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    i have to be blunt. my bf is driving me CRAZY. he does a lot for me, don't get me wrong, but i am just feeling neglected.

    i haven't had a job since...07/08, not for lack of trying, went back to school, graduated with a massage degree last year, passed my licensure exam, but haven't gotten my license because it's $200 (where the dancing is supposed to be coming in) anyway, my two girls and i live with him, the youngest is his, he got me a car and pays for everything, house, gas, etc...so he does a lot for us...problem is...he parties ALL the time. we are both really into edm, and we used to travel to events TOGETHER even after i wasn't working, we would go to WMC every year and stuff. well, that has long since stopped. HE keeps on going, but i'm stuck here ALL THE TIME. it's just really pissing me off. he travels for work during the week, i get that, but every fkn weekend he is off to miami, orlando, denver, ny, california, and now EDC VEGAS!!! not to mention he's planning a solo trip to spain. i'm just really sore about this. am i out of line here??? after i found about his vegas trip i called him and we started fighting about it...my thing is he could sacrifice some of the trips, and we could BOTH go instead of being so selfish. but he says it's not his problem i don't have a job, ergo, no cash to travel with him, and that I am being selfish. my thing is i am his freaking personal assistant, plus a full time mom. (i do admit i am a shitty house keeper though, i don't know if it is my add or what, but i have a hard time keeping shit uncluttered, toys, clothes, etc) ...i mean...edc vegas is coming up in another week or so. i really want to go. and i feel really ...just GRRRRRRR towards him. i just want really neutral advice...like from people not friends with either of us...what do you think? am i in the wrong? please keep in mind, i hardly EVER get to go out, even to the grocery store ALONE. going out partying is even more rare.
    anyway, thanks for the input.
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    hey, i reposted in life support. would one of the mods mind deleting this thread for me please? i'm kinda computer rere and can't figure out how. thanks

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