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    What would be the point to go work and make all that money just to give it to their pimp?
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    When you know they are hooked on pimps its always nice to bring up a story about you kicking your now ex to the curb cause he was a loser for not working and trying to take all your money. I have not met one pimp yet with a job..

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    ^^ "baby, im a hustla" is the standard pimp answer for what they do for work.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    ^^ I know.. And that is why it in my story.

    "You know what he said to me... "I'm a hustler sweety and thats all I need to be." I kicked his ass to the curb so fast he didn't even have time to set that fancy gold watch of his."

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    grrrr lmao i hate you for this
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    ^^ "baby, im a hustla" is the standard pimp answer for what they do for work.

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    From where I'm from most people are drug dealers on the side so that it is cheaper and easier for them to keep the girls supplied and codependent. There are also pimps that won't even deal with girls who do drugs at all. I just don't understand boyfriend pimping. He's your boyfriend so because you strip he doesn't work or have any type of income.
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

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    theres a huuuuge long thread for this, look it up.

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    This is what I heard about at least one of the pimps in a major club in my city. The girls all work long hours and do prostitution on the side. They are all very attractive. They all give all their earned money to the pimp and all sleep with the pimp as well. In return they are provided with a place to live (they all live in the same big house), a nice car like a mercedes or such, and have all their bills paid out by the pimp. He basically manages their money for them, something any grown woman should be able to do on her own. It really baffles me.

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    I once worked with a girl with a situation like this. She didn'tcall him her pimp but her manager. She gave him all her money and in return he paid her bills and beat her when she didn't make enough. I once asked why and she responded "because I need to have a boyfriend and he's all I could find". At the time I didn't have a boyfriend and didn't care enough to have a mooch. I've become convinced these girls have no self esteem.

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    Holy wow...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I once worked with a girl with a situation like this. She didn'tcall him her pimp but her manager. She gave him all her money and in return he paid her bills and beat her when she didn't make enough. I once asked why and she responded "because I need to have a boyfriend and he's all I could find". At the time I didn't have a boyfriend and didn't care enough to have a mooch. I've become convinced these girls have no self esteem.
    wowww. I noticed it's pretty common for dancers to have boyfriends who are TOTAL douchebags but wow... that's just...wow.

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    It was very sad and I didn't get it. She was very pretty and he was ugly and fat. I mean is that important to have a boyfriend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    This one girl at work works 6 days a week (sometimes doubles) and aims for $5k a week...a few weeks ago her "man" got mad at her for spending $50 for a bra at Victoria's Secret. It's really sad.
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    I haven't finished reading what everyone else has said yet, but I don't understand how pimps get involved with dancers....like, why? and how? are there strippers on the street or something? jks
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    Well, a lot of girls support their boyfriends... paying all his bills and making sure he can sit his ass at home watching ESPN, smoking weed and eating pizza. I agree that pimps are not the best human beings on earth BUT, don't you think that loser boyfriends are kind of the same thing? People don't look down on it as much because pimps are seen at total USERS, well so are bf's who don't do shit.... Even husbands who don't do shit but lounge around. I think they're the same thing and should be treated the same.

    There is the age old question "why would you give a man your money?"..... There is no answer to it. And people asking it do not understand the psychology behind it! There a lot of emotional/personal issues that lead girls to have pimps, many things they may not be accountable for. The same reason many girls are in abusive relationships is the same reason girls have pimps. It's the same as drug abuse, eating disorders, pathological lying. They are deep seated issues, not something that can be answered with simple logic.
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    From what I understood, this particular girl had been an unmotivated alcoholic and she felt like her boyfriend/producer (The Pimp) had saved her from herself. Showed her how to be hot and skinny. He was taking everything she made and putting it towards a website she could theoretically someday see profits from. (she didn't, bcuz I bailed on those freaks and the website was about me!)She also had to make 1000 a day or he would be mad, not show her affection, etc.

    This is the only semi-intelligent girl I ever saw giving up her money. The other ones just seemed really dumb. You can't pimp a smart girl, unless it's strictly for protection or something. The pimp game is about lying to girls and talking up their own self worth the same way strippers sometimes do. Pimps make a girl believe that being in their good graces is actually worth money. I guess theres different types of hos though so there are different pimp hustles, for the wild childs, garden variety sluts, the greedy, the unmotivated, the formerly abused/molested, the romantic heart of gold types, you get the picture.

