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    Hi! k sorrrry if this has been asked and answered etc...but this is my first time ever even considering this (have been asked or suggested to do this) my only/main concern was...aren't you guys worried about somebody anybody that you know or your friend's friends or friend of a friend etc seeing you on cam? how do i prevent even the chance of anyone seeing/finding me or worse, my brother's friends etc seeing me???!!!!

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    Hi im new but Ive done a some cam work and the good news is that you can block sites I block my own state which means no one can see you although make sure your computer is safe that you have alot of security from Hackers ugh I made that mistacke once but no harm came from it and always protect your name never tell anyone your clients you name or your state the guys and girls will always press you about this worse case senario make up a fake name besides your stage name and then make up a fake location. Hope this helped

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    sorry Im tired and my spelling is off I meant state you can block your state or other states with the software they use to manage the site

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    Default Re: been thinkin about it

    All of us deal with the chances of being found from people that we know in real that probably wouldn't expect finding on adult webcam site. It's a big risk to take being in this business some sites you can do state blocks/countries but still some people can get around to viewing and if you know your family members view such sites they may can find you. You could try disguising your look by looking completely different but still it's possibility people you know can discover it's you. Every cam model always at risk being recorded from the freechat and private camshows re-posted around the internet, stolen photos this is a business that you have to accept that may happen to you or just don't get in this business period. I'm not trying to sound harsh to you but please for anyone new to re-think and do research to know what you can deal with being a cam model.

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    Default Re: been thinkin about it

    That is something you just have to deal with. I had someone find me on a site but at the end of the day I have to pay my bills. I told myself that that was the risk that I am will to take doing this kind of work. Weight everything involved and figure out if its worth it to you.

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    Default Re: been thinkin about it

    Let's not forget, the men who do happen to find you ARE ON A PORN SITE!!! So you're not the only one doing naughties

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissKatie View Post
    Let's not forget, the men who do happen to find you ARE ON A PORN SITE!!! So you're not the only one doing naughties
    Exactly! and thats how I deal with it. Say one of my brothers, bros mates, sons mates, a neighbour etc etc finds me on the net and tells me they are going to tell everyone. First of all I would say "how would your family feel about you using porn sites?
    I get a lot of guys telling me I look like their mates mum, sister-in-law, aunt etc. I know they are just getting of on the idea. Classic is "does your husband/bf know you do this?" Now I know some guys just get turned on by the thought of naughty housewife playing away from home, but my usual response is "does your wife/gf know you are here?" lol Usually works a treat lol.

    My other thing is that all the people that matter to me in my life already know what I do and why I do it, I have their full support, so anyone else can go to hell as far as I'm concerned lol.

    But as the others have already said, think long and hard about what you would do, how you would react and wether you could handle it. Whatever you decide I wish you luck.
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    Im a big fan of "disguise" ,. Yes I dont do it all the time, but I've done at 90% of my 7 years online . (I keep saying 7 but its more lol)..
    So when time comes that someone might tell me " I saw YOU!" Ill be like... " It was not me"
    Deny deny deny...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    Im a big fan of "disguise" ,. Yes I dont do it all the time, but I've done at 90% of my 7 years online . (I keep saying 7 but its more lol)..
    So when time comes that someone might tell me " I saw YOU!" Ill be like... " It was not me"
    Deny deny deny...
    i don't use disguises never have, although I have been asked to take my wig of, which is very funny cos I don't wear one lmao. Oh and if they said thay saw me I think I would just say "yeah but you did cum right?" lol
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    Deff. them being there, they are part of the game, its a 50-50...
    to the OP, tell them " if it wasnt for perverts like you to want to see and pay for these girls, these sites would not exist, so spare me "..
    Oh and call Bill Clinton if u have a problem with exploiting sexuality. Apparently its ok for THE President to get a BJ from someone other then his wife and still hold his job ..
    YAY!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missymissdemeanour View Post
    Classic is "does your husband/bf know you do this?" Now I know some guys just get turned on by the thought of naughty housewife playing away from home, but my usual response is "does your wife/gf know you are here?" lol Usually works a treat lol.
    I get asked this a lot and I love this response. Mind if I borrow it?

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    Block zones aren't 100% effective, and it's likely some of your shows will be recorded and posted to free sites eventually.

    I wear a wig and different colors of makeup and look completely different. It was difficult and time consuming at first but with experience I'm getting faster and better at it. I find it very freeing and it's easier to be fun and carefree on cam. It's like how an actor or actress steps into a role when in costume. I love it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    Block zones aren't 100% effective, and it's likely some of your shows will be recorded and posted to free sites eventually.

    I wear a wig and different colors of makeup and look completely different. It was difficult and time consuming at first but with experience I'm getting faster and better at it. I find it very freeing and it's easier to be fun and carefree on cam. It's like how an actor or actress steps into a role when in costume. I love it!
    This is perfect.
    No many models have the patience to do this, but its deff. worth the aggravation.

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    I have had experience with this subject.

    I have always been the type of girl that I never cared what anyone thought of me and I always did my own thing. However - even though I had that attitude, I was still skeptical about that at first. I used to block out certain states or what not only because of what someone could have found out - but I came to a conclusion.

    This is a job for me. Nothing more or nothing less. I decided to out myself completely to my friends. My family was more than supportive and I talked to them about it before I even started. My Mom and even my 80 year old Pap-Pap were more than supportive. When I told my friends - I just came out with it. Only 30% of them stayed by my side and the rest bounced. Looking back on it - if they want to judge me based on what I do for work when they have no room to talk - they are no better, so I rode them off. The friends that stuck by me have hung out in my room countless times and helped me with things.

    More importantly - I lost a relationship to camming. He knew I was doing it - was ok at first - but the moment I started banging out the cash and he wasn't getting all of my attention - it became a problem.

    You have to be strong for this business. My advice to you is - if hiding yourself with wigs or what not is something you can do - go for it. I tell anyone to be open because it's a good damn living and you are only helping yourself. I believe it as business and nothing more. Use the tools the sites give you and information you find here to help you.

    Otherwise, be honest and to hell with anyone who gets in your way. If they can't stand with you when you are at your worst then they surely do not deserve you at your best. People are so narrow minded. Hell - the sex industry isn't for anyone - but if people can't accept YOUR choices and it does NOT affect them in the least - they didn't deserve to be in your life to begin with.

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    As many of my male friends wanted to bang me when I lived near them, I made SURE they know! I was never really 'workforce material' due to injuries and physical health, so the only man I hide it from is my dad at his spoken unspoken request to not tell him stuff that might give him a heart attack.

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