" at all, though the ones who say "open tits bb" definitely come off as creepy and desperate. I guess it depends on the sites you use and how those sites market themselves, but the ones I get are maybe 12% creepy and 3% desperate. I do get the occasional misogynist bastard, though, but I sort of like fucking with the misogynist bastards.

    I've got this one guy who's really cool. I ignored him a bit at first, but then we got into an email conversation and when he told me who he was, I realized that he was someone whose work I've admired for years. I haven't told him this and never will, but it just reminds me that you get all types when you cam.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IsobelWren View Post
    LOL, I totally thought this was going to be a thread about escorting, you know, all the guys who ask where you're from and try to beg you to meet up with them.
    I got offered 15K to spend a weekend with some fellow on SM..I called B.S. on him..Really? Told him I wouldn't even do it for 50K...I have a family dammit..can't just be taking off to entertain some customer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    I would never meet a cam customer for a frikking relationship...wtf? turn off for me.
    Neither would I, even if I were single. The person they see on cam is my wild side, but if they think they would get some hot slut 24/7...LOL..they would be in for a BIG reality check! Now if I were to go for a guy, big "IF", he'd have to be submissive, great at oral sex (will eat for a long time and know WTF he is doing) and even better at cooking and cleaning, with a nice thick, 6-7 inch cock. Had enough dick during my life to know what I really like, so damn straight I'd be peculiar.

    And one more thing,not to say it can't work, but lots of these guys are just happy with some online affair and free shows..when they get what they want or tire of you, that's it. I've seen guy cammers get screwed by females they fell for too, so it goes both ways. Keep business about business!

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    ^Damn kitty, I like the way you think!!!!

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    i metb my bf this way..it's a littlt different only b/c he's a cams too. we're on the same site. i looked at his profile and complimented him on being cute (he's hot i'm sorry-blush). All of a sudden i get my biggest tip ever on my other site and a note attached" no that's you ma"..i was confused until i looked at the tippers profile..lol. well he visited all the time on site(and tipped well and encouraged alot of the other guys to tip too)and eventually he gave me his number. It's great so far..although he doesn't spend as much time in my room b/c as his girl he gets a little jelous when i'm in pvt..but he always PM's me "make that money ma"before he leaves. we do the same work so it's really easy going with us. we're long distance but visit. we both have 2 kids. hope my story helps. But..Be SAFE!! I didn't tell him any real info until like a month of us talking off-site and I had my uncle(a police officer) run a background check for me.

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    This may be off topic but I was just about to make a thread about this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TXCamgirl View Post
    This is probably in the wrong location but I don't really visit any other areas of the forum. Was just wondering if anybody has ever dated/fallen in love with a cam customer before and had anything to say about it?

    About a week ago this super awesome guy came in to my cam room and just sat in privates for hours and now we are talking on a social media site. He seems really awesome and genuine and he really really likes me a lot, he told me...lol

    So yeah, I am totally thinking about doing this....thoughts?
    Personally, this seems way too dangerous to me. Also, I don't want to turn customers into dates. If you like each other that much it adds to the tragic "romance" aspect and he'll likely become a repeat customer.

    But those are just my thoughts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roast View Post
    That's so awesome, seriously. There is a cam customer I have who is this moderately (like you'd have to be into modern art to know of him but he isn't savvy with marketing himself out of those oddball spaces) wellknown who just pays for non-nude conversation. I didn't believe he was who he said he was until he did a c2c and I was in awe (but didn't show it). I bet celebrities (like Clay AIken did heh heh heh) frequent cam girls since like most super wealthy people they are pretty lonely... anyone who is not the norm is lonely.

    I more view cam customers as 50% straight up dumb (yea real people are cam models fellas, talking like a drunk spellcheck-needing frat boy when youre 45 is never attractive), 25% guys who are embarrassed of their sexual needs (sure Ill rub honey on my feet and call you snapbean-dicked-Pamela sorry you think your wife would be freaked out but ok Ill take your $), 10% white knights, and the rest who knows... the who knows and embarrassed about sexual needs usually get my thumbs up
    ...well maybe not clay aiken. maybe for the boycammers, lol. nothing wrong with that

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    I'm with TG on this one... something about meeting & dating a cam customer just doesn't sit right with me. I don't think I could do it.

