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    Three weeks ago I posted a sugardaddy ad on craigslist. As you all have seen from my other thread, I have been very successful with it so I decided to milk it as much as I could until my escort work picked up and it did and I decided to stop posting sugarbaby/sugardaddy ads. Well........

    A guy wrote me by the name of "James". "James" (caucasian guy in his early 40s) sounded very professional. He told me he was a marketing exec , he also told me he was NOT looking for a sugarbaby arrangment but a one or twice type thing. When he said that, I knew he wanted an escort so I CALLED him and gave him my website address (escorting).

    After a week or two of talking to this man. I felt I was comfortable enough with him to meet him. I screened him lightly not as I would most of the guys I usually see. He sent me a picture of himself and I was impressed. He was handsome for his age and I couldn't wait to meet him. He told me how he lost his wife 2 years ago to cancer and how he hadn't been with anyone in 3 years. I was like wow.. well we'll se soon!

    Today (June 18th) was the big day. James told me to drive out to his house which is 40-45 minutes outside of where I live. I said ok if he's willing to pay extra. I drove what seemed like 30 minutes. We met at a home improvement store. He looked just like his pictures. Damn god looking, nice guy, nice everything.. hey I'm game . I decided to park my car there and go with him.

    We got to his place and everythign was GORGEOUS. Nice home, nice everything .. you know me.. I'm a sucker for interior design. I went through the home admiring the rooms and the artwork. He gave me a little tour and ended in the bedroom. We decided it's time to get down and have a frik fest! hehe.

    So we're having fun. He's on top. While he's doing that (lol), I see a woman running with a camera in her hand. I'm like wtf? I must be seeing things. I blink. Ok the woman is still there. I blink again and she's still there. And I'm like "Hey who's that?"

    It was his wife --- You know.. the one that's supposed to be dead.

    I was shocked.

    I sat up and stared blankly naked and said "What is going on here?" "Who is that?"

    He says "I don't know who that is" totally ignoring her.

    She says "You are messing with a married man that's whats going on"

    and she says "You can do this in OUR home, in MY bed?"

    I pause and say "Wait... you told me your wife died of cancer two years ago."

    The look on his face pretty much told me he lied.

    She looks at me up and down and says "I didn't know you liked black girls..ha! Hot, young, slim this was expected."

    I couldn't say anything else but "Sooo...what time is it? I should get going".

    She grabbed him and slapped the shit out of him and called him a "bastard".

    I grabbed my heels and walked to the car, calm as ever and he came outside and dropped me off at my car.

    I said "So you lied to me. You need to start talking now and tell me what's going on"

    He says "Nothing is going on. She is not my wife"

    I told him he didn't owe me an explanation and he asked me if he could call me again. I told him I just wanted to get to my car safe. I did and I got out his car, got in mine and drove away....

    Traumatized is an understatement right now. I keep having flashbacks of what happened. My happiness is she does not have access to my actual website and my real email address/ or my work email. Words can't explain the way I feel right now but I'm happy I got out of there alive and unharmed.

    Who lies about their wife dying of cancer?

    I left a lot of details out. If I type anymore it will be too much. I just want you all to know what happened to me today. Be careful when meeting these men/when doing outcall

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    Ugh. That sucks really bad. Lying about someone having cancer is MAJOR bad karma IMO. Sorry you had to go through this.
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    Thank goodness you're safe. That situation is bizarre to say the least. People can be so nuts. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Again good to know you are safe. Also thank you for caring enough about others on this board to share all your experiences good and bad.

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    I'm glad it was only a camera and not a gun! Hell hath no fury . . .

    Quote Originally Posted by hidarlin View Post
    Thank goodness you're safe. That situation is bizarre to say the least. People can be so nuts. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Again good to know you are safe. Also thank you for caring enough about others on this board to share all your experiences good and bad.
    Agreed. We all learn from the bad experiences shared here as well.

    (((hugs)))

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    Thanks ladies. Lesson learned. No more outcall for me for awhile.

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    WTF! OMG! Being a fellow escort, I know I would be freaking out on the inside - can't lie- and on the outside. Many reasons why I would be pissed. Glad you're safe.

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    Wow... awkward much?? Lol. I want to know why she has a camera in her hand...

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    It really amazes me sometimes what lows some people like him will go to for sex/attention. Why did he even feel the need to lie to you if he was looking for escorting services and not a relationship? I'm just baffled by this.

