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    I am currently in a pot of hot water with a family member whom I was living with, it went south very fast and I have filled a restraining order as well as mail theft and destruction of property charges due to their actions. In the past I had worked as an escort (legally in Nevada, as well as illegally via internet sites) and they have been threatening me with exposing this to the police. They have already told my whole family including my father who is a police officer (who is outside of the jurisdiction of the court that is handling our case).

    Apparently they had dug up past reviews connected to an old phone number of mine as well as some photos of me scantily clad with men commenting on my page that are about two years old. Since I am no longer escorting would this hold any weight in court? Can I get into any legal trouble? What should I do? I have done nothing illegal in the way of the sour relationship between me and the family member who I am bringing to court, they are the ones who did not abide by the law but I am terrified of what will happen now.

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    Sounds like you need a lawyer. Hope everything works out.

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    Contact Michael Fattorosi, he goes by PornLaw. He's licensed to practice in California & he would be a HUGE help to you! Be sure you tell him I referred you over from SW. He's a member on here, so he's always been super helpful to other members.

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    From what I've read, you usually need to be caught in a sting in order to be prosecuted. Comments and pictures from the internet are not sufficient evidence. In my opinion, legally you'll be fine.

    I am worried about this asshole family member that's blackmailing you. Do they want something or are they just set on exposing you to the world? If you have tangible proof of their blackmailing, you might actually be able to go to court with it. Not sure on all the legalities of that, though.

    Anyway, I'm so sorry this happened to you. Hopefully some of the other girls will have more advice or experience.

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    How much would doing something like that run? I don't exactly have the means to get a lawyer, I think anyways... or I would pronto. I am so in over my head right now...

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    They just know that they are in the wrong and they feel they have something they can hold over your head. Do you think things could settle down and you wouldn't have to go to court?

    If you are having to go to court because of a certain matter you are there to handle only that matter. I don't see why what you did years ago would have to do with a family feud. That is your personal business and you were never busted while doing it right? He is just wanting to try to scare you by saying that you will go to jail... and ruin your world because his life is so shitty.

    Keep your head up... time heals everything. At least now you don't have to hide it anymore and it's less stress off your back. So next time you see him why don't you thank him for lifting such a weight off your shoulders.

    You will find your true friends/family during situations like this in life... be thankful for them. At times you need to walk away from the people who have bad energy and surround yourself with the people who bring positive to your life.

    Good Luck!

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    It doesn't sound like they have anything on you but you need to protect yourself. Be careful.

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    Why are they doing this to you??! How awful!!! Since ur dad is a cop, what did he say?? Im no lawyer, but it doesnt seem like they have too much "evidence". I mean...how you prove beyond a doubt someone is a prostitute just by pics and old phone records. Im pissed for you!!! Tell this family member to take their stanky ass dildo breath on the down the road and quit wasting ur time. Just curious, what sex are they? They probably have pubes in their teeth when they smile, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ohwellok View Post
    How much would doing something like that run? I don't exactly have the means to get a lawyer, I think anyways... or I would pronto. I am so in over my head right now...
    Just call & talk to him. Most lawyers will give free or super cheap mini-consultations (30 mins or less) before you actually become their client. Let me put it this way though, I've actually contacted him myself for a few issues & he's always been helpful.
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    How the hell were you escorting legally in Nevada? There is no such thing as a legal escort in Nevada. Escorting is only legal in the brothels. Were you a brothel worker? If so, you were not "escorting". You have to get that part straight first.

    In a nutshell: You are not an escort/sex worker anymore. There is absolutely NOTHING they can do to you.

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    TouringGirlfriend, yes I had previously worked at Kit Kat Ranch in Mound House Nevada. I guess you can call it whatever you'd like but it was legal.

    Thank you so very much ladies, you don't know how much your support means to me right now. I'm crawling into bed as I have to get my butt to the court house eaarrrllllyyyyy in the morning to file but I will fill in the gaps when I calm down.

    Thank you all so much, you've truly helped more than I can say. I hope I can get through this.

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    They can't do anything if you aren't working in that area anymore. The only time I've heard of a history of prostitution coming up in court is in custody and divorce cases.

    I've contacted PornLaw before and he was extremely helpful.

    Being outed is can be incredibly traumatic. I'm pulling for you Please keep us filled in!
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    Is this one person or more than one person?

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    I am no lawyer, but I seriously doubt that anything can be done to prosecute you at this point...and even if something could be done, I doubt it would be. Police depts have limited resources to deal with crime...they're not going to waste them coming after you for something like this.

    If you're super-nervous, make the call as per above, but I wouldn't worry about it, honestly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilykane View Post
    From what I've read, you usually need to be caught in a sting in order to be prosecuted. Comments and pictures from the internet are not sufficient evidence. In my opinion, legally you'll be fine.
    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    I am no lawyer, but I seriously doubt that anything can be done to prosecute you at this point...and even if something could be done, I doubt it would be. Police depts have limited resources to deal with crime...they're not going to waste them coming after you for something like this.
    I agree. Also, I can't imagine a prosecutor wanting to take a case involving two year old "evidence" of escorting. This evidence is probably stale.

    There is a statute of limitation that applies to most crimes - that is, a time limit for prosecution to take place. But, I don't know what it is for prostitution in California.

    Call the criminal lawyer, if the consultation is free, but don't waste any money on legal fees right now.
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    You probably should talk to a criminal law attorney. Then that attorney can contact the authorities that you filed the charges against your relative with and explain to them that your relative is threatening you with public exposure of your previous past. Your relative by threatening you in such fashion could be committing several different crimes.

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    I did a quick check-- there's a one year statute of limitations in most cases:
    http://www.justanswer.com/law/0llj5-...mitations.html

    You know, so long as you didn't snort all your money up your nose and support a dead-beat loser with your money,
    likely you did GOOD things with that money and set yourself up in such a way that you'd have a good life, and perhaps
    help lend support to others.

    So, even if the people who you've been outed to, don't understand, just keep your chin up. Think of what you did with
    that money and the people that you've helped with your services. It's going to be rough for awhile but you can still
    be proud of your decisions and don't let anyone, especially this pathetic shit, take that away from you.

    That being said, Fuck them over. HARD.

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    agreed that no DA in their right mind would ever bring charges against you based on two year old evidence that is all arguably 'circumstantial' and bound by a statute of limitations besides ! With California gov't budget problems / cutbacks, with overcrowded California jails etc, some DA's aren't even bothering to prosecute non-violent crimes like prostitution when 'iron clad' caught in the act evidence exists from last night !

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