is it better to separate yourself from the crowd by looking or acting different?
share your strategies.




is it better to separate yourself from the crowd by looking or acting different?
share your strategies.





black lipstick, take my panties off from underneath my schoolgirl skirt always helps![]()
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest


Always wearing bright colours (although this suits my fake blonde look too), flashing 8 inch heels, and confidence.
I walk around the club with my back arched and my tits out like I own the place. And I agree with the above, I never look like I'm bored and doing nothing. If I can't get a booking from anyone downstairs, I will walk out, walk upstairs, grab a drink, and walk back down. And tits do help, my (massive, yay!) fake tits are what get me the most attention.









Definitely agree with looking busy and laughing lots. The aim is to look like the most fun and desirable girl in there. Flash customers a smile as you breeze past them, even when they're busy with another girl. Always be friendly and polite, no matter how rude the customer is. You never know who is watching you, and if you handle rejection from one customer well, another might be watching and admire your class and poise.
Looks-wise I would personally lean towards a look that appeals to a wide audience. Something like a minidress with a flattering cut and just enough sparkles. Something I feel confident in, with which I can let my personality shine.





I find sulking in dark corners playing my nintendo DSI works wonders....An "I don't give a fuck" attitude thrown in and I usually bank.....unless of course there are extenuating circumstances
but usually if customers see that you don't give a fuck, they're intrigued....Why isn't this girl pursuing me? Isn't she a money grubbing gold digging bitch? (yes)
Usually someone will wander over out of curiosity. I tell them "You better be giving me a lot of fucking money for interrupting my boss fight" 9 times out of 10 they fork over a CR. The other .01% it's some dumbass loser who can't afford a nanosecond of my time anyways.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
I am just me & I expect customers 2 trample over others to get to me cuz my milkshake brings all the boys 2 the bar. Last night for example there was a time there was only 3 custies 6 girls cuz I work at a small bar & the Heat game was on (later we got slammed & more girls came in). However I live in MIA so no1 even blinked from the screens except to start crying as they got their asses handed 2 them 4 being cocky mofos. Most dancers did the bore it's dead in here catwalk on stage, not me cuz I wasn't going to be out staged by a fckin game & you bet what cheers up those that probably lost 1000s on the game to feel better seeing a sexii stripper on stage bring it works every time. People wonder what makes me different then the next chick (ok really they never do when they see me in action they just respect I got it), but there is a reason why my regulars come in with gifts 4 me happy 2 spend their paychecks while nada else in happening. I had each 1 of those 3 guys competing 4 my attention before 1/2 time & while maybe they didn't watch every sec of my dance they all remembered my name & that I a dancer who was there they were going to spend on
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As other girls said, confidence and looking busy are key. Otherwise, it depends on your club. If all the girls were bikinis, wear a dress. If all the girls dance to pop music, dance to rock.


This is very true too. If there's only a handful of customers, and the girls on stage are just moving slowly around the pole cos no-ones tipping them and they dont give a fuck, I get the DJ to put me on stage, get him to put some hard-ass music on ('Lapdance' by N.E.R.D is my fav) and jump on the the pole and wip my hair around like I own the stage.
And the boys will wake up and go Huh? Who is this girl? And when I roll the tipping seats towards them, they're gonna tip me!





Shitting rainbows doesn't work for me.....I was a complete don't give a fuck bitch today and I banked..if it's not broke why fix it....shitting rainbows doesn't make customers materialize unless you pull em out of your ass.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest



It must be my stages as I'm quite sure it isn't my attire.
if there's a poor customer to dancer ratio i tend to put on my crazy padded bra, my highest pair of heels, and look like i'm busy and having a greaaat time keeping myself occupied by getting a drink, talking to other girls, picking out music for the stage, ect


Smile and make eye contact! Especially on stage!
I might even give away a free lap dance on the floor to show everyone how good I was.





having a cup size in the second half of the alphabet always helped me 'stand out' !!!









If you're that good then you wouldn't be giving it away for free.
I didn't know strip clubs had become the United Way and we were taking charity cases now
I don't give away even a smile for free and I'm not good I'm fucking great. Always remember the Joker: "If you're good at something never do it for free".
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





Act like you're having a great time and are completely uninterested in money.
Aounds ridiculous right?
Completely works.
I'm not saying you shouldnt talk to customers., but trying working the "anti-hustle".





"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
it might be a good time to suggest going to the vip where you can have the most private of dances and do the free sample dance if you really must and only give them the free dance if they go in vip ... no freebies, but an enticing proposition might work under these circumstances



good idea Polly...there have been so many times when I have been in that situation. I am the kind of girl that will approach every single table unless there is a girl there. Even if the girls are all saying, "Oh he's not a spender! Don't try him!", I never know until I try...I mean, he might be the guy that makes my night because I am his "type". You never know!
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