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    Default CAMMING Matchmaker/Appointment Sites?

    In the near future hopefully I will have my own blog/site, and join some of the popular indy sites, but I have a lot of projects going on right now so I'm content getting a lower cut (for now) if people are doing the promotion for me

    Are there any sites where guys see your profile and they have to schedule/book an appointment with you and no free chat/self-promo? I would love that. I also read in another recent thread about a camsite that claimed to be a "matchmaking" site and pair up the customers with camgirls based on their preferences, and schedule an online appointment. That would be great! I really want to explore and optimize the "online gilrfriend/gfe" concept because I want regulars who are basically looking for a cyber affair/online girlfriend and spend lots of time talking to me while I still have my clothes on LOL.

    1. Does anyone know of any sites like this that currently exist? I know that VLA and MGF are kind of what I'm trying to describe, but they are very content based and not quite as much focused on hour long phone chats/cam sessions. I'm looking for sites where regulars want an online girlfriend/courtesan/friend/sugar baby and where they have to pay in BLOCKS of time and 1-minute wankers are pretty much non-existant. There might be some indy sites that are like this so if so, please do share


    2. Do you think there is a market for this? A site where perhaps men can have ongoing cyber affairs with women (camgirls), find an "online" girlfriend, or have an online/virtual sugar daddy sugar baby relationship where the girls receive spoils/monthly allowance but we never meet them in person? I would love ot explore this concept more, I feel like it could be extremely profitable and I really enjoy the customers that I have developed an online relationship/girlfriend experience with because they spend more by far and they are respectful and not so demanding! I want more of them! lol

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    Default Re: CAMMING Matchmaker/Appointment Sites?

    There are websites that advertise independent cam girls if thats what you mean?

    The biggest and probably original one that some here may remember (I think they are closed now) is the Yahoo Cam Girls website...the owner simply stopped replying to new registrations one day..

    The one I am on is Webcams411.com ... I just checked back into it, they used to post up the yahoo id so that guys would know right then if you were online or not, but seems they chagned that. There arent too many of us on there either...so not sure if the requirements are strict, or if they arent accepting new reservations...

    Im sure there are others too... The concept you are talking about seems more involved and very cool I have to say...

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    There are websites that advertise independent cam girls if thats what you mean?

    The biggest and probably original one that some here may remember (I think they are closed now) is the Yahoo Cam Girls website...the owner simply stopped replying to new registrations one day..

    The one I am on is Webcams411.com ... I just checked back into it, they used to post up the yahoo id so that guys would know right then if you were online or not, but seems they chagned that. There arent too many of us on there either...so not sure if the requirements are strict, or if they arent accepting new reservations...

    Im sure there are others too... The concept you are talking about seems more involved and very cool I have to say...
    Thanks, I think so too! I think it would be a cool concept and it's not a totally unrealistic one. I'm not really sure if I'm describing exactly what I'm trying to say the right way lol but basically, I don't have the guts to be a real life courtesan so I want to be an online one. I want to be an elite online "girlfriend" that caters to wealthy men and gives them a more personal, emotionally/mentally intimate experience than merely masturbating on cam. Does that make sense? Now I just need to figure out how to cater myself as elite and cater online services to wealthy men. The only thing with most indy sites though is that although some do allow the guys to set up appointments/blocks of minutes instead of having no minute minimums, a lot of them you have to promote yourself to even drive traffic to your profile, at least from my understanding. SO if there was a site like "Ashley Madison" except the affairs were strictly virtual, or an "Eros" for guys to book online appointments with you, or even a site specifically catering to an "online sugar daddy" niche where you just call him and send him pics/cam with him and he subcribes or gives you a monthly allowance and gifts.... it's more involved and more profitable than say having a few guys jack off for 5 minutes and disappear, never to be heard from again, ya know? More involved, more relationship/connection based, more invested, more engaging... more $$$$ My wheels are spinning rapidly right now lol. I'm not exactly sure where I'm going with all of this... but hopefully somewhere good

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    Sorry but I think it will fail. If a guy is looking for a real girlfriend, he'll usually go out and find one/or pay one to pretend she likes him. It's more realistic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    Sorry but I think it will fail. If a guy is looking for a real girlfriend, he'll usually go out and find one/or pay one to pretend she likes him. It's more realistic.

