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    So I had this guy that loved thighs. He came in my room and we talked while he looked at my thighs. He was the submissive type. We he left and then came back in free chat, and I told him that he needed to take me back to private and he kept giving me excuses. So eventually he took me back and I told him he would have to wait to see them because he made me wait so long. Well it was only about 2 mins into private. He got upset with me and left and gave me a bad rating.

    WTF did I do wrong? He was the submissive type so I thought I would punish him and make him wait a few mins. He reacted as if I was doing the right thing. I was going to let him see my thighs. How can you read these submissive guys and know when to give and when not to give?

    Thanks in advance!

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    I dont take submissive guys unless I've talked to them a few times or they are more direct about what they want. When I first started I had a sub guy and it was fun, then the next time I saw him I tried to get him to do a bit more and he had a tantrum and disconnected then wrote me a lame letter telling me how mean I am..lol..now if one wants to go pvt he has to say in free chat what he likes and if he just says "oh I'll do anything" or "use me as you please" I dont bother with them.

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    First the first problem is you should have made his ass go exclusive not sure if that's what you call private, but its a fetish as well so he should have been there, and if he got impatient most likely hes feeding off of being dominated but not really into it, guys lie all the time, always or try to get what they want ahead of time and then work slowly toward it the guys that are really into will stay the fakers, well there do exactly what that guys did
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    Default Re: I messed up...need advice

    For some reason, I've found submissive guys (in real life and online) to mostly be passive-aggressive, oversensitive, bitchy little assholes. There are a few amazing exceptions, but it tends to be the rule. It's not you, it's probably something wrong with him.

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    Default Re: I messed up...need advice

    What a dick, you did nothing wrong, it was his own fault for not specifying what it was that he wanted. Guys like that have issuessssss.

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    You didn't mess up at all. Kink's tricky because often they'll telegraph a whole dynamic with just a word or two and expect you to know where they're going with it. Dude says "I'm into thighs," but what he really means is "I want to be crushed between your thighs while you tell me what a weak and miserable man I am" or "I want to worship your thighs like the goddess you are" or "I want you to make me jerk off until my cock hurts while you smother my face with your thighs."

    It's on him to articulate what he's looking for.

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    Default Re: I messed up...need advice

    Most are brats who just like to push your buttons & piss you off.
    I can't deal with them at all.

    I like simple horny men who just want to jack off. Head games are not for me, cause in the end they fuck with your head more than you do theirs cause the customer is spending or not spending those $$s.

    Don't get flustered by one customer, dont waste the energy or time over it. Move on the next.

    Good Luck,
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    Default Re: I messed up...need advice

    I had a sub customer who was the subject of a few of my blog posts. He was a private client who wanted weekly skype shows but he was a fucking whiney little bitch. A lot of subs have no fucking clue what they want.

    They say they want to be punished, but really the punishment has to be something they like and that they are in control of so whenever i chose the punishment he would complain and tell me to choose again, but then give me nothing to go on and tell me i was in complete control. It got so annoying i told him to go fuck himself because he was just wasting my time! I'm a whore not a psychic.

    He wanted such specific stuff and kept asking me to do things i already said no to. It was literally doing my head in because i would be working it, getting into my domme role and then he would break character and thusly break the mood i was in and i couldnt even pretend to like him as a person anymore. He was such a diva!

    Seriously, so many men think they want to be dominated but really they just like the fantasy and unless they know exactly what they want I say tell them to go find another girl who is prepared to deal with their diva shit.

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    Default Re: I messed up...need advice

    I had a small penis humiliation guy ask me not to be too rough on him. I guess I went overboard (or maybe not enough) because he left after one minute. Whatever...next! Ha

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    hahah. wow. Ya, most "sub" guys online try to top from the bottom. So annoying.
    I like naked chicks.

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    Default Re: I messed up...need advice

    not everybody has a sense of humor on these sites.. and deff. not everybody has common sense.... Its so eazy to come up with a quick funny reply.. if they want to.. but they dont or they cant.. fuck him.. and rating u bad just shows what a looser he actually IS!

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