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    Quote Originally Posted by JessRyan View Post
    I stopped offering ALL roleplay months ago. No way. All I need is some guy saying "mommy" just once and I'm banned for it. I don't trust saying "step this or that" the member won't do that in an exclusive. It ALWAYS turns into "mommy"
    It's not fun anymore.
    Nope!
    And I mean ALL roleplay.
    I have guys that come into my room and all they say is "Mommy". WHY??? And how is that allowed??? They definitely mean it in an incestual way and there's nothing you can say or do to convince me otherwise. I auto ban and report for that. And I personally hate roleplays, so the only thing that these rules are doing is making it easier for me to say no.
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    Where TF is everyone today ? I've never seen it this slow in a weeks time . Starting to get concerned / frustrated as I just bought a new home also ..

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    I think it's just the typical end of the month slowdown it'll be back up to normal very soon.

    So did anybody get to connect to the tea time conference call?

    It would not surprise me if they had tech issues with that too and couldnt even do it LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAdriana View Post
    I think it's just the typical end of the month slowdown it'll be back up to normal very soon.

    So did anybody get to connect to the tea time conference call?

    It would not surprise me if they had tech issues with that too and couldnt even do it LOL
    Yes, I attended it.
    No tech issues. It ran smooth as silk.
    Now, if they could only get the site to run like that, we'd be happy.
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    I am not even a domme but I think mommy dommes can use those terms and perform within the site guidelines without it truly falling into incest. It is about the power balance and what those terms represent.

    Use and abuse are very different things to me. Never do I allow abuse, but I tell them to use me all the time and never feel these rapey vibes from the majority of people who enjoy that term. The ones that do are blocked and reported.

    Nor do I feel I am close to breaking rules using those types of terms.

    There are so many role-plays that could go wrong, I nip it in the bud the second I sense it going off track. I just enjoy the creativity too much to close off role play entirely.
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    So freaking slow, idk if to stay online or just log off! I'm killing my hourly

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    I got too those quality limitation and none in bandwidth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by freyasnecklace View Post
    I am just not going to do RP anymore. I know this specifically is addressing taboos, but I have guys that like “Mommy Mistress “ stuff— which I stopped doing even though it **should ** fit their standards. It’s just that there is no way to be like “oh fuck yes not blood related Daddy!” “Or stroke it for not your actual Momma you little but legal aged perv” Haha
    too risky.

    Same for “rape” because guys like to “use their slut” or use language that sounds lines hardcore sex/bdsm. It borderlines CNC or rape fantasy.

    I reached out about a bunch of these sort of issues recently (that I may have got to close to), and they responded in a way that sounded positive. Hope they don’t end up banning me from past stuff. I firmly believe it is better to just avoid it all together now. I won’t even do most humiliation now because of how often guys want to hear borderline queer slurs.
    I really wouldn't lose sleep over getting banned for past stuff. They're banning people who are actively continuing to break the rules; I haven't heard of a case where they pulled up an old show and used past behavior as a reason to ban someone.

    To each their own and I do agree that just avoiding all roleplay is the simplest way to go, but I will say from my experience I have continued using Daddy with no issues or fear of getting banned. It's such a common word used on SM and so many guys just have it in their username. I'm not going to instantly block all of them for that; that's a lot of potentially lost customers/money. And maybe this isn't the case for everyone, but 99% of guys in my room never try to swing "Daddy" in an incestuous or underage way. They just want to hear Daddy the same way you'd use the word Sir in a dom/sub or power dynamic context, which is very much within the rules.

    Also support confirmed to me that you wouldn't get in trouble for telling the guys what the rules are. So I basically explain at the beginning of a show, "I'll address you as Daddy as long as there is no suggestion of incest or underage play - and if there is you will be instantly blocked" and then we proceed. No one has had an issue with this or tried to turn it into something noncompliant mid-show. I also frequently get called "good girl" while using the word "Daddy" and support had no issue with this. It's really not as bad as some are making it out to be, like the guy needing to say "that's my good legal-aged little woman" in order for it to be compliant (lol).

    As for CNC/rape concerns in BDSM-centric shows, I feel like as long as you are not using the literal terms "rape", and you are not telling them "no," "stop," or "I don't want it", then there's no reason consensually "abusive" language like "use me daddy, treat me like a little slut, etc" should be a concern. You can use a lot of hardcore language without it being misconstrued as non-consent.

