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    I was told to use medium settings when this happens ... that is it
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    Girl, thanks for the heads up this issue! Seriously, I was going to end with a gold show tonight and my room went into cyber-acid-trip-mode. I remember reading this earlier in the day and it saved me from having a heart attack thinking my computer was crashing on me.

    Has anyone emailed admin? I am going to do so in the am when I'm not feeling pissy from said situation.

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    camming will make you grow thick skin. Im thinking your younger? Im in my mid 30s and remember being very vulnerable to attacks in my early 20s. I swear with age you get a "fuck the world" type of attitude and when you really start succeeding, you will just look at those comments and say "you are right, everything you say is right" make them feel like a douche bag for it not effecting you. Reverse Psychology comes in handy with this business. You will learn as you go.
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    Thanks, Alice.
    It is actually related to my personal life. I'm embarrassed sharing it in here; it feels... too much. Let's just say it's not something worth doing over a horrible day on cam, however horrible it might have been.
    It's just that... I never developed a thick skin in my life. Sometimes I feel like I'm walking around in the world with my nerves exposed. Whenever I have a bad day on cam, and especially if I get rude comments, it affects me to the core. I then completely forget that I've also had days where I banked, and only see myself as an ugly failure and the worst camgirl in the universe. Yeah, it's... pretty bad. I feel bad just typing it.

    I don't think I should quit or take a long break. I'll most likely log in again on Monday and see how it goes.
    I also hate feeling like I'm filling up this forum with negativity. It makes me feel even worse about myself. It's not my intention. It's just that you guys are literally the only ones I can talk to about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_Den View Post
    Thanks, Alice.
    It is actually related to my personal life. I'm embarrassed sharing it in here; it feels... too much. Let's just say it's not something worth doing over a horrible day on cam, however horrible it might have been.
    It's just that... I never developed a thick skin in my life. Sometimes I feel like I'm walking around in the world with my nerves exposed. Whenever I have a bad day on cam, and especially if I get rude comments, it affects me to the core. I then completely forget that I've also had days where I banked, and only see myself as an ugly failure and the worst camgirl in the universe. Yeah, it's... pretty bad. I feel bad just typing it.

    I don't think I should quit or take a long break. I'll most likely log in again on Monday and see how it goes.
    I also hate feeling like I'm filling up this forum with negativity. It makes me feel even worse about myself. It's not my intention. It's just that you guys are literally the only ones I can talk to about it.
    sorry there's crap going on in your personal life

    to the rude comments, you gotta stay empowered (easier said than done). trolls can sense when they are getting to you and they just do it to be hateful. i try and think about the sad pathetic lives they lead and what makes them say things like that to pretty girls - and it makes me feel instantly better.

    a long time ago, i dated someone who managed to make me feel insecure about the cellulite on my thighs and the bump in my nose but when you looked at him, he was lucky to have me because he was a complete ogre (inside and out). when you let comments like that get to you, you give away power to the person emotionally abusing you (that's what trolls do), changing the power dynamic to one where you are the weaker one.

    now, i've had trolls come into my room and comment on my cellulite and i'm like cool... 80% of women have it... thanks for being so observant. have a super day!

    people being rude is about them, not you. you have the power!

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    lol ^^ same story! haha

    I get these
    Your ugly
    "your daddy didnt think so"
    your fat
    "I dont own a mirror, thanks for the heads up"
    I bet you don make 50k a year
    ''I bet you are 100% accurate"
    your ugly
    "I also a conceited motherfucker"
    or
    "so are you, want to go private?"

    I have been called racial slurs "jew" "wetback" "cameljockey" "inbreed" "wigger" "redneck" ...wtfever.. so if saying this shit makes them feel better and they can sleep at night, more power to them. Ask them to turn on their camera, bet they will not.

    When it gets to me, I log off and go fuck around for a bit. Usually I can tell if its a model , such as the income comment.

    The best way to rid a troll is to troll right back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    lol ^^ same story! haha

    I get these
    Your ugly
    "your daddy didnt think so"
    your fat
    "I dont own a mirror, thanks for the heads up"
    I bet you don make 50k a year
    ''I bet you are 100% accurate"
    your ugly
    "I also a conceited motherfucker"
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    "so are you, want to go private?"
    exactly... you gotta turn it around on them. i had one guy say his dick fell off doing my mother so i responded, so you're dickless, that's why you're so pissy! that shut him up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by karaamsel View Post
    exactly... you gotta turn it around on them. i had one guy say his dick fell off doing my mother so i responded, so you're dickless, that's why you're so pissy! that shut him up.
    haha , it must suck to suck. I love trolling back. Kinda breaks up my day lol

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    You guys rock my world.

