Where is the line between emotional abuse and thoughtless impulsiveness?
thursday night fight
me: hey you took my spot on the couch..
hubby: fine ill find a new place to stay!
That was last night..
My husband is unmedicated and threatens to leave when small things don't please him, and the pathetic thing is I'm acually feeling scared.
In the past we would have periods of calm, everything comfy and predcitable then every 5 months or so out of nowhere he will start getting irate, beliggerent, threaten to leave, etc. Basically like a competely different, cruel person... this is not the considerate, kind, reasonable man I started dating again last September
So I am aware bp gets worse with age left untreated... and i have no money for counseling that is $$$. I am going to try going to a counselor at YWCA. . I am having a hard time handling this and feel like I am the glue holding the marriage together who suggested "date night," him seeing a therapist in the past who diagnosed him with bp, and picking my battles( not fight about petty shit) but imo, you don't threated to leave your spouse unless you are dead serious so this crosses the line for me.
Advice/support/suggestions ~~~ pep talk
feel free to add your own experiences this is mine- its a struggle but maybe a solution is in the future..



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