    There HAVE been some wicked hot guys on c2c with perfect bodies and huge cocks... which is nice but when my first impression of you is being told "stick a finger in ur ass bb" while you jerk off and shoot your load into a dirty towel, um... no thanks, I don't think I can date you, sorry.

    And the "nice guys" who come into private just to chat and "get to know me" are good for $$$ but just come across as kind of pathetic and lonely.

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    I don't like the judgement about the cam customers because there is a high possibility that your husbands/boyfriends/brother/father/son is watch/paying for that same shit and you would never consider them creepers... I am not saying meeting them is right or wrong but damn ya'll make it seem like they have leprosy.
    @TG the same guys that pay for sex or watch strippers are the same dudes that are on the sites.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms.Lacey View Post
    @TG the same guys that pay for sex or watch strippers are the same dudes that are on the sites.
    You're wrong.

    Most of my customers prefer the real thing and have no interest in camgirls. They just don't get it.

    Everyone's not interested in camgirls and yes I still think cam customers are creepy.

    You can't really make such statements if you've never been paid for sex/worked as an escort.

    I'm with smurfette. The first thing I hear from most cam clients is something along the lines of "Fuck your ass baby".

    I don't see how anyone could fall in love with such. If a guy walked up to me at the gas station or mall and said that I'd be in jail.

    Like I said , It is a turn off and there are no "ands", "buts" or "ifs" about it.

    I like in person interaction when it comes to dating. I get enough attention in RL from guys so dating a cam customer has never/ and will never cross my mind. Using them for money? Yes.

    Honestly, no offense to anyone but it seems like an uber desperate move to me. I know people get all attached and the chemistry is there and all but when a girl get on a cam site to find a boyfriend or husband? I think that is a bit desperate. Why not an actual dating site?

    If it works for any of you, GREAT! Wonderful especially if you're still with the guy.
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    Yeah, I'm not judging them really. I'm sure there are some really nice guys out there who happen to enjoy watching camgirls. But I just wouldn't be comfortable with starting a relationship off that way.

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    i could never date/fall in love with a cam custie, but if i was single i would prolly meet up with one of the hot ones to have a good fuck with. (but even that would be very rare) man...some of those guys from the way they talk dirty sound like they know what they are doing, and sometimes i wondered what it would be like with them sexually. i could never even date dudes from the strip club tho, even if they were hot i could never get turned on by them especially when they are constantly trying to grope me and offer me money to fuck, it was a constant hustle for me in the club and online its a different hustle. but there is no physical contact online and more verbal and visual stimulation, so that's prolly why i am able to get turned on by the hot ones. i hate strip club guys, but i never judged girls who dated them nor would i judge a camgirl for dating/fall in love/marry a cam custie..to each is own

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    For me personally the thought freaks me out! Especially since it's only been a week and he already has you off site talking for free?

    Good luck with it, since obviously it's worked for some girls here!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    You're wrong.

    Most of my customers prefer the real thing and have no interest in camgirls. They just don't get it.

    Everyone's not interested in camgirls and yes I still think cam customers are creepy.

    You can't really make such statements if you've never been paid for sex/worked as an escort.

    I'm with smurfette. The first thing I hear from most cam clients is something along the lines of "Fuck your ass baby".

    I don't see how anyone could fall in love with such. If a guy walked up to me at the gas station or mall and said that I'd be in jail.

    Like I said , It is a turn off and there are no "ands", "buts" or "ifs" about it.

    I like in person interaction when it comes to dating. I get enough attention in RL from guys so dating a cam customer has never/ and will never cross my mind. Using them for money? Yes.

    Honestly, no offense to anyone but it seems like an uber desperate move to me. I know people get all attached and the chemistry is there and all but when a girl get on a cam site to find a boyfriend or husband? I think that is a bit desperate. Why not an actual dating site?

    If it works for any of you, GREAT! Wonderful especially if you're still with the guy.

    and paying for sex is not "uber" desperate?! I think so

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms.Lacey View Post
    and paying for sex is not "uber" desperate?! I think so
    Ummm....I didn't say watching camshows was desperate. I said actively looking for a relationship on a camsite is desperate.

