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    Quote Originally Posted by AmberAustin View Post
    Yeah, I guess he thought I would cum within the 15 minutes. I'll just remove block session options and hope I don't get more bad ratings.
    You know, a lot of us are acting. We are being paid to make THEM cum, not to cum ourselves.

    I'd be worn the fuck out if I cum every time, (plus I don't do much when i actually orgasm. No wonder you forgot the timer. If I were concentrating on actually making myself cum I'd have all 1 ratings. If I weren't acting a lot of the time they would have nothing to watch).


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    Wtf is going on with sm traffic this week. Shit ton of girls online - more than usual and less 'customers'. I don't know about anyone else but I have a really hard time staying online for my scheduled time when I'm sitting in free chat for 30mins straight and no one to even talk to. WHATS GOING ON?

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    You know, a lot of us are acting. We are being paid to make THEM cum, not to cum ourselves.

    I'd be worn the fuck out if I cum every time, (plus I don't do much when i actually orgasm. No wonder you forgot the timer. If I were concentrating on actually making myself cum I'd have all 1 ratings. If I weren't acting a lot of the time they would have nothing to watch).
    I'm trans though, so it's kinda hard to fake it

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    No they don't. The customer can stay in the show longer and he will be charged the same rate as if he were still in the block session. It just goes per minute and you can end the show if you don't want to continue at the lower rate.




    Quote Originally Posted by AmberAustin View Post
    Does Streamate end the private session as soon as a block is over? I may have fucked up if so

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmberAustin View Post
    I'm trans though, so it's kinda hard to fake it
    oops! I see why you would want to offer block sessions.

    Hopefully some of the other trans models will offer advice on how they deal with customers wanting you to cum on command and within a certain time period. It's really unreasonable for them to expect that (but a lot of customers do tend to be unreasonable unfortunately).


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    Email support, tell them he probably got confused and thought one star was the top rating as he stayed for the duration and seemed to enjoy himself. Could they please remove it. Be polite. I had one yesterday, guy was trying to direct me in pvt, I explained I only offer that in exc, he stayed for a good 6-7 mins then rated me 1 star, I emailed support and they have removed it within a few hours!
    Quote Originally Posted by AmberAustin View Post
    What happened is that I have mentioned on my profile that I'll only cum if you stay in private for 15 minutes, both because it take a long time for me to get there and I don't want every 3 minute man demanding it. A guy buys a 15 minute block and as we get started it's clear he's going to want me to cum. So I start getting there, and then all of a sudden I realize the private's over! I check the record, and the session ended after EXACTLY 15 minutes, and the guy rated me a 1 I waited in free chat for a few minutes to see if he would come back but he didn't. I don't know if I can get it removed. At least I still have my 5 star rating
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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    You know, a lot of us are acting. We are being paid to make THEM cum, not to cum ourselves.

    I'd be worn the fuck out if I cum every time, (plus I don't do much when i actually orgasm. No wonder you forgot the timer. If I were concentrating on actually making myself cum I'd have all 1 ratings. If I weren't acting a lot of the time they would have nothing to watch).
    Quote Originally Posted by AmberAustin View Post
    I'm trans though, so it's kinda hard to fake it
    I am a squirter so I can't fake it at all... so I just fake caring haha

    If you got it, flaunt it. If you can fake it, do it. Everyone is different - I actually enjoy cumming on the regular! I can't not be turned on touching anywhere my pussy LOL so I just go with it... !

    It CAN really exhaust me though, especially since I have health problems (after a head injury in 2010) which make me tired super easy. For example, I can do about an hour of back to back gold shows (7 min show with 20 min countdown). log off or jam in free chat for a while, then go again. Probably after my fourth GS i'm done for the day. (that said, with the traffic i'm experiencing right now I'm not getting the traffic for back to back GS and am committing more hours to make my goal). I drink A LOT of water before, during and after broadcasting. And I need to get my 8 hours sleep. It took me a while to work out what my limits were so i've been playing around with work/rest since I started back in April. We all got our own rhythm!

    Sometimes I've (wrongly) chosen the need for money over my need for rest (happens to the best of the rest of us!). My ish is that say, after a gold show, I have cum everywhere too many times already, and a guy BAM takes me private and wants me to squirt again. I want the money, but I feel like all I might manage is a drip so I just have to say, sorry, I've cum a lot today so the best we can do is see what happens! They are cool with that. I tend to talk talk talk a lot and ask questions in private and exclusive anyway (for as long as I possibly can) until the guy is like.. sooo... shall we cum now? I'm like, oh yeah !! and fake oblivion LOL

    If I don't squirt as much as I might have if they were in a show with me earlier, I ask them to PM me and I throw them a few free pics and tell them to come back for a supersoaking ; )

    The stuff I fake is more along the lines of like faking ATM... I put a condom on the dildo and after sticking it up my ass, whip the condom off off camera and then mmmmm lol

    the whole thing kinda got me looking much more into bdsm and dominatrix kinda stuff, in the end. though dealing with people's fantasies and fetishes can be a lot more work than touching myself up - sometimes I can't be bothered to care that much !

    p.s. I would advise against disabling block shows? and just change the way you communicate what you're going to do. I have BANKED in a few block shows where the guy has disconnected early or I forgot to attach my ethernet cable which seemed to disconnect the show, and they never came back to complete the rest of their time... I waited for chargebacks to strike a hit at my earnings but, every time, never did. So I keep em enabled and promote them all the time lol
    NAH.