    My mom did have a situation kinda/sorta similar to this during her early 20's where there was this guy who liked her a lot but she wasn't really feelin him. He was so desperate to talk to her and get her attention that he lied and told her that one of her best friends had cancer. She broke down crying and they talked for hours and just as he had anticipated she rested on his shoulder and looked to him for solace and comfort. He told her not to bring it up to her friend but eventually she did and found out it was a complete lie. So knowing that, I can see something like this happening! But what happened to you sounds way more intense

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    Did you really expect anything else from craigslist?

    Plus, that does not sound like a SD/SB type of relationship if sex is the first thing you got too, that sounds like pay for play. There's nothing wrong with this, but if you do want to travel down the sugar daddy road do some research and for the love of all that is good in this world don't use craigslist. That place is filled with the scum of the earth. They are cheap, dangerous and I don't see any good from advertising any sort of adult services through their website.

    Your safety is the most important thing, I hope you don't get yourself into something like that again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ohwellok View Post
    Did you really expect anything else from craigslist?

    Plus, that does not sound like a SD/SB type of relationship if sex is the first thing you got too, that sounds like pay for play. There's nothing wrong with this, but if you do want to travel down the sugar daddy road do some research and for the love of all that is good in this world don't use craigslist. That place is filled with the scum of the earth. They are cheap, dangerous and I don't see any good from advertising any sort of adult services through their website.

    Your safety is the most important thing, I hope you don't get yourself into something like that again.
    Did you not read what I posted? This guy straight up told me he was not interested in being a sugardaddy. He wanted an escort relationship that is why I called him and gave him access to my escort website.

    I know how the sugardaddy game is played. I have played it on CL and it went very well.

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    I still have to say that any self respecting SD would not play around on craigslist unless he was looking to get more bang for his buck or to pull wool over the eyes of someone who doesn't know any better. That kind of man shouldn't even make it onto your radar. Heck, even the general caliber of women who post there should be red warning lights.

    If that's you in your avatar, you could be doing much better elsewhere than that shoddy, janky website. You're worth more than that not to mention your life is worth more than that.

    If it is just escorting and not SD/SB that's even worse. Do you realize how many stings are run through craigslist? Girl, SAFETY FIRST

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    Quote Originally Posted by ohwellok View Post
    I still have to say that any self respecting SD would not play around on craigslist unless he was looking to get more bang for his buck or to pull wool over the eyes of someone who doesn't know any better. That kind of man shouldn't even make it onto your radar. Heck, even the general caliber of women who post there should be red warning lights.

    If that's you in your avatar, you could be doing much better elsewhere than that shoddy, janky website. You're worth more than that not to mention your life is worth more than that.

    If it is just escorting and not SD/SB that's even worse. Do you realize how many stings are run through craigslist? Girl, SAFETY FIRST
    Lady, I do not post on Cragslist for escorting. You should read the other thread where I posted about my experiences with CL.

    The Sugardaddies I have met on CL have not been anywhere near my vag. They are sugardaddies and not clients of mine .. I know the difference. They know not to expect sex from me.

    BTW CL closed down their adult services section a few months back. No one posts escort ads there.

    Yes it is me in the avatar. Thanks. I know exactly where to advertise my escorting business and I know CL is not it. I make more use of eros-guide and boards more than anything for work.

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    My goodness some people on this forum really need to check themselves!! TG I am sooo glad you made it home okay. What if his wife had a gun in her hand instead of a camera?? You might not have made it home again to see your daughter When things like this happen,it really can be scary. Just glad you made it out okay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by That"MODEL"Chick View Post
    You might not have made it home again to see your daughter
    This was my first thought when I was safe in my car.Total eye opener.

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    Quote Originally Posted by That"MODEL"Chick View Post
    What if his wife had a gun in her hand instead of a camera??
    Scary!!!
    Glad you're safe!
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    The way I look at it now is that she had the camera in her hand taking pics the whole time. Honestly, my first thought about the pictures was "I sure would like a copy of those pics for my camsite blog".Lmfao! I'm just glad I walked out of there safe. I was so shocked it took me 5 whole minutes to move and start putting my clothes back on. Truly scary. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy.

