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    Duh What has happened to my room!!

    I've always been polite to the men that come in my room on sm and they would come and go or stay and go pvt and all was good. Suddenly now they're treating it like a hang out. In the last hour I only had one pvt and the rest of the guys just want to come in and talk. They dont even try to hide the fact that they wont pay..."I just came to say hi and chill" "Just thought I'd keep you company" and I just had one say that he wanted to take care of morning wood and I asked how he planned to do that and he said "my imagination" wtf? When I first started I was too shy to talk on mic in free so I just typed and guys wouldnt do this but now that I always use audio they do. What do you girls do when you get the guys who just constantly come in to talk? They're really annoying me now

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    This starts to annoy me after about 15 min and no pvts with the same guys chitchatting. I'm on SM too and I had a few this morning that tried to get free flashes and even more. I tell 'em straight up that there are no free flashes and I don't show toys in free chat. Sometimes it will get at least one of 'em to go pvt. I have also tried this tactic...it was actually true, but one morning I only had about 20 more min to stay on and there were about 6 guys "hangin' out" in free chat. I preceded to say that if anyone wanted to play in pvt, they needed to come on in because I was going to have to log out and would'nt be back on till the next day. I immediately had 3 guys in pvt.....so that actually worked. I almost did this today because I had this lull where they all just wanted to talk and ask questions.

    On another note though, I enjoy having at least one talker in my room while others come and go because I feel foolish talking to myself when I see 7 names and no one is typing anything. I use audio at all times too. Sometimes I even say,"Talk to me Guys".

    When I feel myself getting annoyed, I just think that someone new will pop in shortly and take me away to pvt. Eventually that does happen.

    Another thing you can do is log off for awhile and get back on later if you can with the chance of a better paying crowd.

    Just my thoughts.

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    When my room is full of chit chatters I kinda tease them a little and say, "You guys are fun to hang out with but I'm not making any money here!" then, "I want to be sexy, someone take me to pvt" Then a little later if nobody is on I say, "Okay, well it looks like it's dead here. If I don't get a pvt show [or tips, or reach my goal] in XX minutes I'm going to have to sign off and go to another site where people are actually horny!" Then I remind them as time goes down, "leaving in... if I don't get a show" but usually it doesn't get to that point.


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    @LilMissNaughty...
    Just curious if u are new to webcamming?
    B/cause stuff like this and worse is happening for years.......

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    Some are good, especially when its dead. It makes your room still look inviting not lonely. BUT they do wear away at you. That "friendship/customer" line gets blurred quick if your a nice girl {i was}. I had about 8 when i cammed on MFC. Only 3 still took me to private every time or at least bought me something off my wishlist weekly. But i totally agree and have done what Isobel is saying. Give them a time limit! "If no one wants to play/whatever in about __ minutes, i'm going ___ {for the day/other site/etc}. " It works.

    Oh also start a mini competition! Since highest tipper is way over done, how about BFF for the week or Sponsor of the week. Make a little clip art plague in Photoshop and have it where it can be seen. If they're competitive for your attention they will jump right on it. I caused an uproar of gifts to happen by this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    @LilMissNaughty...
    Just curious if u are new to webcamming?
    B/cause stuff like this and worse is happening for years.......
    Nooooo...please dont say it gets worse..lol..good grief no!! been about 7 months now and for sure theres always been the time wasters and beggars but I'm thinking that because I'm a pretty laid back and approachable person that maybe that's why they just want to come and "hang" with me lol and I know that alot of them just go in your room and stroke it but theres something about when they come out and say "mmmm I'm gonna cum soon bb" in my free chat I just get pissed right off. I'm going to try the ideas about giving the time limit and saying I'm going to go where men are horny and want to play with me lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    @LilMissNaughty...
    Just curious if u are new to webcamming?
    B/cause stuff like this and worse is happening for years.......
    Quote Originally Posted by RoxyHart View Post
    Some are good, especially when its dead. It makes your room still look inviting not lonely. BUT they do wear away at you. That "friendship/customer" line gets blurred quick if your a nice girl {i was}. I had about 8 when i cammed on MFC. Only 3 still took me to private every time or at least bought me something off my wishlist weekly. But i totally agree and have done what Isobel is saying. Give them a time limit! "If no one wants to play/whatever in about __ minutes, i'm going ___ {for the day/other site/etc}. " It works.

