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    If extra's were legal, would you do them?

    Inspired by a couple recent threads here; Beckatron's Canadian Appeal to Prostitution Laws: APPEAL WATCH! and ScarletteJanuary's Masturbation during private dances, I'm wondering what it is exactly that stops you clean girls from doing extras, and what you consider an extra in general.

    I've never really though about how I defined/or what constituted as an 'extra' - in my brain it has always been some combination of what's illegal and what's not a part of an actual 'Lap Dance' in the traditional term. Soon though, there could be laws passed in Canada that might make "Extras" (things like handjobs, blowjobs and even fullservice sex) more-or-less legal. I'm hearing arguments they this will lead to MORE extras in the club and less men buying straight-up dances, and arguments that say there will be less prostitution in the club, and selling dances will be easier. I'm hoping for the latter

    I'm going to have to really re-think and re-establish my boundaries, and the reasoning behind them. I doubt I would start doing more than what I am now, for various reasons.

    I guess what I'm wondering is (for all dancers):
    -What do you consider an extra. And, why?
    -Why do you choose (not) to preform them?
    -Would your stance on extras change, or would you consider offering them if they became legal?

    Lets leave name calling and mean language (filthy, nasty, whore, etc) out of this discussion. Thanks.

    Edit: Added links to other threads and added a poll. Please vote.
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    No, because that's not why I became a dancer. I could make much easier money doing "extras" in a hotel room.... but I like the atmosphere of the strip club.
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    Default Re: If extra's were legal?

    -What do you consider an extra. And, why?
    Anything that involves skin to skin contact of the genital area.
    -Why do you choose (not) to preform them?
    Because when I'm in the club, I'm a dancer. I don't mind these kinds of things for money, but I DO like to keep things fair in the club.
    -Would your stance on extras change, or would you consider offering them if they became legal?
    No way would I do it in a lap dance or vip booth. I don't want people watching me do my best work! If I were paid well, I'd offer hand jobs and that's IT. Without proper screening, there's no way I'd risk catching any sort of disease.

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    Default Re: If extra's were legal?

    Please vote too ladies. You answered before I had the poll up! Quick typing!



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    No way I would not!
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    Default Re: If extra's were legal?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Contessa View Post
    -What do you consider an extra. And, why?
    Anything that involves skin to skin contact of the genital area.
    -Why do you choose (not) to preform them?
    Because when I'm in the club, I'm a dancer. I don't mind these kinds of things for money, but I DO like to keep things fair in the club.
    -Would your stance on extras change, or would you consider offering them if they became legal?
    No way would I do it in a lap dance or vip booth. I don't want people watching me do my best work! If I were paid well, I'd offer hand jobs and that's IT. Without proper screening, there's no way I'd risk catching any sort of disease.
    Thanks for your imput! This is something I wonder about with girls who do extras now.

    There's the "Heebee-Jeebee" factor involved with knowing someone else might be watching you act sexually with a total stranger....I don't think I could handle that, I don't even like when my dog watches, and I'm pretty sure my Mini-Poodle has no idea whats going on when I give the BF head at home.

    Must mostly it's the screening factor. Any John, Dick or Harry could have any kind of infection, sores, or disease, and I'm boggled that more dancers don't seem too concerned about that. The lights in the club are dark, it's not like you could inspect before you agree to the services to provide.

    Scary risks.



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    For some reason, I am perfectly ohkay with boob grabbing and guys touching my legs and sides...but once you get to my ass and my nether regions I freak out. I have yet to understand why this is...
    So, I voted no...

    Though since ass touching is not frowned upon here when it happens I have to freak out internally.

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    ^^ I HATE ASS TOUCHING. I'm fine with boob touching, because I have fabulous boobs and I'd like to touch them too. In fact, I do touch them. All the time. However, boob squeezing, nipple pinching/twisting, and nipple sucking are all part of the "things I don't want ever" category.

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    I wouldn't. If that's what I wanted to do it would be easy enough to do it now. I'm an entertainer.
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    Default Re: If extra's were legal?

    I consider anything more than a contact lap dance an extra. And I would not. I wouldn't give my attention or time, not to mention take my clothes off, for these guys anywhere else (meaning if they weren't paying for it) and THAT'S what they are paying for.... Visual stimulation, and the time and attention of a pretty girl. Why should they get any more?
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    Default Re: If extra's were legal?

    I'd be fine if people just wanted to touch my ass and thighs.
    They could stand there and jiggle it and smack it all day and we'd be cool.

    I'd be fine with guys jerking off while they watched me dance also...


    But that's really it. No fucking boob touching. Ugh.
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    I don't do extras because to my mind that's just not what a strip club is for. However, if extras suddenly became legal, I feel like a lot of strip clubs would just turn into brothels. I don't know if stripping would even be lucrative at that point. I'm not opposed to prostitution, but I'm not sure if it's something I could do. So if extras became legal in strip clubs, I'd likely leave the industry.

