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    The money aside. Does taking your clothes in front of strangers just give you a great sense of freedom and liberation from the constraints of life and you find it kind of fun? I mean if you weren't getting paid for it would you do it just for kicks? (On your own terms of course.)

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    No, I would not strip if I wasn't getting paid.

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    Money only.

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    No I wouldn't do it if I wasn't getting paid. Would you work for free?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Clement View Post
    The money aside. Does taking your clothes in front of strangers just give you a great sense of freedom and liberation from the constraints of life and you find it kind of fun? I mean if you weren't getting paid for it would you do it just for kicks? (On your own terms of course.)

    Here's a little experiment you can try...

    Go to a bar that you've never been to before-a place where you are a total stranger. Have a few drinks, get up on a table in front of everyone and take all of your clothes off...you know, just for kicks.

    Report back here and let us know how liberated you felt...
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    I hate the constraint of clothes & I love dancing, so for me its perfect. Do I do similar things for free? That depends on the situation. At the Gentlemen's Club Expo many dancers hang out at the topless pools, & while I'll go, I won't remove my top. At the same time, if I go camping with friends in nudists areas I don't worry about clothes. To me the difference is that if anyone is going to capitalize on my maked body... it better be me! That's the same reason I'm not getting nude on stage at a club that serves food/drinks if I'm not getting tipped yet drinks/food/door fees are being paid. While I like to be naked & dance, I'm not so stupid that I don't take the opportunity to capitalize off of it.
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    I guess I ask the question because watching girls on MFC it just seems like some of them are really having a good time at it. But I guess thats the cool thing about cams, you don't have anybody sitting in front of you which makes it more impersonal and an easier going experience.

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    I love my job w/ a passion, but I would not strip for free just for kicks. For the most part I'm also a nudist in general -but I still would not strip for free. The part I love about my job is the performance; I really love going on stage, doing a great table/booth dance & knowing a I nailed it, doing poletricks, etc. Basically I'm just an entertainer.

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    I like getting naked and I'm an attention whore. But in the SC, its not about any of that. Its work. So, I was neutral about the nudity part. No I wouldn't do it for free. I'll regularly flash my friends for kicks, but that's fun times with friends. Stripping is about keeping a straight face and a vacant expression while listening to some gross guy describe in detail how good he is at oral sex and how he'll do it to you for hours, knowing full well that based on the description, it would be torture.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clement View Post
    I guess I ask the question because watching girls on MFC it just seems like some of them are really having a good time at it. But I guess thats the cool thing about cams, you don't have anybody sitting in front of you which makes it more impersonal and an easier going experience.
    Yes I have a good time. I love my job. Truly. But that doesn't mean I'd do it for free.
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    When it comes to stripping, there is no such thing as "money aside". Getting the money is an integral part of the rush. The most successful dancers are in control of the room, the crowd, and their money, and oh yeah, they get naked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clement View Post
    I guess I ask the question because watching girls on MFC it just seems like some of them are really having a good time at it. But I guess thats the cool thing about cams, you don't have anybody sitting in front of you which makes it more impersonal and an easier going experience.
    The problem is that you are trying to take money out of the equation. You can't do that. As you can see by the responses here from the ladies it's a job. Would they do it for free? Well, would any of us do our jobs for free?

    They look like they are having a good time? Well, try selling sex when you look miserable. It doesn't work very well. Part of doing any job well is maintaining a positive attitude. When I'm in the club the dancers that get my attention are the ones who are smiling, outgoing and happy. Is it always easy? No but it's part of the gig. Camming or escorting is no different by the way. Looking like you are enjoying yourself is good for business. It's really no more complicated than that.
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    I feel completely comfortable being naked in front of strangers, but I don't really get any kind of sexual thrill out of it.