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    Yeah, I'll just tell guys they have to stay in a long session or just deal with it. I don't really feel obligated when I'm only getting a couple bucks (my cut) anyway!

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    You don't need to disable block sessions, you just need to change the way you "advertise" what you do. If you promise that you'll cum in 15 minutes and you don't, the guy has the right to rate you 1 star. You didn't deliver. It sucks, but these guys are very literal. And no, it doesn't seem to matter that the customer is a guy & should be aware of how hard it is to cum on command. I can't visibly produce cum (ejaculate or squirt), so I have no idea what to suggest. But I suppose you'll need to figure out what your limits are, and advertise around those.

    As for him leaving at exactly 15:00, it's just the site's denotation of the time he paid for. He may have left sooner. Or he may have run out of money for the day. I've had guys stay in for long shows & leave right while I'm doing what they asked for. After doing the math, I realized they hit their limit.

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    I have asked many why they don't just go watch free porn, cuz half the time they ignore you or just order you around...LOL... and they said to me! They Like talking to a REAL person. That's why they don't watch free porn. So yea! Don't be cheap with yourself by charging less.

    Quote Originally Posted by bigbootyjudy1 View Post
    I'm back to report after 15 minutes of working at $2.99 i got greedy and changed my rates right back to $4.99 .I just cant take losing all that money.Im super happy i did because two of my regulars came and took me in a long private.I would kick my own ass if i stayed at $2.99.Im not running a thrift store here .If they don't like my fucking prices they can go stroke it to free porn.Keep the prices up ladies.Its not worth working longer for less pay.

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    off topic but allow me... did you guys hear about UK banks blocking porn internet sites ?? I'm guessing it includes camsites : /
    NAH.

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    I was wondering... A while back I was reading how to be a cam model and the advice was to not act horny. but it seems like all of my customers want a horny cam girl. I think it would be difficult to sell a gold show without acting horny, wouldn't it? The idea of me acting horny in order to get business feels wrong. I feel like the guys should be the ones pursuing me and not vice versa. However I always end up playing the horny aggressive one in order to get paid. Guys do tend to prefer when I am dominant so maybe that is it? Maybe I just come off as a dominant type? How does it work for you?

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    Wow. I would never give that advice personally.

    I tailor what I can to the customer.

    If they just want to talk, I tone it down. If they are thirsty, I tease and play horny.

    Go with the flow there are no hard and fast rules just do what works for you and what you enjoy x x x
    NAH.


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    WTF is going on with payments lately? This is the second week in a row where my check didn't arrive on Friday as it usually does. Is anyone else experiencing this? not getting my money on time makes me severely crabby!

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    Maybe you have a new mail carrier? Probably sounds silly, but the few times I've had late checks or packages, or even missing packages, my regular mail carrier was on vacation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KittyAudrey View Post
    Oh thats fun.. they can tip you in free chat then? Cant wait to be approved lol
    Can and will are two different animals-some guys really get cheap.

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    I have no idea what is going on with my stream today. One minute I'm on page 1 and the next minute page 2, then I disappear back to page 10. I can't even find myself right now and there hasn't been anyone in my room in 10 minutes. I'm usually somewhere on page one but lately this seems to be happening.
    I'd write to tech support but I assume they'd just say it's my fault.
    I have a good i7 computer, use the encoder, have 5 stars, use audio and have a fast internet speed.
    Is anyone else having this problem?

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    I was just writing in another thread that I didn't even appear in the Ebony category just now.

    I have no idea how people are finding me, they may have already added me to their favorites but it was dead dead dead. When I went to check, I wasn't even showing up at all. So weird...I dunno what they're doing over there.


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    Hmm, I'm not the only one then. This is really fucking with my money...
    I can tell when I've dropped back to pg 10 and beyond because my room suddenly goes empty.

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    Mine are also coming later. I used to get them friday or saturday and now it's monday or tuesday.
    Quote Originally Posted by sylvieblue View Post
    WTF is going on with payments lately? This is the second week in a row where my check didn't arrive on Friday as it usually does. Is anyone else experiencing this? not getting my money on time makes me severely crabby!

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    So when you are new, how do you get people in your room?

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    When you are new, you get good traffic because you are in New Models section.

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    NO ONE IS GOING PRIVATE HERE! Does this site suck? Is there a trick to this crowd?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissMorvahna View Post
    NO ONE IS GOING PRIVATE HERE! Does this site suck? Is there a trick to this crowd?
    SM's traffic is weird lately, it's usually a lot better than this. But aside from that, what's your placement like? How many people are you getting in your room at a time?

    If you have geoblocking on and you're not getting much traffic I'd advise turning it off, it's basically useless IMO. And keep in mind that you can make a bit of money in free chat through flashes and requests if you're comfortable with that (e.g. 10 gold for boobs, 5 gold for feet, etc.)

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