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    Quote Originally Posted by peachplumpear View Post
    This is the only semi-intelligent girl I ever saw giving up her money. The other ones just seemed really dumb. You can't pimp a smart girl, unless it's strictly for protection or something.
    Not true...
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    Well, a lot of girls support their boyfriends... paying all his bills and making sure he can sit his ass at home watching ESPN, smoking weed and eating pizza. I agree that pimps are not the best human beings on earth BUT, don't you think that loser boyfriends are kind of the same thing? People don't look down on it as much because pimps are seen at total USERS, well so are bf's who don't do shit.... Even husbands who don't do shit but lounge around. I think they're the same thing and should be treated the same.

    There is the age old question "why would you give a man your money?"..... There is no answer to it. And people asking it do not understand the psychology behind it! There a lot of emotional/personal issues that lead girls to have pimps, many things they may not be accountable for. The same reason many girls are in abusive relationships is the same reason girls have pimps. It's the same as drug abuse, eating disorders, pathological lying. They are deep seated issues, not something that can be answered with simple logic.
    To me it's the same thing. We see exampes here of women who have good for nothing boyfriends and the women come home from working and cleaning. Then again I've known non dancers in the same relationships and asked why. If my husband wasn't working I'd expect to come home to a clean house and a hot meal, not a mess.

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    Yeah many of the girls who talk down on pimps also have a boyfriend who's "just living with them for a little while" who cleans out her fridge and drives her car around town. I can't even count the amount of girls I run into at my club who have boyfriends with NO job. A girl at my club who easily makes 500-1500 dollars a night was bragging about she was going to the Virgin Islands with her boyfriend and the trip cost 3000 bucks. That would be cute if she didn't pay for every last penny of it. She supports his "singing career" and is always showing the girls his corny ass low budget music videos. She pays rent, food, and I am sure gives him shopping money.How is that better than a pimp? He just doesn't call himself one. He calls himself her loving boyfriend who doesn't love her enough to get a damn job because he's comfortable with her 3000 dollars a week.

    Pimps are certainly scum but many have fathers who were pimps, mothers who were prostitutes... I grew up with a lot of the people in that situation. It's hard to excuse them for what they do, but sometimes it's all they know. Doesn't make it right, but I try not to judge people.... Most of the girls are willing to participate in prostitution, they are not forced into it or dragged into it. Most prostitutes I know are not drug addicts. Their pimps don't want them to use drugs, that's an added cost that takes away from their spending money. Also, most of them do not get their ass beat, but there are some who do, it's usually pretty rare though. Pimps are not always interested in keeping women around who "deserve" ass beatings, that's too much energy and legal trouble. Most of all, the girls are usually are HAPPY to give this man money because they are in love. I don't see them as victims. Or stupid. It's just a life choice.
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    Yeah many of the girls who talk down on pimps also have a boyfriend who's "just living with them for a little while" who cleans out her fridge and drives her car around town. I can't even count the amount of girls I run into at my club who have boyfriends with NO job. A girl at my club who easily makes 500-1500 dollars a night was bragging about she was going to the Virgin Islands with her boyfriend and the trip cost 3000 bucks. That would be cute if she didn't pay for every last penny of it. She supports his "singing career" and is always showing the girls his corny ass low budget music videos. She pays rent, food, and I am sure gives him shopping money.How is that better than a pimp? He just doesn't call himself one. He calls himself her loving boyfriend who doesn't love her enough to get a damn job because he's comfortable with her 3000 dollars a week.
    OK, I by no means condone loser boyfriends, but what's with the double standard here. I'm sure not all girls, but many wouldn't judge there fellow strippers if they had found a man that supported their singing career and took them on vaca? theyd be happy for her?...Why is it ok for a man to take care of a woman and not a woman to take care of her man if they love each other. Not all situations are healthy sure, if she is ony being used by him, but not all women that dont work are only using their boyfriend/husbands to live for free, they love them. In this day and age, all adults whether male or female need to be able to provide for themselves, but whats wrong with a stay at home boyfriend?

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    Wow, I can't imagine having lived a life like that. I knew one pimp and once I knew what he was I dumped him. I grew up in an upper middle class lifestlye so the pimp/prostitute relationships weren't common to me. Most of the prostitutes I've known (not including the high class escorts)were into drugs and messes.

