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    Default Don't Be A Bitch.

    Seriously! All the time I see a lot of girls on here being catty and bitchy. Is it really necessary? People come on here to vent or to ask for advice, not to get their throat chewed into itty bitty pieces. At least try to be nice as I'm sure you wouldn't want people to be mean to you.

    All the bitchiness is just scaring people away. This is a community and we should all be there to support one another.

    Just my two cents. We're all big girls. Why not act like it?


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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    So far I have seen approximately 3 "Don't be a bitch" and "Do you come here for drama" threads. What are yall trying to accomplish with these threads? This is not preschool. Bitches won't stop being bitches because you tell them to. That's why they're bitches right? For all I know you could be talking about me but I've really been trying to stay away from the drama. In fact, I'm sick of it myself. It's like World of WarCraft camgirl edition around these parts. I'm sick of it but am I going to start another "I'm sick of it" thread? No it's silly. Everyone here is an adult. At least I think so.

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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lights View Post
    Seriously! All the time I see a lot of girls on here being catty and bitchy. Is it really necessary? People come on here to vent or to ask for advice, not to get their throat chewed into itty bitty pieces. At least try to be nice as I'm sure you wouldn't want people to be mean to you.

    All the bitchiness is just scaring people away. This is a community and we should all be there to support one another.

    Just my two cents. We're all big girls. Why not act like it?
    I agree with you! if you dont have anything nice to say...just dont say it
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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    Seriously the best thing to do, is to avoid the drama threads. Yes bitchy unproductive people are annoying, but all you have to do is exit that thread and don't look back. I admit sometimes it's entertaining lol, but how can you get your work done if you read long ass bitchy threads? I am not here that much anymore because I simply have work to do. So bitchy or positive, I just don't have the time. I am trying to get out of debt and get my new car. I think it will only bring drama creating these threads, anyway. The bitchy people will come here to bitch lmao. Hhahah that's what they do. Just laugh it off and ignore them. there is an ignore button here, you know? Or just leave those drama threads alone. What is the point of telling people to be nice? Do you think people don't know how to be nice? Lol some people like being bitchy so leave them alone, and worry about getting to work.


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    ^ Exactly Ameera. I used to like being bitchy but those days are gone. I still have my little bitchy moments but who doesn't? I think everyone has a mean bone in their body. You guys have to remember, this is a public board. This site has grown in the past few months. It's a gold mine and people from all walks of life are flocking here. Do not expect someone else to think like you or feel the way you do on a certain subject. It's silly. You'll just have to know how to deal with people that rub you the wrong way (even me).

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    Totally agree TG. I know there are some offensive people here, but just ignore them. Seriously they are just anonymous people on the internet. In life we will always come across people who don't like us, or who we don't like. You just have to have thick skin and a good sense of humor. Seriously some of the drama here is hilarious. I could grab a drink and a bag of popcorn and be entertained all night LOL. But I got work to do. I don't even have time for it. PLUS some people are really getting entertained by pissing you off! Keep that in mind, and don't feed the trolls lol. We need more threads on here about money.

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    Lights what if you're normally a very nice person,but then someone just happens to bring the "bi*ch" out of you? Can you really blame them for going off? Why not just let everyone have their moment and move the hell on. Seriously most of us have never met and don't plan on ever meeting. So who gives a sh*t about the bi*ching? I get along with mostly everyone here. When the time comes for me to be "mean",I say what I have to say and get on about my way. Yes...its that easy!

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    I guess maybe one part of this is abbout me since I have had some bitchy posts lately.

    I will say I am incredibly bitchy as of lately - but then again, like I said before, I am abrasively honest - just the way it is with me.

    I apologize for those I have offended since I am a big enough of a person to do that...

    Anyone who has had a problem with anything I have said in anything, they can come tell in a message if they like. I do not mind.

    I am one of those people that doesn't mind hearing how someone feels about me only because I prefer honesty myself. Like I said, I've had some bitchy posts lately....so - if anyone is pissed at me - I apologize.

    But me being bitchy will not change - this place is an outlet most of the time along with my information pipeline so...it is what it is.

    Again - Yep - I was that bitch in a few cases and if I offended someone - I'm sorry. I'm a proud bitch and will stay up and say when I do wrong.

    Carry on ladies.
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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    No one ever calls me a bitch

    My ex husband did during our divorce, and then later on apologized and said he didnt mean it, that he only said it out of anger, and that Im the sweetest person he knows.

    I was so annoyed...lol! Id rather have bitchy moments than be too nice all the time.

    As for any bitchiness...I glaze over it for the most part. Especially online, its not always easy to guage someones tone. Ive seen people go up in arms because they interpreted the tone one way, and even Im confused cause I didnt pick up on it they way they percieved it. I always give benefit of a doubt though.

    I like a good debate and exchange of ideas/opinions, but when it starts getting "below the belt" I exit, and dont find the discussion all that interesting anymore.

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    Yep - I get called a bitch all the time - but I know I can be pretty abrasive so that's why I apologized in case I offended anyone....even though everyone is like we love your posts..LOL

    Just saying - I know how I get and I'm being a woman about it.

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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    I think newer girls take it as bitchy, whereas the ... more seasoned SWers know it's just the way the "bitches" post.


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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    Hell - I never take anything as bitchy...unless its like the girl who was posting about streammate.

    I see bitchy as a sign of good personality and spunkyness and I'll continue reading whatever it is. I'm becoming a seasoned poster here and I have to tell you that I LOVE LOVE LOVE the variety that is brought to the table here.