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    Sorry to threadjack but ANNABANANA is that your ink in your avatar?
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    I don't really see how whether prostitution is legal or not in a given area should really change what happens in strip clubs. Sure, legal brothels and escort agencies will siphon off some strip club customers. But that just means the people looking only for extras won't be wasting our time in strip clubs. I choose to work as a stripper instead of as a whore because my set of skills and boundaries is better suited to that line of work, not because I'm afraid of being arrested. I'm very happy working as a stripper, but when I briefly tried working as a whore I was usually very uncomfortable and grossed-out.

    I almost chose the third poll option, but decided to abstain from the poll because it was vaguely worded.

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    No. If I wanted to be a whore then I would be. I'm a dancer and I value the distance between myself and my customers.

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    maybe if a customer was hot?

    i doubt i would be in the industry if it became completely legal to offer these things in the club though. so the point is moot. i would leave before it ate me up inside.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: If extra's were legal?

    My definition is an extra is the same as contessa's: skin to skin genitial contact including fs, bj, hj, finger banging. But that is because of the laws in my area, breast touching is totally legal and that's normal. And some places that have a lot of extras girls, if you want to compete to make cash, boob kissing is also the norm. I don't like it, but I'd rather do that than the other stuff listed above.

    I don't do extras because they are illegal and I don't want to get arrested, because they would gross me out and cross my boundaries of what is acceptable for me to do without feeling bad about myself, and also because my bf, who is fine with me dancing, would obviously not be ok with me doing extras, but mainly the 2nd point.

    Extras becoming "legal" only knocks one of the above points off, so no I still wouldn't do them.

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    If I were into doing "extras" I would become an escort as opposed to geting paid chump change to perform a bj in the back of an sc. Just sayin' lol.


    But honestly I just think it's really dangerous. Condoms aren't 100 percent preventive and personally, NO amount of money is worth risking my health and wellbeing.

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    Wow... lots of name calling on this thread. Keep in mind that striptease entertainers aren't the only ones here!

    I've answered this question before, but I'll put it this way - things change over time including what is legal. You either adapt, leave on your own, or be taken out. If extras were to become legal there is a good chance that many of us veteran dancers would no longer be part of the industry because our comfort levels would be different than those of the newer generations being brought in after the laws change. You can't really teach old "dogs" new "tricks"... now the middle aged ones - maybe.


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    i doubt i would be in the industry if it became completely legal to offer these things in the club though. so the point is moot. i would leave before it ate me up inside.
    Athena's answer mimics mine. I don't take issue with what other people want for themselves, but I am a striptease entertainer & I always will be... I'm far too selfish to think I could be paid for anything sexual. I want to be safe, spoiled/pampered, & I'm a bit lazy... so I'm better off with people who adore me. Not to mention the fact that I think the tease is my personal fetish...
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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
    If I were into doing "extras" I would become an escort as opposed to geting paid chump change to perform a bj in the back of an sc. Just sayin' lol.
    Exactly. If I ever were to consider that aspect of the industry, I would be charging a hell of a lot more money and doing it in a private location.

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    What do you consider an extra. And, why?
    Kissing, licking, touching kitty even with thong on. I let custies touch boobs and ass but thats it.
    -Why do you choose (not) to preform them?
    I'm a dancer, not a prostitute.
    -Would your stance on extras change, or would you consider offering them if they became legal?
    I still would not offer them if they were legal. I don't want to be a prostitute so I'd become a go-go dancer or just quit altogether if I was suddenly expecedt to have sex in exchange for money.

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    While I do think prostitution should be legalized, I don't think it should take place in a strip club. It takes money out of the hands of other dancers. When there's a girl at my club who is doing extras, I'm not just angered by the fact that she's putting us all at risk legally (although that is a huge part). I'm also pissed that she is putting up a stripper front to work as a prostitute because of easier access to clients. Those clients WERE my potential customers, who now, of course, won't give me a second look because why would they get a dance from me when they can get one from another girl who will suck them off? It's an unlevel playing field.

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    Girls who chose not to do extras would def be at a disadvantage How is it in Vegas? Prostitution is legal there,right? But im assuming guys who enjoy the tease go to get dances and guys who want strange go to a brothel... ?
    Also,I think i agree with the aforememtioned definitions of extras...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dizzygurl View Post
    Girls who chose not to do extras would def be at a disadvantage How is it in Vegas? Prostitution is legal there,right? But im assuming guys who enjoy the tease go to get dances and guys who want strange go to a brothel... ?
    Also,I think i agree with the aforememtioned definitions of extras...
    Although prostitution is rampant in Vegas, it is not legal. Prostitution is only legal in brothels in counties in Nevada with less than 400,000 residents. And those brothels take a 50% cut.

    Since prostitution isn't legal anywhere else in the US, if strip clubs started allowing it then I envision strip clubs being flooded with escorts who want to work in a (relatively) safe and legal environment with a guaranteed customer base. I think there would only be a few actual clubs for just stripping, and I could see these becoming intensely competitive.

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