Hi all. I am very new to the SC. I have only been 6-7 times. I have heard dancers on this board refer to "extras" in their posts. From what I understand an extra is something sexual a dancer does that goes beyond the lapdance, is this what an extra is?
I only ask because I am a femme lesbian who goes to the SC for fun and to chill. I respect the dancers. I never go to the SC looking for dates/sex.
Most of the dancers at this club know I am lesbian.
A few of the dancers will my kiss my cheek often, *they* place my hands on their breasts, on their butt, and on their cookie while sitting with/on me. We laugh and smile during these conversations b/c I just like making the dancers laugh and smile. is this touchy-feely thing just the dancers just having some fun or is this considered an extra?
All of this takes place on while chilling at my table, not asking for/during a lapdance.
Any information that can help this newbie out is greatly apppreciated! I don't want to make the mistake most men do by thinking "hey she likes me" when it is just her having fun or just her doing her job. I would think that me also being a woman I could understand women but I can't lol.



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Not that I would know, only been to one party with one of the guys' sisters and heard from femlae friends about experiences, but no one's said anything 'extra' went on. And even though some of the girls here may be bi or gay, I thought I've generally read that female customers were, overall, 'worse' (handsy, tipping, etc) customers than guys. I dunno, I guess that's not true?


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