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    OK, I by no means condone loser boyfriends, but what's with the double standard here. I'm sure not all girls, but many wouldn't judge there fellow strippers if they had found a man that supported their singing career and took them on vaca? theyd be happy for her?...Why is it ok for a man to take care of a woman and not a woman to take care of her man if they love each other. Not all situations are healthy sure, if she is ony being used by him, but not all women that dont work are only using their boyfriend/husbands to live for free, they love them. In this day and age, all adults whether male or female need to be able to provide for themselves, but whats wrong with a stay at home boyfriend?
    I see where you are going with this and I often see this double standard. The same women who often attacked the stay at home boyfriends are the same ones who think men should support them. I don't think anyone should be supporting another adult unless there is a specific reason (one becomes disabled, one loses job, etc). There have been many posts about this and I just shake my head when women say they only date guys with money so they can support them. Any of these people are users.

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    I don't believe in being supported by men. I think a woman should always have her own job, life, friends, career, and dreams that don't include a man. Because what if he chooses to leave you??? If he's paying all your bills, he can leave any day he gets tired of you, especially if you're not married and you're done for good. Do I think men should HELP women? Yes. But I don't think any women should rely 100% on a man unless she has health problems, children, or has been with him many years and has reached a point where they have both decided it's not necessary for her to work.

    My mother and father didn't get married until she was 35. She had already lived a life and paid her own bills for 17 years. She had already traveled the world and lived out her dreams. She worked until I was in college, and now she is supported completely by my father. He was always the bread winner, but never did she sit at home looking for a hand out. Even if the woman doesn't make the major contribution, she should still be able to be self sufficient without her man's income if the relationship is not solidified by years of marriage, child rearing OR incapability to work.

    That's just my opinion. I don't have a double standard. So every man and woman should work if they can, no questions asked. It's not okay to be a healthy, attractive, capable 19 year old man who sits on his ass just because his girlfriend makes the bulk of the money. That's a trashy and listless way of thinking, because their money would be doubled if he actually gave a shit and their horizons would expand even more. I'd never in my life choose to be with a man who needed me financially. I'm not superwoman, I'm not looking to save anyone.
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    Wow, so WELL SAID, Bunni^ This should be a 'stickie'!
    When I was reading this, I was thinking of these ladies on a talk show, they were twins & one/both were in Playboy mag.
    They got w/this rich older man (not hef) who bought them fancy cars, etc. Well when he died, his son brought up that taxes were never paid on the 'gifts' they got, & guess what? They not only lost that, but practically everything they owned! I also remember the one saying that she had to borrow the outfit she was wearing.

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    ^ being a cat is actually so much like being a stripper. You're adorable, gorgeous, mysterious, you stay up all night, sleep all day, everyone loves you and always wants to touch you and give you stuff, but you just want to be left in peace so you can do some grooming.


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    I don't believe in being supported by men. I think a woman should always have her own job, life, friends, career, and dreams that don't include a man. Because what if he chooses to leave you??? If he's paying all your bills, he can leave any day he gets tired of you, especially if you're not married and you're done for good. Do I think men should HELP women? Yes. But I don't think any women should rely 100% on a man unless she has health problems, children, or has been with him many years and has reached a point where they have both decided it's not necessary for her to work.

    My mother and father didn't get married until she was 35. She had already lived a life and paid her own bills for 17 years. She had already traveled the world and lived out her dreams. She worked until I was in college, and now she is supported completely by my father. He was always the bread winner, but never did she sit at home looking for a hand out. Even if the woman doesn't make the major contribution, she should still be able to be self sufficient without her man's income if the relationship is not solidified by years of marriage, child rearing OR incapability to work.

    That's just my opinion. I don't have a double standard. So every man and woman should work if they can, no questions asked. It's not okay to be a healthy, attractive, capable 19 year old man who sits on his ass just because his girlfriend makes the bulk of the money. That's a trashy and listless way of thinking, because their money would be doubled if he actually gave a shit and their horizons would expand even more. I'd never in my life choose to be with a man who needed me financially. I'm not superwoman, I'm not looking to save anyone.
    Agreed. I know a few women (not dancers) who gave up careers and guess what happened? One husband left her and another cheats on her often. Another wants to leave but can't. I know in the event I marry I will not stay at home even if I have kids and will only accept a stay at home husband if he's cooking and cleaning. However in this economy very few can stay home.

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