    I do mostly vanilla shows but many of them have a slight submissive/kinky twist to them, and I also do full on BDSM shows with a select handful of respectful dominant guys who never try to push my boundaries or the site rules. I refuse to only do straight up vanilla and lose all of that potential kinky income when I am confident what I'm doing is not breaking any rules.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kamiliam View Post
    I just enjoy the creativity too much to close off role play entirely.
    I agree, I started hating roleplay because everyone wanted step sis and it just became annoying to me. Now I tell guys who ask about roleplay that I only do certain ones that I like, I straight up tell them that step play is overdone and generic at this point and I don't really enjoy it because thats how I genuinely feel. But because I stay open to certain roleplays I'll get fun ones from time to time. For example I have a reg who just wants me to roleplay divorcing him and leaving him for his best friend, which is a blast lol. And when I am asked what my favorite roleplay is, I tell them cuckolding. That answer gets me new cuck custies from time to time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MsJess View Post
    So freaking slow, idk if to stay online or just log off! I'm killing my hourly
    I don't know what happened but as soon as 3pm hit the traffic just fucking stopped. It was going fine until then, now I'm getting nothing, like maybe one person every 5 minutes. What the hell is going on.

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    Hey , Girlies , has anyone attended content boost sales tea party or whatever it was called lol
    Never participated in this kind of things , anything useful ?
    Thank you!

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    HEY , I have had this red limited for 3 days now. Why cant streamate fix it. I sent the info they wanted from me today, been 3 days, but I have a fast wired in cable connection, and test my speed, its not on my end. This is messing my money, all the guys say your lagging your blurry. Dont get me started on still not FIXED notes on men in my block list. Been a month. What does that 65% they keep go to?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreamqueen View Post
    Yes, I attended it.
    No tech issues. It ran smooth as silk.
    Now, if they could only get the site to run like that, we'd be happy.
    Thanks hun I was curious.. I guess they only wanted certain models there.. why they even send the message then

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigsnapper36 View Post
    HEY , I have had this red limited for 3 days now. Why cant streamate fix it. I sent the info they wanted from me today, been 3 days, but I have a fast wired in cable connection, and test my speed, its not on my end. This is messing my money, all the guys say your lagging your blurry. Dont get me started on still not FIXED notes on men in my block list. Been a month. What does that 65% they keep go to?
    I randomly get the red limitation thing too but will still be streaming at a high resolution. What does your bitrate say?

    Quote Originally Posted by anonamiss View Post
    if only they would send these rule reminders to the customers for once...
    Do we know that they don't? The chat box clearly and constantly states to not share their contact info with us and yet guys still do it all the time, let alone all of the other ToS that they have always loved to violate, and let alone all of the guys who ask for stuff that is ILLEGAL. So them still breaking the new rules to me is in no way indicative of them not receiving them. And as paranoid as SM is being I find it hard to believe that they're not updating the dudes.

    On another note, I'm wondering if we don't have to be so ban happy? In their email and in their FAQ they don't say that we have to block violators:

    If these acts are requested,
    protect yourself by immediately and clearly refusing, then report the member (hover over the folder icon next to their name in chat and click the "Report" button). During an investigation, that report is a positive sign that you are helping us keep this content off the site.

    stop the scene and report them (hover over the folder icon next to their name in chat and click the “Report” button). During an investigation, that report is a positive sign that you are helping us keep this content off the site.

    It just says to refuse them and report, not block. Obviously a dude refusing to stop would be block-worthy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Genoveve View Post
    Do we know that they don't? The chat box clearly and constantly states to not share their contact info with us and yet guys still do it all the time, let alone all of the other ToS that they have always loved to violate, and let alone all of the guys who ask for stuff that is ILLEGAL. So them still breaking the new rules to me is in no way indicative of them not receiving them. And as paranoid as SM is being I find it hard to believe that they're not updating the dudes.
    I have asked several of my trusted regs/customers if they have gotten any rule-related updates or if they have a new FAQ page or anything of the sort, and they all have said no.

    I suppose they could all be lying to me or just not seeing messages or updates from SM but I kind of doubt it.