    Oh also start a mini competition! Since highest tipper is way over done, how about BFF for the week or Sponsor of the week. Make a little clip art plague in Photoshop and have it where it can be seen. If they're competitive for your attention they will jump right on it. I caused an uproar of gifts to happen by this.
    I would LOVE an uproar of gifts

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    Does this ever happen to anyone else? It's only happened to me a couple times, but someone will take me to group and stay for less than 30 seconds, then as it is counting down someone else will come in and stay for a few seconds, then as it starts counting down someone else will come in for a few seconds, then someone else will come in for a few seconds, etc ... It drives me crazy when I get like 10 different guys doing this and it takes forever for me to get back to free chat. One time, it was so bad that I had to say "next person that comes into group for less than 30 seconds will be banned" but guys kept doing it. It drove me crazy; especially because I wasn't fast enough to block all of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilMissNaughty View Post
    I would LOVE an uproar of gifts
    Yeah it was awesome while it lasted. But it was mainly lingerie so they can have bragging rights when i wore it. They also got greedy and wanted MORE then what the gift insinuates and became pests. So it wasn't always cool.
    I wish i had that now though!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sammii View Post
    Does this ever happen to anyone else? It's only happened to me a couple times, but someone will take me to group and stay for less than 30 seconds, then as it is counting down someone else will come in and stay for a few seconds, then as it starts counting down someone else will come in for a few seconds, then someone else will come in for a few seconds, etc ... It drives me crazy when I get like 10 different guys doing this and it takes forever for me to get back to free chat. One time, it was so bad that I had to say "next person that comes into group for less than 30 seconds will be banned" but guys kept doing it. It drove me crazy; especially because I wasn't fast enough to block all of them.
    Yeah, this happens to me all the time! It's extremely annoying. Usually during the 30-second countdown I don't even acknowledge the guys who pop in unless they say "hi" because 90% don't intend to stay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilMissNaughty View Post
    first started I was too shy to talk on mic in free so I just typed and guys wouldnt do this but now that I always use audio they do.
    Just a thought here, but... have you considered... NOT... doing the thing that seems to be encouraging them to hang out for free?
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smurfette View Post
    Yeah, this happens to me all the time! It's extremely annoying. Usually during the 30-second countdown I don't even acknowledge the guys who pop in unless they say "hi" because 90% don't intend to stay.
    Same here and I got sick of it and started not coming back also. If a guy really wants me, he can take me private himself!

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    @sammii...OMG this stuff happened to me excessively this morning. I had one pretty long pvt and during the 30 sec after it they popped in and out....like 5 of them. I just sat there and waited, like WTF? Dang, there's nothing to see now dumbasses! One time i finished a pvt and this guy popped in like in the last 10 sec and stayed. As soon as I acknowledged him to keep him there he left...no hello, no bye-bye, nothing. I don't get it at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    Just a thought here, but... have you considered... NOT... doing the thing that seems to be encouraging them to hang out for free?
    That's exactly what I did after I started this thread I either typed or just answered certain questions. I didnt get a chance to see how that approach worked though because my favorite regular came and saved me and we had an hour long pvt then I logged off for the day lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by sammii View Post
    Does this ever happen to anyone else? It's only happened to me a couple times, but someone will take me to group and stay for less than 30 seconds, then as it is counting down someone else will come in and stay for a few seconds, then as it starts counting down someone else will come in for a few seconds, then someone else will come in for a few seconds, etc ... It drives me crazy when I get like 10 different guys doing this and it takes forever for me to get back to free chat. One time, it was so bad that I had to say "next person that comes into group for less than 30 seconds will be banned" but guys kept doing it. It drove me crazy; especially because I wasn't fast enough to block all of them.
    All the time! It doesn't matter if you tell them to stop either, they keep doing it.

    As for the guys that say stupid stuff like "mmm, turn me on baby" or start with their private fantasies in free expecting me to talk only to them, I remind them that there are other guests and if they want me to pay attention to what they are saying, they can pick a show.

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