    You know, I thought about that and you know I luvs ya But I disagree lol. I definitely see your point though. But I think it could work. Just like how guys pay for online sex. Why don't they just go get laid in real life? Beats me. But the porn/ internet adult industry is a billion dollar industry, nonetheless. It's about keeping the fantasy alive. Some men are drawn to fantasy even more so than reality! They are looking for escape. Perhaps they don't want to deal with all the crazy shyt and drama that comes from a REAL relationship. I think it would just have to be marketed the right way and target the right CROWD. That would be really important.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
    You know, I thought about that and you know I luvs ya But I disagree lol.
    That's ok!

    Just like how guys pay for online sex. Why don't they just go get laid in real life?
    Simply because they are not ready to take things that far. However, I know a lot of hobbyist (men that patronize escorts) that watch webcam shows! They watch it because they like it .. not because it's a replacement for BCD/in person action.

    Some men are drawn to fantasy even more so than reality! They are looking for escape.
    This is why there are FBSM providers .

    Perhaps they don't want to deal with all the crazy shyt and drama that comes from a REAL relationship.
    This is why men see escorts. Escorts (Good ones) don't come with drama. You pay me and for that hour or however long we'll be together I'll rock your world.. ya see? That is fantasy. When they go home, reality sets in.

    I think it would just have to be marketed the right way and target the right CROWD.
    Anything is possible online.

    Think about it though. A lot of camgirls don't have time for boyfriends .. would an online boyfriend be a good replacement? Hell no. You can't replace an online girl with an escort. Men know we're out there and if they were going to spend money on any sort of girlfriend, they would rather have a real live person.

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    I think its a very interesting idea!

    For me it would be draining,because of the amount of time youd have to devote to a guy like that.....they need *a lot* of attention.

    Ive come across guys like that across the years....one of my best and favorite cam customers would even send me a few hundred dollars at a time just so that I would pay attention only to him and not do shows with anyone else. He was awesome though, and really was a lot of fun to talk to..he wasnt demanding or anything either. Definitely mutually beneficial Ive also had guys that would love the emailing, and send gifts and just pay me to be on cam and talk..not even do anything sexual... they just liked the company.

    Most guys like this dont want to actually have sex with someone else..whether its because theyve decided being with another woman isnt worth risking their marriage, or they have a disability, or just lonely or what have you... but want the emotional connection with the sexy twist and can afford to pay for it.

    I think anyone who does do something like this would not have the time to be able to do regular cam shows....and I can tell you, one guy can be very, very time consuming...especially if they pay a good amount of money, they will feel that you should be ready to entertain them at a moments notice..and if you dont then they will withdraw and threaten to find someone else or just move on if you dont give them more attention.

    But for someone who doesnt mind and can keep up with being a virtual girlfriend, it could be very profitable....Its not a very big market, but that may well be because that concept hasnt been marketed. Which is where your idea comes in

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    Good points, ladies! Thank you Touring and Blk for your contributions to this thread! I think it is healthy for us to have friendly discussions about matters like this and talk about what does and doesn't work, and why! I've learned a lot from both of you!

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    When I think of this concept the first person who comes to mind is SW's own SpexyAshleigh... on MFC she's soooo the "girlfriend" type in my opinion. She like, just chills out with her guys, playing cute fun games with them, being her regular, pretty sweet funny self and the guys are just so addicted to her. She even said before in a thread when she moved they pretty much bought her thousands of dollars worth of furniture, and when she had surgery and couldn't show the vag/masturbate they just *gave* her money. Like, that's what boyfriends do for their girlfriends. Y'know?

    I've also seen some verrrrry loyal customers of other girls like sit and stay in their fave girls' chat rooms when they are off in private for long stretches of time. That's like, online boyfriend behavior rather than "wham bam thank you ma'am". I've had a few experiences myself online that are borderline online girlfriend. That's the only reason I've been able to sustain a decent living without really camming for the past few months. So I definitely think it could work. Though I do think it takes a special kind of girl to pull it off. I couldn't see it working for the vast majority of cam girls, honestly. That's just my opinion.

    I know exactly what you're talking about Angel, but I don't think such a listing site exists. I think that's the thing that you might have to cultivate on your own in order for it to really work. Like, I don't think the guys who wind up becoming online sugar daddies necessarily seek out that experience. I think it just *happens* to them when they meet the right girl. You know?

    Just my 2 cents. But I'd rather have 3 or 4 of those guys and nobody else than to have to plow my delicate bits for 2 minute wankers all night, that's for sure. In fact, that's my goal with camming. To cultivate as many of those guys as I can and leave the rest of the annoying "bb" guys for everyone else. They suck.