    That being said, I wouldn't even talk to most of the men that come in to my SC for free - much less show them my boobs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Natalllia View Post

    That being said, I wouldn't even talk to most of the men that come in to my SC for free - much less show them my boobs.
    Tangential but- Same here. I have a great group of friends already, who are my age group and in the same place in their lives as I am. It's baffling why older businessmen or retirees or whatever think that I'm gonna be their friend outside the club (not lovers or them paying me for sex or whatever but like, actual friends). What would I possibly gain from it? Particularly when I barely have enough time to hang with my friends as it is? It's not even some sort of stuck-up I'm-hotter-than-you thing, but I think most dancers are prolly really different than most of the men who come into SC's. Hell, I don't even have kids and I've never been married and don't have a college degree or even a fuckin drivers license and I have wacky political beliefs, haha. If these guys really knew me OTC theyd see we have nothing in common. Oh well, I guess it's part of the fantasy *shrug*

    Back to the OP- I think our culture too often equates nudity with sexuality. I've skinnydipped, I've lived in houses with women where we walked around half- or fully-naked, and it wasn't sexual. But I've also gone to fetish parties in a collar, pasties, cuffs & a skirt & heels, or in a fishnet bodysuit w/ bootyshorts & a bra. Outfits that would've "broken dresscode" at my club. The thing was, EVERYONE at these parties was dressed kinda crazy and sexy (yes, even guys), and just sorta mutually enjoyed each other aesthetically, and I was having a lot of fun with my friends. It wasn't me walking around looking like that for free while fully-dressed gawkers stared me down and judged my body and some fuckin boss made mad profit off the whole spectacle. It's all about context.

    I'm actually very supportive of public nudity and public sex, but I also acknowledge that in our culture women's bodies are particularly objectified in a way that men's are not, are used to sell us crap we don't need, and are plastered goddam everywhere so that the fatphobic, Eurocentric (or exoticized Western) ideal of feminine beauty continues to cement itself into our collective subconscious. So if my body is going to be put on display for public consumption, in a way that's not a mutual sharing of eroticism or aesthetic appreciation, AND it's done for men's financial profit (and let's face it- most SC owners are male), I damn well better be gettin paid for it, and paid well.

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    OK granted stripping in a club is motivated by money, but what about camming? Where you set the rules and there is no face to face interaction with customers? I know the motivation for camming is money, but judging by SOME of the girls on MFC it's their way of having a good time (and make money of course.)

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    ^ You're not getting it. It's a job not a hobby. I don't occassionally go take my clothes off in front of strangers just because. Camming is still motivated by money. No one would be playing with themselves on cam (enjoyment or not) if someone weren't on the other end paying for it. The girls who do porn might love to have sex, that doesn't mean they'd have sex on camera for free for everyone to see. They get PAID.

    Besides that, do you want to watch some girl who obviously isn't having a good time? Of course not. It's our job to create a fantasy. If you think we're disgusted by you you're not going to spend much are you? No one goes to a SC to watch the girls be miserable.

    It's all an act dude.
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    Do I love stripping? Yes. Is it fun for me? Yes. Would I do it for free? Hell no. I would get a pole and dance at home for the fun of it, but I sure as hell wouldn't be doing it in front of a bunch of strange men if they weren't going to pay me. The money is just a part of it. None of us go to an eight-hour shift of stripping and leave with like $20 and say, "It's totally okay I didn't make any money, I just love this job so much I'd do it for free!" I can do it for free at home on my own time.

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    I get off on dancing for audiences. I love the energy that is created when you get a huge crowd of people together, and though it sounds stupid, I feel like through music and dancing you can enhance that energy. Now, would I do it naked outside of the club? If it were a professional situation that called for that, sure. But this doesn't mean that I would go out to some random club, climb ontop of the bar, and take my clothes off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    I like getting naked and I'm an attention whore. But in the SC, its not about any of that. Its work. So, I was neutral about the nudity part. No I wouldn't do it for free. I'll regularly flash my friends for kicks, but that's fun times with friends. Stripping is about keeping a straight face and a vacant expression while listening to some gross guy describe in detail how good he is at oral sex and how he'll do it to you for hours, knowing full well that based on the description, it would be torture.