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    Im really sorry you got caught up in such a mess. I am not doubting your story 1 percent, but I am very suspicious of the entire escapade. It seems beyond foolhardy for a guy who is well off to be so reckless as to have a escort at the house when his wife was home or could possibly show up. I am suspecting that this was a game the 2 of them were playing, she could have been his wife, girlfriend, or another girl he paid to act out a roleplaying scene. I don't think you mentioned it, but I hope that you did get paid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chgojoe View Post
    I am suspecting that this was a game the 2 of them were playing, she could have been his wife, girlfriend, or another girl he paid to act out a roleplaying scene. I don't think you mentioned it, but I hope that you did get paid.
    Thank you. Exactly what I thought after I spoke to a friend about it. How I explained it is exactly what happened. Honestly? If it was a role play? I would prefer that than to be the reason someone gets a divorce. She smacked him so hard.. I doubt they were just playing around. Yes Yes Yes I did get paid. He gave me the money and tipped me $200 bucks while we were in the car and said "I'm so sorry". I will be staying FAR away from him.

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    I've heard it all now !!! He must seriously hate his wife . Why the hell not just say he's single! But died of cancer >?!?!?! LOL - why am I laughing ! I'm sick .

    Anyway - I am glad you're safe !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chgojoe View Post
    It seems beyond foolhardy for a guy who is well off to be so reckless as to have a escort at the house when his wife was home or could possibly show up.
    Well the story was his wife died two years ago. That was what he told me. He did mention a roomate that is almost NEVER there. I thought that was a bit suspect and he assured me that the roomate would not show up. So I said kool! If I had known his wife was alive and in north carolina? there is no way I would have agreed to such appointment!

    Oh btw, I'd be lying if I said this guy was "so well off". He was not average but not rich. His house was gorgeous, nice car and everything but anyone can get that with good credit.. ya know? LOL

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    Im going to guess that he went back home and was "punished" the rest of the night by the wife/girlfriend/dominatrix/whatever. Next week, or next month he will be looking to do it again.

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    omg I had a situation like this from CL. Only I didn't actually go to meet him yet. We had been talking for a while and I was going to meet him but the day before I was going to I got an email. It said I don't know who you are, but you are talking to a married man. He talks to other girls to bla bla bla Now because of you I'm going to leave him. So I wrote her one back, told her I was sorry for her and felt bad that her husband was a liar but I wasn't going to take responsibility for the loss of their relationship. And that if she felt she needed to leave him, she should. She never wrote back thank god and thank god I didn't go.
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    Wow... awkward much?? Lol. I want to know why she has a camera in her hand...
    My guess is 1) very intense role-play (in which case I would be pissed, no one should ever get dragged into that type of thing without knowing about it before hand. Tacky and rude!) or 2) Someone is about to have a really bad day in divorce court. It's kind of hard to claim that your spouse has an overactive imagination when she's got photos.

    Either way, you're lucky you got out of there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorgrrl View Post
    My guess is 1) very intense role-play (in which case I would be pissed, no one should ever get dragged into that type of thing without knowing about it before hand. Tacky and rude!) or 2) Someone is about to have a really bad day in divorce court. It's kind of hard to claim that your spouse has an overactive imagination when she's got photos.

    Either way, you're lucky you got out of there.
    Omg, I can't imagine! Well if the latter happened hopefully she could at least block TG's face out since she obviously wasn't told the truth about the situation.... But for someone to have their cam at the ready like that just sounds too suspicious, I think they set it up.

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    I think I was too shocked to think. I have never been in that position before. I was too shocked to even get out of the bed. Too shocked to put my clothes on.

    I do not think it was a setup. I just think it was another lying, cheating married man doing his thing. For me, I deal with lying, cheating ass married men at work so it honestly does not bother me being with them. What bothered me today was not the fact that she caught us but she caught us IN THE ACT! NOT AFTER OR BEFORE BUT WHILE IN A VERY INTERESTING POSITION!

    I bet she now has some interesting images in her head and maybe her camera.

    What you ladies have to understand is I SAW this lady come through the front door. His house is weird that way. He left the bedroom door open so when she came in I saw her, her facial expression when she saw us and I blinked thinking it wasn't real and that I was just seeing things. Sure thing ... she pulls out the camera and starts running through the hallway taking pics so yeah....

    I am 90% sure that this wasn't a role play type thing. A friend of mine suggested that I get in contact with her and try to testify against him in court if they are getting a divorce and I said no. I will never do that to a guy.

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