I have done some free nude events and let me tell you I felt disgusted afterwards. No, not because I was nude but because they were making money off me while I got nothing in return except a few modeling contracts. I also got scammed by a "photographer" who insisted on nude samples and I being naive at the time did them. Then there were the times when I worked at club with a bunch of cheapos who weren't tipping and I was still expected to strip for them. There is nothing wrong with nudity but when it comes to others making money off another like this it's repulsive.
This is not to say I didn't enjoy stripping. I did, especially the shows where I danced and didn't strip. However, I would do the dancing at home if I knew I wouldn't get paid. I once worked with someone who didn't care if she got paid because she thought of it as "exercise". Sure, it's that, but why not exercise at home or at a gym instead of stripping?
I've known quite a few of these men and why they feel this way I never understood. I think part of it is from this idea that men think if they spend money they can get anyone, and the wealthier one is the more they express this idea. It's not just rich men, I've seen this idea with middle class and even poor men. It's not limited to clubs either, I've had guys think if they spend money we can be friends or more. Out of all the guys I met while dancing only one became an actual friend. He was only 3 1/2 years older from a similar background as me, and he wasn't one of my big spenders either. We had a lot in common including interests, morals, and other things. Sadly this relationship ended in tragedy because I fell in love and he got scared and disappeared. The other guys I met I knew would never be anything more than regulars because we had nothing else in common. They were usually much older, widowed, divorced or in unhappy marriages (a few were in happy marriages but they weren't usually my biggest regulars). Most of them had kids my age or older and most were sucessful in businesses. What would we have in common outside the club?




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