    LOL.... we've all had "this guy", the one describing sexual acts he wants to perform on you, only as you listen to his description, it becomes clear he has little to no experience actually doing them. He has no idea what he's talking about, and it sounds awful!
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    I love the rush of captivating guys, them coming up to your stage with this hypnotized look on their faces, pulling out their wallets and blindly handing you cash. I feel extremely powerful, manipulating them with my sexuality. I really love this rush, however lap dances suck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    Stripping is about keeping a straight face and a vacant expression while listening to some gross guy describe in detail how good he is at oral sex and how he'll do it to you for hours, knowing full well that based on the description, it would be torture.


    I am laughing, but this sums it all up about as well as any one sentence can. It's so funny to watch the dancers work these guys, too.

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    OK granted stripping in a club is motivated by money, but what about camming? Where you set the rules and there is no face to face interaction with customers? I know the motivation for camming is money, but judging by SOME of the girls on MFC it's their way of having a good time (and make money of course.)
    I looked at MFC and other sites a lot about 1 1/2 years ago when I was first thinking of starting a website and thought I might have webcams featured on it. Now I know I won't do that, but the time I spent checking out the webcam sites was enough to show clearly that the vast majority of those girls are faking it. Some of it is a dead giveaway--like all the 'squirting' going on. I've had two girlfriends who really squirted, one of them in truly magnificent style. It's not something they can just up and do because a guy suddenly decides to do a private with squirting, trust me, or maybe tip them the equivalent of 50-100$. It's peeing disguised as squirting, which does nothing whatsoever for me, but seems to get the tipping going and lure guys into privates.

    Plus the shit those idiots say on MFC and the free chat rooms is so pathetic and disgusting. Guys in stripclubs can say rude things sometimes, but the webcam trolls take verbal insults to new, abysmal lows. I got to know one webcam model pretty well. The erotic shows were hard on her because the guys haven't been tipping with the recession. The free sex shows she was putting on for a while in an effort to get tips and privates for the erotic site were completely draining. She was about as genuine as I have seen, but she quickly got to hate doing it. And I hated seeing her do them if that was the cost.

    You will find some newbies in stripping (and camming no doubt) who enjoy it more at first. But like doing anything that requires effort for money required for living, it gets old pretty quickly. Especially with all the assholes coming in annoying the hell out of them.
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    Before I became a stripper, I flashed a guy once because it was Mardi Gras and he was really hot. It was fun because of the situation and timing. Not something I'd do in normal circumstances.

    This might sound mean, but I would never flash or strip for the types of dudes that go to SCs for free.

    I like the attention and feeling desirable, but the bigger thrill is taking a guy's money. That being said, I've always enjoyed mutual strip teases in a relationship.

    I do have fun at my job, but it is a job, and a lot of shit comes with it. I smile because I'm hustling; being happy is just a bonus.

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    Cam girls are actresses, dude. They're damn good ones too. I'm sure they love their job, but not as exuberantly as they seem to on Cam.

    Same goes for strippers too - I like dancing, but I wouldn't do it for free.



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    Yeah I get off on showing my body to losers who can't get pussy any other way. I really wanna show off my tits to Ralph, the guy who hikes up his golf shorts and the SBM who takes the local trade publications in the bathroom and wanks off to them. I do it for free as a charity write off on my taxes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    I like getting naked and I'm an attention whore. But in the SC, its not about any of that. Its work. So, I was neutral about the nudity part. No I wouldn't do it for free. I'll regularly flash my friends for kicks, but that's fun times with friends. Stripping is about keeping a straight face and a vacant expression while listening to some gross guy describe in detail how good he is at oral sex and how he'll do it to you for hours, knowing full well that based on the description, it would be torture.

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