I don’t mean to be negative but anyone else slow AF I figured I would watch some porn during my shift and learn some new tricks while I’m waiting. I’m gonna stay on till the end of my shift cause I can’t make money if I’m not on cam. I especially get mad at the guys who act like they want a show then leave. I’ve learned the guys who buy don’t waste a lot of time. Quite a few guys like that...the show must go on
Focus more on what you want than on what you don’t want
I have a customer (not yet because he's not spent anything) who is constantly in free, then flicks in and out of private - how does he do this without being charged?
He keeps asking me to do a Gold show.
Only been streaming with SM for a couple of days, set up the account a long time ago but never used it mainly because I was having trouble getting the account set up - photos/ID rejected so focused on AW and VS. Got a lot of experience with those, so now a new environment to get used to BUT loving it.
He’s probably being cheap and purposefully trying to enjoy you for free. When I’m in private, if I’m near my keyboard/mouse, I really quickly click their notes box and write ‘P’ (for pvt) in there. That way, if they leave before being charged and come back in the future, either in free or private, then I know they’ve been in my show before for less than 2mins and I block them immediately.
I’m not necessarily saying you should block straight away if someone does that. Some people might give them a few chances or may even not mind. In my experience though, once they get away with it once, they just keep doing it so they don’t get another chance to with me.
I find a lot of the time it’s customer’s I’ve never even seen before. I’m sure they must hover over models rooms so they can see who’s in private and abuse it.
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Hi again thanks so much for the response so far.
Another question do you accept C2C in group?
I was in group today with 1 guy, getting on fine no C2C, another came in sent a request for C2C I didn't know what to do just carried on the timer ran down and he was on. The other guy was fine but I think he left when he heard the guy on cam making noises. The reason for leaving next to his name was 'user referred to support' (or something like that).
It was a distraction, never had someone ask for C2C when there are others in the group on other platforms. The first person however was 'invisible', but either way was it rude of the other guy to request C2C?
On for an hour 9AM-10AM, a few people came in but no tips, very little interaction, no shows = $0 WAH.
If it said 'user must contact support' that means they spent all their money on you. High five.
You can accept c2c in private and mute the gent's audio. That's what I do. I have no problem with them doing what they gotta do on cam or typing out their life story in group as long as the audio is off and their messages are set to private. It's easy enough to make generic words of appreciation/conversation so that the gent typing or the gent putting his best show on for you on c2c feels that you are acknowledging them, but also so the other viewers think you are making standard dirty talk and don't feel like they are only voyeurs to an exclusive show.
I also take requests in private but lots of models don't and that's cool. I apply the reasonable wanker test. If a reasonable man can get off to what I am doing then it's a ok for private. If it's the kind of thing that would make it weird for others to watch then I just redirect them to exclusive. If its reasonably wankable, but not what one of the later arriving gent's want, then they too are directed to exclusive.
This works a treat when you are managing a room of 3-4 in private and they each want a different, but reasonable show. You can very easily convince them to watch what is happening for now with the promise that their thing comes next and that they should enjoy the show until their part. 90% of them will agree and stay to watch what happening and because of the 'no weird shit' rule in private they can all 'make do' with what is going on. It won't droop any boners. It takes a rather frugal gentleman to cancel out of the private and pack away his equipment so he can wait for the next private and jump first to get his request, when he knows it's going to happen in the next 5 minutes or so anyway. But even if he does leave, by then he has to start all over again and you have another decent length private on your hands and the whole lets take turns shenanigans starts over. By taking even a very limited number of requests I find it justifies a higher rate for private (and because of that a higher exclusive rate also). There are more return customers also because if they loved the last show they will come back knowing that they can get the same again, but they will also come back to see a different show another day. If they know that a private is a generic show they might only come back for it a few times or not at all.
I try very hard to make sure everyone has the perception that they are treated equally to others in privates as they are all paying the same for the service at the end of the day. Level 5s will understand and go exclusive if they want full control and level 0's are more likely to return.
That being said, if you can sneak in ways to make them FEEL like they are getting a better deal (like the silent c2c or generic, whole room inclusive responses to their private messages then for sure do it.
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I took this week off because of the contest. I'll get back on tonight and back to normal. I had to deal with some mental health shit anyways and I got it straightened out so I don't regret not working. I'm moving and applying for a new apt and just deciding where I want to live. As a cam girl, I can go anwhere. I hate where I am now. I've narrowed it down to either salt lake city...even though im not a mormon...or NWA (nw arkansas/bentonville area). I hear great things about that place. AR is much cheaper so that is a plus but it's a 2 day drive for me because I"m terrified to stop and stay at a hotel due to covid. I'm super high risk and would rather take a nap in the car. So....i hope the ladies that did grind it out during a SM contest got some good $$. You are better than me...lol.
oh gosh yeah that sounds about right. some days i set the min to 5 gold and it was working like a charm. then all the sudden i logged off and came back online and my lush 2 was accepting 1 gold. AKA 35 cents
i hate that 1 small glich can greatly effect my earnings.
i thought i was doing something wrong but clearly its a SM issue.
thanks miss erika
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