http://vimeo.com/12030156
I'll post my opinion after I hear yours, because I have so much to say but I want people to engage so I can get the general consensus.
http://vimeo.com/12030156
I'll post my opinion after I hear yours, because I have so much to say but I want people to engage so I can get the general consensus.
I've seen studies before where people in general will give more attractive people more attention which will lead to better opportunities. If sex is promoted with a outfit or more make-up & wild hair men will always think she may be looking for a mate which will trigger men to think I may be the one & offer something for her attention. A woman that dresses down doesn't trigger the same emotion. I do love a woman that knows how to get what she wants though. Men aren't inferior, we just know our role.


haha, this is why we have jobs. There is a really funny episode of the Tyra show where she does something pretty similar. At the end she is like omg that sucked. lol
that could have been selectively edited, but ....DUH.
So hot women get more free stuff and preferential treatment than plain/ugly women? You don't say?
Still, it was interesting to watch.





I've noticed this myself. When I am vamped up with nice makeup and clothes men give me what I want. When I am dressed down I don't get as much attention. I've also noticed though that while men are turned on when I look hot they often just think of me as playmate material but dressed down they often look at me as more wife material.



A hot guy hitting on a girl in the office is fun flirting. An unattractive guy hitting on a woman in the office is sexual harassment.



That's not the point. The limits are different when the person looks nice. If he's ugly than any advance, however minor, could be unwarranted. Someone attractive is welcomed.
And in this video, someone on a blog pointed out that the woman is generally more flirty in her "hot" getup. Her demeanor factors in.





Haha! I love how fast she got a drink at the first bar.
Doesn't seem to matter how I dress, even when I look like a slob I have people coming up to me when I'm alone in public. She ended up getting a drink as her dowdy self in the end, and I think the guy who offered it to her had a better personality than the one who bought her the champagne.
Very interesting little video. THanks OP!
Maybe it's just me, but I don't like being approached by any strange men when I'm out on the town, whether he is gorgeous, busted, or otherwise. This is part of the reason I refuse to go out to the clubs with only my female friends. I must have a male with me because the amount of attention I get is disturbing. It's definitely not a good thing. And a lot of men say "well don't wear sexy clothes if you don't want attention." So I guess in order to enjoy a night out with my friends without being bothered by perverts or potential perverts I have to wear a burka or extremely dowdy clothing. So I must alter my desirability just to avoid gawking, leering, and rude comments. I realize not all guys have evil intentions, but when they are offering to buy me a drink they're not staring at my personality.
The funny thing is that even when I go out to the supermarket in yoga or sweat pants, a t-shirt and no makeup, I still have some freaks hollering at me from across the parking lot. I still have men chasing me down in the store aisles asking for my number. Or even less subtle, guys just muttering obscene things about my body or looks when I'm walking past. I've had guys even make lewd comments about me while my 6'5" boyfriend was standing mere inches away. BUT I step inside the strip club, dolled up in heels, and all of a sudden these same types of guys have no interest in buying dances from me and I leave with 80 dollars.
I may sound bitter because yes I most certainly am. I'm good enough to be pestered at all hours of the day in public, so it's obvious that I'm not unattractive. And it's not as though I express these sentiments to men in the club because even though these circumstances sicken me, I'm not dumb enough to let that show. I still want to make money.
But I have come to believe that all men genuinely care about is sex, unless they are pimps or businessmen, then they put money over sex. But they still love sex. Men are inferior in my opinion because their mind is constantly focused on having an orgasm with someone who is most likely way out of their league, and they will do ghastly, stupid, and completely regrettable things just to get closer to some pussy. Then they come in the SC and think it's Hometown Buffet! All of a sudden they have 50 girls to deny at will, and I happen to be one of them! But in real life, they'd be at the neighborhood bar panting after me like the wolf from Red Hot Riding Hood.
Anyway this is mostly a rant that was sparked by that video. I'm venting.



This was soo funny thanks for the post!
slut it out responsibly and don't forget to smile while you're whoring out!!
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Nah, there are good men but they are hard to find and not guys that generally approach women. I've gotten approached by many men and 90% of them are creepy and unattractive (and no, the two things don't mean the same). Like I got asked out by a guy wearing a mullet, had little teeth (the others were yellow) driving a pickup truck with a Confederate Flag. I mean, really am I that ugly that I get approach by losers like him? No, it's just that decent guys are a little intimidated by attractive women.