    Paying for sex as in what? Cam customers and escort clients? Both of those groups are paying for sex so that's what you mean .. right? I understand both very well and I don't think escort clients are desperate. I have met some men that pay for sex because they simply do not want an attached relationship. Free sex is much more expensive than paid sex. It's much more easier for a married man to pay an escort than to start an emotional relationship with a civie that could possibly out him to his wife. Desperate? No. Smart?Yes.

    Again you cannot comment on what you don't know. You don't understand why men pay for sex with an escort because you've never been on the other side (offering companionship services to men). That is like a girl that's never been on cam telling us why men buy camshows. Do you get it now?

    We can just agree to disagree .

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    Ummm....I didn't say watching camshows was desperate. I said actively looking for a relationship on a camsite is desperate.

    Paying for sex as in what? Cam customers and escort clients? Both of those groups are paying for sex so that's what you mean .. right? I understand both very well and I don't think escort clients are desperate. I have met some men that pay for sex because they simply do not want an attached relationship. Free sex is much more expensive than paid sex. It's much more easier for a married man to pay an escort than to start an emotional relationship with a civie that could possibly out him to his wife. Desperate? No. Smart?Yes.

    Again you cannot comment on what you don't know. You don't understand why men pay for sex with an escort because you've never been on the other side (offering companionship services to men). That is like a girl that's never been on cam telling us why men buy camshows. Do you get it now?

    We can just agree to disagree .
    I can comment on anything I choose to comment on and because I don't escort doesn't mean I don't know about it. I know women from crack whores to high-end escorts. I am talking strictly about the men that pay for this stuff. But trying to make a difference between guys paying for sex physically or virtually is crazy to me. That is how I feel but yes lets agree to disagree. Smart: NO

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    I would never meet any of my cam guys because well.... most of my cam guys are creepers. I only have a handful of normal, sane ones. The rest I could picture myself locked in their basement for the rest of my life lmao. I think a lot of the cam guys ARE indeed actively trying to find love or a relationship, whereas men who get escorts are for the most part not. I don't have my escorting clients telling me all the time how much they love me, want to be with me, want a relationship, etc. Usually most cams guys do alllll the time.
    Whats 6 inches long, 2 inches wide, and drives women wild?...... Money

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    During my years in adult entertainment I've met some wicked cool dudes. I'd get so happy when they'd pop in because their personalities were great and they were easy to talk to. Some have even been very sexy and totally inlove with me which is cool.

    Buuut business is business. Yes I consider those guys very special and I enjoy my time with them, but they will remain customers and nothing more. I'd just rather have the money in my pocket. Like TG says, I can find a dude anywhere.
    Plus the girl customers think they know is not me. It's all fake. I'm so boring, I'm not as young as my character is, I have a kid, I'm not even as hot without all the make up, wigs, camera lighting and so forth. It's just easier makes more sense for me to give them a GFE (which they pay for) than to really attempt to be their girlfriend for free.

    Although there is one who lives in Europe that sf cute enough, has a big cock, very sweet and obviously wealthy .. I really like him and I wouldn't mind if he wanted to do a Sugar Daddy arrangement or something so I could make a bigger cut of all that money he shells out. But that's about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms.Lacey View Post
    I can comment on anything I choose to comment on and because I don't escort doesn't mean I don't know about it. I know women from crack whores to high-end escorts. I am talking strictly about the men that pay for this stuff. But trying to make a difference between guys paying for sex physically or virtually is crazy to me. That is how I feel but yes lets agree to disagree. Smart: NO
    You don't have to agree with me hun others do obviously. There is a big difference between cam clients and escort clients. Again, something you wouldn't understand but yeah agree to disagree.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Billabong View Post

    Although there is one who lives in Europe that sf cute enough, has a big cock, very sweet and obviously wealthy .. I really like him and I wouldn't mind if he wanted to do a Sugar Daddy arrangement or something so I could make a bigger cut of all that money he shells out. But that's about it.
    mmmm reminds me of a former cam client of mine from Austria. Super wealthy with a huge cock! Decent looking but his money made him look like Denzel to me lmbo. He would surprise me with paypal deposits weekly. Miss those days!

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