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    Tired not ready to work friday nights again!!? halp

    .., so I have to be to work in less than 2 hours, ~ I have not been dancing in 3 months because of burnout, , and dissatisfaction with the club. For example, grabby men, bully girls, excessive coke, and custy physical fights on sat/fri night on occastion are main reasons why I felt it was becoming a toxic environment.
    Also, I was trying to find a regular day job. (didn't happen- I'm in michigan) Anyhow, I am scheduled to work tonight- FRIDAY night.. I do feel ready to dance again but I just dont know if I can handle all the drunk and rude college boys on friday nights.. I am scheduled other days, so thats an option. I have 2 side jobs, dj'ing at clubs and modeling for art class. should i play hooky?? im not sure im ready to work a friday night with all the insults that get hurled your way if your not the perfect 10. ok let me know what you think!!

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    Default Re: not ready to work friday nights again!!? halp

    I would take off friday so that you will be fresh for Saturday
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    Default Re: not ready to work friday nights again!!? halp

    I work under contract 5 or 6 nights per week, so there's no choice in the matter. I've called in sick twice in my 3 years of dancing. I can't imagine being able to stay home if I don't feel like working.

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    Default Re: not ready to work friday nights again!!? halp

    If you scheduled, I'd suggest not skipping... it will make you look flakey.

    On the other hand I will say that it might be time to change how you do things. You might want to bring up the problems of co-workers to you manager so he is aware of them, & just tell him you need to take a break or be off schedule for awhile... that will hopefully help clue him in that the club needs to be cleaned up.
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    Default Re: not ready to work friday nights again!!? halp

    thanx for the input- I felt kind of lasso'd into it, so I am at home now. I am added for Sat day shift, which is ok since there is a festival happening here tomorrow.

    kylea~ I do feel its the right time to make some changes, my ideas were to change shifts and work at the sister club across town which has the same owner. That solves the fights/ issues w/ bullies.

    Another possiblity: When borrow my husband's car I'll be able to drive south to deja vu or angels in Kalamazoo- I've been working only at a bikini bar for the past year but I've done well at murphy's (dive) and hots in battle creek. Should I work a nearby city a couple days a week? I am soo over working in a bikini bar for the past year!
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    If you are tired of where you are try to line up another club to work for mini-trips & see if you can find someone reliable to travel with. Having a travel buddy can help cut down on costs, & within a few trips you'll know if having the second person with you is cost effective or if they hinder you from making more money.
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