Of course I was speaking in general. But I said "hitting on," which you interpreted as "unwarranted sexual attention from anyone who pushes limits and makes a person feel degraded." That's a big leap to me, and a rather scary one. Whatever negative experiences you've had could be the reason for that.
But if you accept this video as a good experiment, it's reasonable to say that the guy who is more likely to give a sexy woman free stuff is comparable to a girl being more likely to give the time of day to a sexy man.





Regarding what you said, I do agree that sexier men have it easier. However, the reason why it may appear sexier men have it easier is because they have more selection, whereas an ugly man may not. However, nothing turns off a woman more than a man who's way below her lookwise, yet keeps wanting her while turning down women at his level. I get so annoyed when unattractive men contact me online while the guys I am interested in ignore me. In most of these cases the unattractive man often complains about the women on these sites but he's at the same level. By unattractive I am not exactly talking looks, but everything else, like obesity. Yet to some men they try for women above their league then complain because they are shot down.
Btw, just to be clear I am NOT talking about women being superficial. I have a look I like and it's not typically handsome. However, there is a look I find repulsive and these guys are the one who contact me and they usually have nasty personalities to boot. It's these guys, rarely the hot guys who make dirty comments to me.
It's funny, you're right. Usually the nastiest looking guys ALSO have shit personalities and it makes you wonder how they ever get around in the world. But I suppose that's where we find some of the desperate ones who are always being predatory/hitting on every attractive female in sight/paying for sex/asking for extras in the club.
I have never in my life been in a serious relationship with someone who was traditionally attractive. I find "sexy" guys to be a bore. Looks are not so appealing to me because I find that it's easy for a handsome man to be more abusive, since he knows that it is not difficult to find women. What's more tiresome is the handsome guy who knows what he is, and uses it to be a self-obsessed womanizer. I always give men a chance if their personality stirs something that I find intriguing. They generally become sexier to ME as time goes on.

hot women have it easier because men allow them to have it easier, therefore men are superior.....jks
hot women definitely have it easier. A very attractive women can have no talent or skills and just by virtue of being hot they are put on the same level as highly successful men who have had to work hard for their success.
For men, I don't think looks are a major advantage. I am an average looking guy and i dont feel that I am at a significant disadvantage to a very handsome friend of mine. While he does get a lot of attention due to his looks, there is no way he can leverage his attractiveness as much as a hot girl can.
Actually, the comparable experiment for a man would be to do this....
Day one-Go out dressed in clean and neat but cheap clothes, no jewelry, very plain haircut, driving an economy car, and try to be obvious about not having money...and then try to approach women in public places where it's appropriate to approach them, and try to get phone numbers, or help with directions, or the like...and then....
Day two...do the same thing, but this time wearing obviously expensive clothes, a Rolex, nice shoes, driving a BMW, nicely done hair, and flashing money.
See which one works.
I'm sure money is more of an attractive trait for women than physical looks because women are not as motivated by visuals and horniness. And yes, I'm sure it would be easier for someone who appeared rich to score dates. Of course a guy in a luxury car would have better luck than a guy in a Kia Forte. But, it just goes back to women innately searching for a provider or someone who is best suited to create a family. Just like mens testosterone pushes them to act on sexual urges and think with their penises. It's all biological, really. But after many years of being propositioned, bugged, and damn near assaulted on the streets, excuse me for not having a positive point of view regarding the current state of affairs regarding the inequality in the realm of sexuality.










And this is gender-specific how?
All else being equal, beautiful people are superior to ugly people. This is new? It wasn't the face of Helen of Troy's ugly older sister who launched a thousand ships, and JFK gets a free pass in the history books for cheating on his wife.
I'd have tripped over myself buying the "ugly" version of girl in the video a drink, if she'd approached me, but even un-dolled up her is out of my league so don't listen to my opinion.





I don't really know that this was as fair as it could have been. The "dressed up" version shows off more cleavage. They could have done a "dressed down" version with a low-cut tank top & half decent hair. Who the hell goes out with their hair looking like that?! I do agree though dressing up does tend to get better results in savings.This video, should have gone into bigger savings. I've been upgraded on car rentals from the economy to luxury simply with leaning over the sales counter a bit much. Similar things have happened with hotels, etc. So the difference shown was much smaller than it could have been.
With that said, this video totally makes me feel justified about the expensive pieces of clothing in my wardrobe!
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Ugh not with me. When I was dating, if a man was not attractive I don't care how much money they had- if I couldn't see myself fucking them, then I wouldn't date them. I'm not saying I wanted a broke ass, but I'm the kind of chick who buys the second round of drinks or will buy treats when you pay for movie tickets. I didn't want presents. I wanted someone I liked. That's presents enough.
The rest of this... was just sort of DUH for me. It doesn't mean men are "inferior". It's just basic human nature.
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