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    Quote Originally Posted by kissshining13 View Post
    Thank you guys. I sent him a message setting him straight that I am his mistress, and he has been disobedient trying to get me to get the card. I then further explained some things you guys mentioned.

    Hopefully he gets the hint and still wants me as a mistress, or continues on. Thanks
    Good luck with it, and he moves on good riddance because he will just be looking for someone else to stalk and jerk around.

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    Yeah, the guy had me worried from the get-go while reading this. Anybody telling you what to do in a 'blackmail' fetish scheme is going to be a lot of trouble in the long run. That's why so many Dommes do contracts for that stuff because while you can't write off your right to sue, you can prove to the court that someone consented to it in writing beforehand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by luxi_kitty View Post
    THREAD JACK--sorry
    ooo i had a question about this spoiling biz..
    a customer asked me to get a Green Dot card so that he could put money on it?

    im confused..
    how the hell does that go?
    where do i get that at?
    Tell him to buy a Green Dot Money Pak, which is just a cardboard card that allows you to load money to a prepaid card. He can get it at walmart, then he can give you the activation number for the card. That way he has no information about you. This is different than the Green Dot gift cards.

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    That guy has definitely done this before, and he's 100% topping from the bottom. Clearly he seeks out inexperienced girls so he can make them do what he wants - he doesn't want an actual domme, just someone who will play his little games. So play the game with him as long as it works for you.

    But...

    He is playing the blackmail game though, which can get really sketchy and actually cause you problems. Be careful about who you're calling and at least make sure you always block your number! I doubt very seriously he is giving you his actual boss' number - more likely some number of his and he wanks to your voicemail. LOL

    And DON'T give out your personal info to some wanker who offers to put you on his credit card!!! BAD BAD BAD idea.

    And no, he does NOT love the idea of you having full control. He is running the game 100% and he does NOT want you to run it, obviously. I see wankers like this everyday, trying to play me like a puppet, and when I don't let them control me, they promptly fuck off. I suspect this one will do the same the instant he sees you don't want to do things the way he wants. IMO, good riddance because wankers like this always always always end up being more trouble than they're worth.


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    There is some great advice the other ladies have written.
    Passive/aggressive boys leave me cold, can't stand the games.

    Used to have an assistant to deal with my fan mail. She told me to trust one of the fans, he did send me some nice diamond jewelry. Used to call him, he would say anything you want it is yours. So I would state what I needed. Did I ever get it, no. Only what he chose to give my gifts, not what I wanted at all.

    In order to make it up to me, because I stopped taking his calls and BS. He bought my assistant and her grand kid a plane ticket to come visit me. Night before the flight, she calls the airline to check on what she needed for the grandkids paperwork and IDs. Only to find out that if they had shown up at the airport, they would have been arrested for fraud. He lied and stated that we had stolen his credit card for the tickets. Even though we had a hand written letter about it and the tickets mailed. Plus several emails verifying that he bought the tickets. The airline had a recording of him ordering the tickets over the phone.

    Yes, that is right. He was going to have her arrested for fraud. I had gotten about $10,000 in jewelry from him so far. One would have thought that he wouldn't have done that to us, but he did.

    Hence, BE CAREFUL> do NOT trust these guys with your personal information at all.

    If he is insisting on doing this only his way, then there is a CON behind it.

    There is a legit reason why prostitutions call men TRICKS, because they be tricky. Men lie. Men lie to get what they want. Even though he came to you with this propostion, he can turn on you at any minute. Those who like to be dominated can turn and give out the pain too. In his sick mind it maybe fun to be setting you up.

    Those calls to his so-called boss maybe a part of the set up. Proof that you are trying to blackmail him into giving you access to his accts and such.
    Sad that we just can't have fun, that we have to think of all the angle that men will go to inorder to jerk us around.

    Good Luck,
    Sam

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    So true. A friend of mine had some guy give her about $1000 one night through niteflirt then do a chargeback on it and accuse her of fraud. Niteflirt put her through a bit of hassle because of it, and she lost the $$. Then this asshole managed to get into her personal accounts, find ALL her passwords for ALL of her stuff including her website FTP password and everything. He got her mom's email address, found some old dirty pics she'd sent to her bf and emailed them to her mom pretending to be "a friend" and informing her mom she was doing porn and "turning tricks" for money and gifts. Her mom was obviously freaked out. My friend doesn't do "porn", doesn't even get naked, but those personal pics made it look bad.

    Everything was smoothed over in the end, but this is just another example of how these assholes can really get nasty.

    I've said before and I say again, there are a lot of haters out there, who just hate the fact we make our money the way we do, and some of them are crazy / twisted enough to actually take it personal and really try to cause us harm. Anyone who knows about Ray Gordon knows that. It isn't anything personal or anything we've done; it's just their craziness and hatred for women in general or women who make money using sexuality.

    So, do be careful about playing games like this with random dudes online. Even those you *think* you know can turn out to be crazy assholes.


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    ^^^^^^ who is Ray Gordon?

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    Check out the sticky thread in the Lounge entitled: Contacted by Gordon Roy Parker?

    Ray Gordon is one of this guy's aka names. He's been around, harassing strippers on the internet for YEARS, even caused some personal issues for some, and even for the owner of this site for some time.

    I hear he has a youtube channel now. I haven't seen it but I hear the videos show he's just as crazy as ever. LOL

    >>Found the youtube. He's basically a secretary who resents women for beating him in secretary jobs, and for whatever reason he has a huge problem with strippers.



    And he files hoards of frivolous lawsuits against practically anyone for anything. Hell, he'll probably try to file one against me for this post if he can figure out who I am.

    There's also this

    The comments are pretty entertaining

    And there used to be loads of cached stuff from him on google but I wouldn't know where to begin to find it now.

    Suffice to say, he's a fkn loon who has targeted strippers online for no reason other than they exist.


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    threadjack;

    Ladies, this thread is FASCINATING!!! I have toyed with BDSM (Light) for years in my personal life, I have one custie who is well into the lifestyle and loves me to play dominant but I am definately more of a switch than anything because I love to be prone and spanked.

    Can anyone recommend sources for an Aussie to look into Domme/Sub lifestyle and attracting trustworthy Moneyslaves (and obv. how to meet their needs too) pls..
    Tiny tweaks----->BIG CHANGES

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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    In my experience, the real moneyslaves find you, not the other way around. Generally speaking, the girls who looking for them never find them. I know that is 100% not what anyone wants to hear, but it's the truth.

    There are tons of fetish forums online. Fetlife is an ok place to start.


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    I tend to find that financial subs appear randomly and never when I expect them. The trouble is once you have one, you get addicted

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    oh goodness... i had a guy( maybe the same one) who gave me alot of his info and told me to get my self added to his bank account (Like lie and say i was his fiancee) .. i being submissive and moral didnt wanna do anything.. but if i cant get legally in trouble for this i might=)

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    Quote Originally Posted by PixieElli View Post
    oh goodness... i had a guy( maybe the same one) who gave me alot of his info and told me to get my self added to his bank account (Like lie and say i was his fiancee) .. i being submissive and moral didnt wanna do anything.. but if i cant get legally in trouble for this i might=)
    No hun, we're saying you CAN get in trouble, lots of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SupaByoch View Post
    In my experience, the real moneyslaves find you, not the other way around. Generally speaking, the girls who looking for them never find them. I know that is 100% not what anyone wants to hear, but it's the truth.

    There are tons of fetish forums online. Fetlife is an ok place to start.
    ^^^THIS.

    There's ways to convert guys, but as with all submission. Just because you're a Domme, doesn't make you dominant to others unless they submit to you.

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