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    I just started dancing again. Im trying to save money to move out of my grandparents basement and still kinda recovering finacially from a divorce. Anyway Im working in a smaller club that durring the week seems to have mostly regulars and Im finding it hard to edge my way into the fold. Tomorrow and Saturday are my first weekendays so we will see if they are different. But my question is for this type of club how do I get money out of these club regs? Do I just need to stick it out and become a familiar face? Also Ive been told I need to learn how to flirt, I guess I have no game and I can kinda admit that. Is there a flirting for dummies book? lol IF anyone can give me some pointers I would apreciate it, Ive also been reading Hustle Hut a lot when I have time. Two jobs kinda leave me exausted. Hope you girls have a great weekend!
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    Default Re: Hustle in a small club

    I'm new, too. But, I think flirting will come naturally to anyone who is feeling Sexy (yes, Sexy with a capital S). Get yourself all dolled up and admire yourself before stepping out of the dressing room. Glance at yourself in the mirrors in the club as you strut across the club. I've realized I am able to catch customer's attention from across the club, as soon as I come out of the dressing room when I carry myself this way. I love when I pretend to not see them waiting and hoping I walk by them so they can try to talk to me.
    I also think that being conservative outside of work has been beneficial in making me feel foxy at work, and thereby taking on a flirtatious persona. I had never in my life curled my hair + smokey sexy makeup + lingerie + sky high heels. Since I'm still new I catch a glimpse of myself in a mirror and am pleasantly surprised at the pretty girl I see.
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    1. Your stage shows need to be really good.

    They probably already have their favourite entertainer, but if your stage shows impress them they will be more likely to tip. When they come in closer to tip, thank them & try to introduce yourself. Over time they will get comfortable. Chances are they know their regular favourites schedule, so if they want a dance from you they are more likely to do it on a day that their favourite isn't around.


    2. Be extra friendly & smile.

    This simply makes them feel more comfortable approaching & talking to you... which is part of your goal.


    3. Try to find a way to work into the conversation what days you are working.

    Again, if they are going to get a dance from you it's more likely to be when their favourite isn't around (chances are they know her schedule)... but they still need to know when you'll be around.


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    You have a whole city at your fingertips with social media so start using sites like Facebook & Twitter. If you want to be sneaky about it you could even find some of the dancers from you club, go through their friends lists, & add any guys who appear to have multiple other dancers on their friends list.
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    Default Re: Hustle in a small club

    It's hard in a regulars club because they expect you to talk to them a whole lot because they are "there all the time". They already have favorites who do talk to them alot and know how they function and how long they have to talk before asking for a dance if he will even buy a dance at all. So with alot of these regular customers it's a hit or miss. If the girls are friendly I will just ask them which customers are regulars and which actually buy dances. If they are nice or bored enough maybe they will divulge that info.

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    #1 I would say get in with the other dancers. If they like you they can help you out to no end! If they already know the customers then they'll pounce on the best ones first. If you can be invited over by another girl this could lead to you also adopting this regular.

    #2 Make notes to remember things about the guys. Name, job, interests, anything he compliments you on. Then when he comes back you can refer to your notes and ask him how he his, how the new car is, and when you dance you remember whether he liked it slow and sensual or more light hearted. These guys like to be remembered.

    #3 Be patient. I'm not saying throw away your time but I do find that regulars take a little more time. Sit, chat, sip your drink, flirt and be as charming as you can. He needs to feel that yyoure both enjoying each others company. Regulars know the system so he probably has an idea how much he wants to spend and in what way, so it's just a matter of getting him to decide to spend it on you. Hell, my best regular and I don't even speak the same language, but I sit, giggle, repeat the words he says in a funny way until he stands up and points to the VIP. It's boring as he'll but he doesn't know that!!

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    Yes ^ and get in with the bouncers and waitresses. They can also tell you "oh that guy is in here every single day but he NEVER buys dances" or "Yeah, he will buy x amount of dances but likes to sit and chat for a long time". That way you at least know somewhat what you are walking into.

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    Flirting for Dummies=SUPERFLIRT by Tracy Cox. Excellent resource. I highly recommend it.


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    thanks ladies all geat advice, Im gonna go strut my stuff tonight I'll also fine that book on Amazon.
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    Default Re: Hustle in a small club

    I think it's important to see whether this club is worth it or not-I have worked at very small clubs where I banked after getting into the swing of things, but also small clubs that were full of cheap, PBR-drinking regulars that wouldn't get a dance if you grew a second vagina. But if you think these are GOOD regulars, just do ll the afore metioned, and if not, perhaps you can switch clubs.

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    Default Re: Hustle in a small club

    This sounds very much like my club, and I LOVE Saturday day shifts because there are way less girls and regulars. The weekdays can be tricky and it will likely take you a while to get your own roster of regulars, but if you follow all the tips here (good attitude, good stage show, getting in with dancers/staff) then you'll do fine. I recommend picking a day (or more, depending on your availability) and consistently working that day every week. So, you work every Wednesdays or whatever. That consistency is what's going to help you get regulars over time!

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    Yeah, keep a scheadule.

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