    Edit: And if a bunch of guys who frequently use the site are in fact missing some kind of update message, then it sounds like SM needs to do way better in that regard.

    I'm not necessarily saying the best solution is for SM to message the customers as I'm sure plenty of guys never check their inbox. But SM should be doing *something* to emphasize to users that certain things on SM are now considered "no tolerance" acts. The rules technically haven't changed and all of these things have always been against the rules, but lots of models and users have done these roleplays for years and have flown under the radar until now. So there's no reason for customers to suddenly change their behavior unless the new "no tolerance" aspect is brought to their attention.

    Frankly I think logged-in users should have to check some "I understand the site rules" boxes before getting to chat in a model's room, like how the models have to do before we stream.

    And yes obviously plenty of guys will continue to be assholes and completely disregard the rules. But I'd like to think there are good guys out there would appreciate this info and actually respect the rules if they were made aware of them. Especially new guys that don't know any better.
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    I feel the new email really confirms the rules for strep role plays. i will follow them to a T.
    I wont be worried about my account I will cut and paste the rules into the chat ect. whatever it takes.

    to be honest i have been using these rules for the past year and every single client has been respecting whatever i ask of them.
    its all about being firm and tone.

    it can be done ladies.
    even if you are a submissive type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by freyasnecklace View Post
    I am just not going to do RP anymore. I know this specifically is addressing taboos, but I have guys that like “Mommy Mistress “ stuff— which I stopped doing even though it **should ** fit their standards. It’s just that there is no way to be like “oh fuck yes not blood related Daddy!” “Or stroke it for not your actual Momma you little but legal aged perv” Haha
    This made me laugh WAY too hard and now I have to go fix my eyeliner Thank you! hahahahahaha

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    If I view the site from outside I can see 'Do not share contact details' written at the bottom of the chat box, tried a feeder site same there.

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    Here's a weird one. Sometimes if a guy comes in that I have written a note about to block and I hover over his name, I can't do anything, can't block or kick.I could go down the screen and do it with anyone else, it's only ones that I have written a note about.

    Have I inadvertently done something to make them invincible when making a note?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ravenskyy View Post
    I have guys that come into my room and all they say is "Mommy". WHY??? And how is that allowed??? They definitely mean it in an incestual way and there's nothing you can say or do to convince me otherwise. I auto ban and report for that. And I personally hate roleplays, so the only thing that these rules are doing is making it easier for me to say no.
    I have it on my bio "call me mommy and you get blocked" but they still do, and I do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigbum View Post
    I feel the new email really confirms the rules for strep role plays. i will follow them to a T.
    I wont be worried about my account I will cut and paste the rules into the chat ect. whatever it takes.

    to be honest i have been using these rules for the past year and every single client has been respecting whatever i ask of them.
    its all about being firm and tone.

    it can be done ladies.
    even if you are a submissive type.
    i was thinking that to paste and copy rules. i am not sure if there is an automatic banned word detector! am i paranoid? or how they want to control that no rule is broke? a random thing? however copying there all word if it is not an human to check that they maybe block your streaming? then ofc you ll have your profile back but lol.... so my 2 cents

    i would check w them if it is okay to do so
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    Quote Originally Posted by tashiepuck View Post
    Where TF is everyone today ? I've never seen it this slow in a weeks time . Starting to get concerned / frustrated as I just bought a new home also ..
    This, today as well, congrats on your new home tho!


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    Quote Originally Posted by ChristieX View Post
    Here's a weird one. Sometimes if a guy comes in that I have written a note about to block and I hover over his name, I can't do anything, can't block or kick.I could go down the screen and do it with anyone else, it's only ones that I have written a note about.

    Have I inadvertently done something to make them invincible when making a note?
    I use Google Chrome and keep my camming tab minimized so it only covers half of my computer screen, and I have this same issue. When I make my tab full screen I am then able to hover over their name and block. I hope this helps!

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    We need a slap the sh** outta them thru the screen feature!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizzerd View Post
    Hi there. I assure you, no robots here :-) I know that form can be frustrating - but it really helps give us a starting point, and that results in a quicker solution :-) Also the UK rep is [email protected] as someone already mentioned. I assure you we're there for you!
    Thanks Liz I know you get tons of us grouchy models messaging you and sometimes responses have to be short and sweet.
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