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    Sry. everyone, deleted my posts, as I said I might. Mods, up to you if you want to delete this thread.

    But to wrap up. Thanks everyone for your responses. I've had my 'moment of clarity' and figured that talking it out with all here helped me get to my conclusion.

    Basically, I promised a girl something that I could do for her. And I really meant it too. And we came to trust each other and all. But in all my horniness and lonelyness, I forgot what I promised and became upset and confused when she rightfully took me up for what I offered up to her.

    She sensed something was wrong, but couldn't figure it out since I didn't tell her. But if I go back and we stay friends, I hope I can honestly tell her what I came to realize here and that she forgives me for being a dick.

    I do love her and do wish her all the best in life.
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    What were expecting, and what did you get during your "dance"? Did this "dance" differ from previous ones you've gotten from her?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lfr View Post
    Just a question, I feel stupid, confused and awkward and I may ask to delete this later. I don't want anybody at the club to potentially find out about this (particularly her), but what does it mean if you get a lapdance and the girl doesn't 'dance'.
    For me this would be simple, first I would try to figure out if there was something I was doing wrong to possibly be crossing the dancers boundries and making her feel uncomfortable with me. If I've done nothing wrong, then I would just take my $$$ and move on to another dancer.
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    Usually the better you get to know dancers, the better the dances get (typically).

    But sometimes, when a dancer knows she has you hooked, she can back off and not work as hard, since she feels she no longer has to. It happens.

    The only way to know for sure is to ask her if you get the opportunity.

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    Sounds to me like this dancer sees you as easy money & has become lazy. Maybe you two had such conversations going on in the past during dances that she thought you were more interested in the conversation, & less in the dance? Next time you get a dance say something like "I'd love to, I really love seeing you dance... but last time you didn't." then hand her the money, that way she knows that you really expect her to dance.
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