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    mmmmm on the other hand. Everybody has their own personality. Some people are 'bitches" some "sweet" and anything in the middle. We shouldnt ban somebody just because we don't like what they say. try to convert negative into positive.
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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    Most of us come to SW to GET AWAY FROM THE DRAMA. Seriously, like I said in my other post, Other Work section has turned into an online stripper dressing room. Enough already!! It's fine to have an opinion but some of you girls just go back and forth with each other for pages and pages and fucking pages until someone finally closes a thread. It's so tempting to just get a bunch of veteran SW'ers and get Other Work banned off this site completely. Go start your own website where you can tear each other down. Sheesh!

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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    I also think people misconstrue the honest truth, for bitchiness. Sometimes people need to hear the truth. Some people don't like it and will call you a bitch. Bitchy is trolling peoples chat rooms to tell on them when you should be worried about yourself. That's bitchy! But someone telling you the truth, without cussing you out, is just constructive criticism.

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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    I also think people misconstrue the honest truth, for bitchiness. Sometimes people need to hear the truth. Some people don't like it and will call you a bitch. Bitchy is trolling peoples chat rooms to tell on them when you should be worried about yourself. That's bitchy! But someone telling you the truth, without cussing you out, is just constructive criticism.
    Exactly! I don't sugarcoat anything. Even my TRUE friends know that about me. I'm not as "bitchy" as my online persona but I am very blunt and I expect others to be blunt and honest with me. I hate fake people and there are a lot of fake people here on sw. I never go out of my way to tear someone down. If I'm telling you something and you think it's bitchy, you can ignore it or thank me because others are thinking it and they're just not saying anything. That is just how some people are.

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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    Like others have said here..everyone is going to have a different point of view. It is hard to stomach some of the things we all say here. Hell, even some of the things I say lack alot of sugar coating and may hurt people. I dont mean to hurt people. SOmetimes the truth hurts and burns. If u dont prepare urself for some possible offensive opinions here then u rnt being very smart. To put urself out there and post at all u r opening urself up to hearing things u may not want to hear. Sometimes u may not want to hear some people's opinions. But one much remember u do not have to take them seriously..pick and choose..read between the lines and in the long run make ur own judgement call. Thats what I do here and Ive been a member for Idk between 7-9 years.

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    I think this is another well intentioned "let's come together" thread....I can't fault them for trying.
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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post
    I think newer girls take it as bitchy, whereas the ... more seasoned SWers know it's just the way the "bitches" post.

    I don't take ALL of it as bitchy but more like defensive and a lack of people skills.

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    I'm not calling anyone out. This thread was for noone specific and I know that everyone can be rubbed the wrong way and their bitchiness will come out into the open. Trust me...I can be this way too

    Opinions are totally fine but it's the pointless posts that are just said to be mean that I'm talking about. I mean really. What's the point? And then going on and on and on about pointless mean things that arent said to help or give advice but to just be mean. Some people should really just ignore it and not say anything at all. Stick to he thread topics. If you don't have anything to say about the thread topic then just ignore the post and move on! We're all in the same business. We all want to make money. That should be our main focus. It's not a contest about who can make fun of who more and how many people can you get to cancel their membership. Just be the bigger person. Just my opinion ladies

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    Hey - it's cool. I don't get mad at those sort of things. It's all good.
    Like I said, I owned up for my bitchyness - but I am just brutally honest. That's all.

    I mean I have a tendency to really crack on people butttt it's still honest LOL

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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    This is the cycle - people who are usually dramariffic, try for months not to be, then they let it leak out, withdraw it when they fear their popularity is in peril, then let it rip, get banned, or delete --- drama dies for a few months, and it returns as either the same culprits, their socks, or random new dramatastic people

    So just wait this cycle out or don't visit the site that often - youll barely notice or care if you only visit the site for set amounts of time.

    Also the ignore function really nixes its existence. Peopleget off on internet arguments - but its usually a feature of internet addiction, itll pass, the sense of camaraderie remains





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    Default Re: Don't Be A Bitch.

    I was always told growing up that "It's not always what you say, but HOW you say it."...I still slip up on it sometime, but I try to remind myself that I'm not out to make anyone feel worse. Not everyone is good at articulating what they are trying to say and not everyone here speaks English as a first language.

    And if they still keep it up, there's the IGNORE option on our control panels. I think many of us forget it's there. There's no reason to resort to name-calling, regardless of who started what first. Just step away, cool off, and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lights View Post
    Seriously! All the time I see a lot of girls on here being catty and bitchy. Is it really necessary? People come on here to vent or to ask for advice, not to get their throat chewed into itty bitty pieces. At least try to be nice as I'm sure you wouldn't want people to be mean to you.

    All the bitchiness is just scaring people away. This is a community and we should all be there to support one another.

    Just my two cents. We're all big girls. Why not act like it?
    Some can be catty, I think "bitch" is a relative statement. I've asked questions and don't get an answer, just a link posted to look it up...lmao...and I'm just like ok....I will look it up or just PM, someone. Some answer, some don't.
    Writing a post about cam police was being honest and real and needed to be talked about a long time ago...but for the most part, I do think people should be civil. I am civil until someone says something out the side of their neck to me and then I am no longer civil...at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lights View Post
    I'm not calling anyone out. This thread was for noone specific and I know that everyone can be rubbed the wrong way and their bitchiness will come out into the open. Trust me...I can be this way too

    Opinions are totally fine but it's the pointless posts that are just said to be mean that I'm talking about. I mean really. What's the point? And then going on and on and on about pointless mean things that arent said to help or give advice but to just be mean. Some people should really just ignore it and not say anything at all. Stick to he thread topics. If you don't have anything to say about the thread topic then just ignore the post and move on! We're all in the same business. We all want to make money. That should be our main focus. It's not a contest about who can make fun of who more and how many people can you get to cancel their membership. Just be the bigger person. Just my opinion ladies

    Does creating threads about cam girls and what they do in their show that are not even on here and trashing them fall into this category?

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