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    The title says it all. Im in college and theres this girl in my class who i have hooked up with before. No sex just deep making out some oral and all that good stuff. Thing is when we did this she was from what she said "not with her boyfriend". Before I go any further her boyfriend lives with her and her family. So back to the story. Weve been hooking up but out of the blue she decides to call it off and told me she got back with her bf. But literally like a day later we hung out and ended hooking up again. But a day later she again says we have to stop cause its technically cheating on her bf...........Can any of you help me to try to figure out what is going on here being a female dominated forum tell me whats going on here.....and how would i be able to get past this.

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    ...What are you asking? How you can get her to cheat on her boyfriend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    ...What are you asking? How you can get her to cheat on her boyfriend?
    no im asking whether or not im just some sort of fall back plan......and if i am should i just ignore her......cause she's in a lot of my classes and we have mutual friends within the class......also when she texts me, they are flirtatious texts......basically i wanna know if im being a second option

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    Being the second option to a cheating whore is much better than being her boyfriend. Enjoy yourself and don't take her seriously.
    "Well done. Here are the test results: You are a horrible person. I'm serious, that's what it says: 'A horrible person.' We weren't even testing for that."

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    Yeah, I don't really play games in relationships like that, so I can't really tell you what she's doing or how she's trying to play you. Hell if I know. But I agree with Trem, if she's playing games like that, it's better you don't get involved too seriously.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carlwatson96 View Post
    no im asking whether or not im just some sort of fall back plan......and if i am should i just ignore her......cause she's in a lot of my classes and we have mutual friends within the class......also when she texts me, they are flirtatious texts......basically i wanna know if im being a second option
    Yes, you are a second option/fall-back plan/whatever you want to call it. People hate the idea of losing the security of an established relationship, even if it's going badly, so they use other people to test the waters/distract themselves/whatever... What's going on here is that she's a cheater who is unhappy with her relationship and using you as her escape because she can't just call it off with her bf. My ex-bf did this to me for months - he would get in a fight with his gf, go "on break," text me wanting to hook up, and then the next week they were back together and he ignored my existence until it happened again. The whole time, he "loved her death" and "felt bad about cheating." Never changed the fact that he did it, and the fact that he did it never changed the fact that he was was never ever gonna break up with her for me. I was the NSA sex when his gf was being difficult - that was it.

    Unless you have no moral qualms about hooking up with some other dude's gf, and you don't mind being tossed around like a sex-toy, break things off with her. She will never "leave her bf for you." You are being treated like an object. Don't be like me, and respect yourself enough to not let her use you like that. There's no need to call her out in front of mutual friends or be mean to her - but make it clear you won't respond to flirty texts or hook up with her anymore. She'll probably be angry for a bit because you're messing up her dynamic, and then she'll probably move on to someone else who will follow her around like a puppy even though things will never move forward with a girl who has a bf.

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    Default Re: Need help with this girl in my class SRS

    hmmm.....thanks for the input you guys....yeah she is a bit of a whore.....she tries to pass herself as a goodie goodie christian girl

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    Quote Originally Posted by carlwatson96 View Post
    she tries to pass herself as a goodie goodie christian girl
    Those are always the worst whores I've known way too many of those.

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    Slutty fake christian girls are the best in bed though!
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    Is “hooking up” a euphemism for “copulating”?

    This girl sounds like a nut case. Get away from her fast. There are plenty of other carp in the creek.

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    I don't really understand what the issue or big deal is here. She obviously has a on/off bf or something that comes first. You two haven't had sex really -just stop making out w/ her. If that's too hard for you to do -then just don't hangout w/ her really anymore. Be civil/friendly with her whenever you run into her. No biggie.

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    Yes, I agree w/Brandi L^


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