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Eg do you only do them when it's quiet? Or do you aim to do a certain amount a day/week?
Also, when you start gold shows, what do you do when someone comes along and offers a pvt/excl instead and little/to no people have tipped yet? It's nearly always someone who I've never seen before, so I'm assuming they have no idea what my rates are for a start. Though one time it was a reg and I stuck with the gold show and he did pledge quite a bit extra, but I was kicking myself after cause if he'd come private, I'd have most definitely made more from him alone than I did in the GS and I'd have enjoyed it more!!
It's taken me a whole 2 years nearly but I'm slowly changing my mindset around them. I do find them mega nerve wracking though lol!




I'm not part time but I did find March was quieter than Feb!! I hit my targets but I saw a dip in my hourly. I was expecting the complete opposite! Although Feb 2020 was only the beginning of my 2nd year and countries started going into lockdown in March so with hindsight, maybe it wasn't the most reliable time to base predictions from..
Hi hun, I try gold shows as much as possible cos I find that even if show doesn’t work out, someone take me private instead and it pulls traffic into your room. I change target a lot too, sometimes 50, sometimes 80 sometimes 100. I don’t like just sitting there, so always try for gold show no matter what unless I’m really not feeling it .
Be careful if guys saying wAnna do private when doing gold show cos they say that then you cancel and they disappear. If you have a full room don’t cancel it. Depends on what vibe you getting from them.
Hope this helps x



Ahh shit, someone came into my room, tipped 10G for tits, and when I started to take off my bra, my internet went down! I could go back online after 5 minutes, and he didnt come back.Im so upset! I sent him a video, but Im sure he will never come back :@


Pull up his deets on your payment page and make a note on his account, I bet he does come back and then he can get the flash







I will add to Angela’s reply. When someone asks to take u pvt or excl, before u cancel gold show tell them ur rates and ask them if they are ok with it. That’s the reason they are leaving. I noticed that . It’s like “ can we go pvt/excl?” -“sure but it’s 11$ a min are u ok with it?” Some of them would disappear immediately lol but those who says “yes it’s ok” they always take u. Once I started doing that I don’t cancel for nothing. Also if they agree I tell
Excl sounds like fun looks like those guys don’t want to fuck me in a gold show” sometimes really good golds arrives so I proceeded with a gold showand grab excl after
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Can anyone explain to me how to do forced privates, or start a private show for myself? I found this article and tried to do what it says but while I was broadcasting I couldn't find anywhere that said "external site show".
This article is from 2018 so maybe it's no longer an option, but if it is I would really love to be able to splitcam and put myself in private chat on SM while I'm in performing a private show on another site.
Thanks


You have to have your own website that you embed the stream in.



Yes I crept my rate up slightly was wondering if that was affecting takings, but putting the hours in to see if I can do 20 this week. I juggle a few things including AW and privates as well as other commitments / work etc so 3 hours per day was my aim, managed I think 5 yesterday. I'm trying to persuade myself it's an exercise in staying on, stamina and discipline building.

We're working on that :-) This feature is out to very limited folks right now - so it's great you're digging it. We'll definitely announce as we make improvements and are able to roll it out to a wider audience. Please feel free to send your feedback in the feedback forms as those go to everyone working hard on the feature!





I love the new activity feature. I think it's a great way to connect with my customers, even when I'm not online. I'm going to try it out soon.
Edit: I just made my first post.
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Is anyone who here spiritual and in to crystals? I bought a natural piece of citrine for abundance recently and placed it next to my computer. Also I have clear quartz to repel negativity and enhance the power of citrine. Also have selenite that rids you of negativity (let’s face it you need that !) some of these guys truly have negative energies.




I am not really well versed into crystals I am buillding my collection. Citrine is really good for solar plexus- will power. Selenite is good one to have to cleanse crystals.
Currently I don't have crystals set up in my cam room, but I regularly cleanse my space- (sage and reiki.)








Cam Bunny contest?!?! Piss off!!





I wear different stuff. Currently wearing magnetic hematite, but often have black tourmaline and tigers eye. I meditate daily and cleanse my aura often. I have an incredible Reiki Practitioner who heals me when I need it most. I think it's smart to have crystals on hand. They do work!!!
Sha
Yes! imo it's so important. i just recently splurged on a bunch of stones, sage, oils, peosperity tools including a mojo bag and whiskey to feed it. I'm investing into some books next. I love learning and being open minded. All these things really have a huge positive impact for me and i love it
How do you deal with the findom guys who ask you to "raise your rates as high as possible"? Because you have to log off, raise them, and log back in, and in the mean time while you're waiting in free chat with new high rates for the finsub to pop back into your room, your other regulars are popping by and asking "wow you doubled your rates???"
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i wouldn't bother especially if you don't already have an established rapport with them. most finsubs are full of shit. if you trust that they can actually afford the request, just demand that they tip an extra $20 every minute or whatever while in exclusive with your normal rates. do some equivalent of "raising your rates to the highest amount" without actually doing it, because it is super disruptive to your workflow plus they may be bullshitting you and not come back to do a show anyway, and then you'd have to log back off/change your rates back/etc. not worth it, IMO.
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