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    Bump! I still wanna know if there are any sites out there like this

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    Hey

    You could try www.adultwork.com. They are basically like a profile site where customers can book appointments with adult industry workers. Escorts and the like are all on the site, but it has a camming community too. I don't know too much about it but could well be worth looking into if you really want that sort of thing

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
    I really want to explore and optimize the "online gilrfriend/gfe" concept because I want regulars who are basically looking for a cyber affair/online girlfriend and spend lots of time talking to me while I still have my clothes on LOL.
    It sounds like what you are describing is sort of a princess-worship type thing.

    Look through Niteflirt. There are a lot of profiles like that. (Now getting actual calls through there is another story, ugh). I've had a hard time since AT&T pulled out.

    There's a market for it but I kind of doubt it would be profitable for anyone to promote us. You'd need to find your own customers likely.

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    This is similar to princess-worship, but princess-worship is more a Domme thing as it requires you to act spoiled and bitchy and is based around a more D/s relationship. A bit different than a GFE IMO.

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    This is a cool concept and I actually thought of this myself. The only issue would be that men typically that want sugar babies would actually want to meet them. Many sugar daddies want to be able to see this women in person , have her around him, see the smile on her face when he pulls out an expensive necklace. With cam the guy doesn't get so personal as to have access to the girl like this. Plus you would have to fight with the sugar babies that meet these guys in person. See the control is with the SD's in the world. Now what kind of control would they have if the girl could just log out on them? It leaves them at the mercy of the girl and guys in power positions that want to still dominate tend to not like this method. I mean the sugar daddies of the world could easily sign up on cam sites and attempt to connect with a model and see if she would be interested to meet him ( we already get those types that disappear when they realize it will not happen).

    So for now the guys that are ok with keeping it on cam will still go to cam girls. The guys looking to actually fuck sugar babies with a monthly allowance will continue to stay on those sugar dating sites. Some also like the lure of cheating so being in the same room would make them feel like whooa this girl is right here! I can fuck her if I wanted to. See? It's just not cost effective for a guy to play with cam girls when he can get a live one ready and willing to take his allowance in the bent over position.

    Ohh an btw I know not all sugar babies sleep with their SD's but many and I mean many do.

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    Hey ladies

    I have to say when reading this you are basically describing what my experience on ifriends was like hence why i am going to go back... Unfortunately I dunno if there are sites like that there should be. You have to position yourself as being the girlfriend type doing everything just for them... I like the idea of this and when my dad passed away and i didnt cam for over a month i had member send me 3000.00 over the period of two monthes... he has NEVER seen me naked or even in less than regular clothes.

    Curious though is there cam sites positioned to money slaves ??? If not someone needs to do that... Its a niche market but the sugar daddy money slave thing is incredibly profitable

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    Quote Originally Posted by hellocutie View Post
    Hey ladies

    I have to say when reading this you are basically describing what my experience on ifriends was like hence why i am going to go back... Unfortunately I dunno if there are sites like that there should be. You have to position yourself as being the girlfriend type doing everything just for them... I like the idea of this and when my dad passed away and i didnt cam for over a month i had member send me 3000.00 over the period of two monthes... he has NEVER seen me naked or even in less than regular clothes.

    Curious though is there cam sites positioned to money slaves ??? If not someone needs to do that... Its a niche market but the sugar daddy money slave thing is incredibly profitable
    There's several social networking Domme sites that cater to the financial domination fetish that have cam options, none of them pay unless someone decides to send you money via tipping or outside the site.

    However, as many have stated previous, you're a big fish in a small pond with that fetish. There's literally 10 Dommes to every 1 slave. To top this off, most finslaves are flakes/fakes. I found I make more $$$ when I focus on other fetishes, than trying to "chase" non-existant finslaves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mistresscyn View Post
    There's several social networking Domme sites that cater to the financial domination fetish that have cam options, none of them pay unless someone decides to send you money via tipping or outside the site.

    However, as many have stated previous, you're a big fish in a small pond with that fetish. There's literally 10 Dommes to every 1 slave. To top this off, most finslaves are flakes/fakes. I found I make more $$$ when I focus on other fetishes, than trying to "chase" non-existant finslaves.

    Which sites ? I prefer fetish work but only have ever worked on vanilla xxx sites and would love to branch out more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hellocutie View Post
    Which sites ? I prefer fetish work but only have ever worked on vanilla xxx sites and would love to branch out more.
    There's a bunch, but some of them are lifestylist-based, so if you haven't read "S&M 101" by Jay Wiseman, I'd highly-recommend it.

    It'll step up your game if nothing else.

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