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This comment annoys the piss out of me. I feel like saying "no shit, Sherlock." As a dancer in Tampa (where stripper often = prostitute), this is usually the guy's way of trying to get a dancer to promise/allude to extras.
Strip clubs are a tease. They are supposed to be! Strippers aren't there to "satisfy" a man... our goal is to keep him hungry! Sometimes if I'm feeling snarky and a guy says this, I'll just respond with something like, "well if you're looking to buy sex, I can point you to the right street corner..." or, "if I wanted to get paid for sex, I wouldn't be dancing."
I HATE this too... I had one guy once who I saw buy 6 dances from another girl who went home sick right after, and then, when I tried to sell him on dances from me, he kept saying how it was such a tease and if he bought dances from me, he would want to kiss me and blah blah blah blah blah.... He eventually went to the ATM and gave me a $20 tip for "putting up with his bs." But that's still much less than the $120 he gave the other dancer for actual dances...
These guys are basically just looking for extras, IMO. They are trying to get you to promise "more than a tease" if they pay for a dance. When I get these guys, I maybe spend a few seconds saying "Well, yeah, that's what the strip club is about. Why are you here if you didn't want a tease? Why can't we just have fun here? etc etc..." but if they won't bite - just say "Sorry I can't give you what you're looking for. I guess you're in the wrong place then. I'll be around if you change your mind" and get up and walk away. I would always say "So, have you changed your mind?" the next time I walked past but if I they hadn't (which was most of time) I would just say "Oh, too bad..." and walk away quickly. Just roll your eyes and say 'fuck these guys.' They don't get the system and think they can play you. I think one of the best rules of hustling is knowing when to move on instead of trying to keep selling to a lost cause.





Of course they are looking for extras. I have treis a few lines, but they dont seem to help. I owuld love to hear some creative lines that work.
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I think they are most often time wasters and/or extras seekers. I take this as a signal to not waste too much time. I don't have the patience for that bullshit. It's like going to a car lot and pretending to be interested in buying a car...and then telling the salesperson, "oh, I don't know... cars are just a mode of transportation."
"Strip clubs are just a tease" is translated (in my mind) to "I don't have any money" or "I want you to suck my cock because I'm too much of a pussy to go pay a prostitute for it."![]()





If a guy eludes to anything in a club, even if I know who provides, I won't say who I know does extras. First, why would I want to increase this in the industry? I don't want people thinking we do those things. Second, directing a customer to where they can receive these services is pandering... which means you could still get a ticket. Usually if they start up games with me I'll either move on right away or see how far they take it. If they solicit me, I report the to the manager... & the clubs I return to often are the ones where managers actually remove the customers for this.
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I actually find that these customers are usually the ones who come in with a friend or group who are all up for buying dances but this one just got dragged in by peer pressure. You can try telling them that if they've been disappointed by dances before then they just haven't found the right dancer yet and that your dance is truly not something to miss out on.
I also try the angle that it's an art form and they should seize the opportunity to experience and appreciate it while they're here.




I'm pretty sure every dancer has heard this excuse and every dancer has spent way too much time trying to convince the guy anyway. there isn't a magic word to get him to buy a dance. just move on. appreciate the fact that they're at least being honest unlike the "maybe later" guys who'll keep you coming back until the club is 5 mins from closing and they'll STILL say "later, later"





Agree with Tampa. Those dudes are time wasters, hinting for extras or just plain fkn cheap. If it's busy i'll just walk away.
If the club is sort of dead, i'll tell him.. "Well, that's the point!" *big smile* "Let me tease you". If he declines, I wont waste my time either.
I have no patience.





"of course it is, a very sexy, fun, tease." or something along those lines. be dismissive of their concerns and lighthearted. then use 'fuck me eyes' to get them thinking with their dick again.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.




Seriously just cut him off and change the subject.
Yes it could mean they're looking for exrtras but honestly some guys don't know any better or how to talk to strippers.
Most guys are pretty up front and say they want a bj/hj.
Just be careful of cops because they will try and draw info out of you to make a bust.





I once told a customer the following line: "I'm a stripteaser, not a strippleaser; that's why our stage show is called striptease, not stripplease".
Obviously, he didn't buy a dance but some other customer overheard what I said and he did buy a dance.
Things I've said in the past,
"you're the one teasing me, I want to get naked for you in the back and have you play with me" or "stop with this bullshit or you'll give me blue balls, lets get back there and get to business".
Its kind of authority mixed with extreme innuendo but I've found that once they're back there, they kind of keep going with the dances. Often they know they won't be able to stop from getting another dance once they start.
It works for me since my tactic is that I behave as if I'm deeply attracted to the guy. They really think I want them. I'm still not a top earner though so maybe I should learn something else! Just putting in my two cents.


I just get pissed and say:
'You know this is a strip club... right? That's what we do here. This place is just one big fucking tease. And that's what you want, because you came to a strip club, not a brothel. So let's go do some teasing'
And normally they just nod in agreement lol.





i just say its called a strip-tease for a reason
and try to get em focused on the sale again
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"of course its a tease, but that doesn't make it any less fun...." (followed by coy smile). Thats basically the one line response i use. If the customers next reply is "ok, ill take a dance", then great, but if they still seem on the fence or try to change the subject I usually just assume their cheap, time-wasters, or an idiot who just doesn't understand the basic concept of a strip club so i walk away









I usually give them a dirty ole smile and lean into their ear/look into their eyes and say "It's only a tease when its done properly" I tell them when they go for dances if it doesn't make them horny as hell then they haven't been teased properly.



" You loved to be teased or your would have stayed at home!"
" Sometimes being teased can be fun"
" You have to have an appetizer before you can have a main course."
If he's really insistent then I don't have time to waste and I will tell the guy that what he is looking for is illegal and quite frankly while I appreciate the honesty he ought to be ashamed of himself for treating me such way and asking. Telling security/managers sometimes works and when it does I am greatful and tip accordingly as well as return frequently to that club.
Sometimes guys say " Oh it's a tease" because they want someone to play back with them but often it's because they want more than a dance so be careful and don't waste your time with an extras seeker because even if you do sell VIP or dances to them you will be frustrated because you'll dodge hands the whole time. I just politely say I don't do that and walk away.




I still don't bother with the "it's such a tease" guys. most times I'll just do a 180 spin on my heels and walk away. if the guy is an asshole I'll say "there are some girls here who'll give you what you're looking for, but your dick will fall off." or I'll just ask them what the hell they're doing at a strip club then and I might make fun of them for being a broke loser if I'm in a bitchy mood, but most of the time I just walk away.




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I usually say "oh okay, go try the street corner then!" and wander off to make some money.
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