    I noticed that the thing which hurts me the most, more than anything else, is the guys logging in followed by an instant logging off. I get TONS of these and I mostly have, like, 2-3 members in my room at the most, even on the days that I bank. It makes me insane, because I think I'm far from being ugly. My stream is alright, too. I really, honestly don't understand it, and it feels like being punched in the stomach.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_Den View Post


    I noticed that the thing which hurts me the most, more than anything else, is the guys logging in followed by an instant logging off.
    This happens to all of us.. TRUST ME.. its not you, its cheap ass freeloading motherfuckers. When they come in free and leave fast it is due to them abusing the paid chat entry, they know that they are doing wrong. They catch u prv bc you are usually doing something, in free they flee bc you can hit the ban button faster if you recognize the name.

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    I get the same thing! They popped in my room then gone! It's not about you or what you look like. You gotta think of yourself as a $100 bill. It doesn't matter if its clean, dirty or all crumbled up, it's value doesn't change. A $100 bill is still a $100 bill!
    Focus on what's right with you rather then what's wrong. That will make you feel better about who you are.
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    You guys rock my world.

    I noticed that the thing which hurts me the most, more than anything else, is the guys logging in followed by an instant logging off. I get TONS of these and I mostly have, like, 2-3 members in my room at the most, even on the days that I bank. It makes me insane, because I think I'm far from being ugly. My stream is alright, too. I really, honestly don't understand it, and it feels like being punched in the stomach.
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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    This happens to all of us.. TRUST ME.. its not you, its cheap ass freeloading motherfuckers. When they come in free and leave fast it is due to them abusing the paid chat entry, they know that they are doing wrong. They catch u prv bc you are usually doing something, in free they flee bc you can hit the ban button faster if you recognize the name.
    Well, everyone once in a while, it is SM fucking up and kicking them off the page for some reason. As that happened to me a lot the other day, but then the guys were able to stay once they took me pvt. I don't know what's up with Streamate some days. I wish they'd get rid of the free peak ability, as it makes me psychotically angry when I'm doing something in doggy and I can't see the screen, so I can't see about banning the motherfucker when they are trying to do it for a second time that day.

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    I'm done with blocks , I only had the lowest amount enabled and I felt really short changed. Now that I started doing shows during the weekdays its ALL guys want. UGH

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Focus on what's right with you rather then what's wrong. That will make you feel better about who you are.
    Yes! That is great advice! Thanks Marina!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_Den View Post
    You guys rock my world.

    I noticed that the thing which hurts me the most, more than anything else, is the guys logging in followed by an instant logging off. I get TONS of these and I mostly have, like, 2-3 members in my room at the most, even on the days that I bank. It makes me insane, because I think I'm far from being ugly. My stream is alright, too. I really, honestly don't understand it, and it feels like being punched in the stomach.
    Not sure if you mean they log out once they come in to free chat or when they come in to paid chat, but either way, that is stereotypical free loader behavior. That or site glitches. If it's happening in free chat, it's because they're hoping you're doing something that they can use to jerk off for free. If it's happening in paid chat it's because they want their 30 second peek. It happens to me too, and I hardly even notice it anymore because it happens CONSTANTLY. I promise, it's not you that's the problem, it's them! Really, it's better not to have them in there wasting your time being beggars anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlettbelle View Post
    Not sure if you mean they log out once they come in to free chat or when they come in to paid chat, but either way, that is stereotypical free loader behavior. That or site glitches. If it's happening in free chat, it's because they're hoping you're doing something that they can use to jerk off for free. If it's happening in paid chat it's because they want their 30 second peek. It happens to me too, and I hardly even notice it anymore because it happens CONSTANTLY. I promise, it's not you that's the problem, it's them! Really, it's better not to have them in there wasting your time being beggars anyway.
    I meant in free chat. In private - yeah, well... as you said, it happens so often with the 30-second peeking that I don't even mind; I just feel sorry for the freeloaders that probably have their limp dick in their left hand, alternating between tabs with the right hand for hours at a time. It's kinda sad, really.

    In free chat, on the other hand, it boggles my mind. I know most of the guys are just jumping from room to room, trying to find something "juicy" to either stare at or jerk off to in free chat, but I'm still confused when so many of them seem to log off one second after logging in to my room. I mean, as I said - I rarely have more than 2-3 memebers in my room at a time, and many times I see other girls (not the top row ones) with 5-10 guys in their room at a time, doing nothing special. I know it's wrong and senseless to compare, but it makes me feel insecure and like there's something horribly wrong with me, even though I really do think I'm good-looking.



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    I gotcha. Had to LOL at the description of the 30 second guys - gotta love that mental image!! And I hear what you're saying about free chat. It can be really disconcerting to have people popping in and out all the time. It happens to me too, even when I have great placement. This week has been especially brutal. I'll be on the top row with 5 or less people in my room and NO ONE is talking. People pop in and out and no one says a word.

    Honestly, I would rather have the people who aren't interested just LEAVE instead of sticking around and harassing me or sitting there in creepy silence. :/

    With that said, I know how easy it is to focus on all the bad things people say/do on cam and forget about how well you've done in the past. This job can be really hard on your self esteem. Just don't forget that there are many, many guys who think you are the most beautiful, sexy girl they've ever seen.

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    I stopped those a long time ago , same experience you are having during the day "No Block time" No bb Im not a kid, I dont play with blocks much.
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    I'm done with blocks , I only had the lowest amount enabled and I felt really short changed. Now that I started doing shows during the weekdays its ALL guys want. UGH

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlettbelle View Post
    I gotcha. Had to LOL at the description of the 30 second guys - gotta love that mental image!! And I hear what you're saying about free chat. It can be really disconcerting to have people popping in and out all the time. It happens to me too, even when I have great placement. This week has been especially brutal. I'll be on the top row with 5 or less people in my room and NO ONE is talking. People pop in and out and no one says a word.

    Honestly, I would rather have the people who aren't interested just LEAVE instead of sticking around and harassing me or sitting there in creepy silence. :/

    With that said, I know how easy it is to focus on all the bad things people say/do on cam and forget about how well you've done in the past. This job can be really hard on your self esteem. Just don't forget that there are many, many guys who think you are the most beautiful, sexy girl they've ever seen.
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    Also - I know I said it before, but I'll say it once again: you are, without a doubt, the sexiest, prettiest camgirl I've ever seen.
    I cannot for the life of me imagine you struggling on SM; those guys are insane. Or just broke. Or both.



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    Im not experiencing this, kicking members off unless they are on a cell or ipad. I did experience a long lag the other day.
    I let go of being mad at the 30 sec thing along with blocks, fuck em, if that person doesnt do it, someone else will. I will catch them when I can but not focus on it.

    I think having the free 30 secs helps us not have charge backs? That is the only reasonable thing I can think of. ts the only site I know that doesnt do charge backs besides a escort site that provides cam.
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    Well, everyone once in a while, it is SM fucking up and kicking them off the page for some reason. As that happened to me a lot the other day, but then the guys were able to stay once they took me pvt. I don't know what's up with Streamate some days. I wish they'd get rid of the free peak ability, as it makes me psychotically angry when I'm doing something in doggy and I can't see the screen, so I can't see about banning the motherfucker when they are trying to do it for a second time that day.

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    ^^^ Can u explain pls why the 30 secs peeks prevent us from having charge backs on SM?
    Cause ImLive also has a 20 secs peek rule and they Have charge backs, a lot! That site could do the same as SM but obviously they not doing it and take even more money off models pocket even the commission there is 30% for new models or 35% for veterans or models in hall of fame.

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    my theory ONLY.
    say they complain they didnt like the model... they had 30seconds to gtfo. That is the only way I can justify why they do not charge back.

    I wasnt saying that is why they do it, just my theory

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    pming you

    vent bb vent this is complete bullshit

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    ^^ Maybe you need to email Liz and ask her for it? Gold show ain't shit!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Gold show ain't shit!
    so very true... I make money only from privates for the most part. I dont say no to goldshows, just ignore the request. Do them when I feel like it, not when they feel like being cheap

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    Yeah, I fought to get gold shows for a long time. I finally got them. Now they remind me of this quote: "Be careful what you wish for"
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    Can you say that one more time?! My $$$ cum from pvt/exclusive! I don't do gold show anymore. I was very angry when I used to do them. I only do them to punish the cheap fucks! My gold show is the most boring and I don't do shit so they can kick rocks barefoot!
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    so very true... I make money only from privates for the most part. I dont say no to goldshows, just ignore the request. Do them when I feel like it, not when they feel like being cheap
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