I'm finding SM rewarding so far....but challenging. It's really quite difficult to put my "SM" head on when I'm so used to my "AW" head.
On AW you can talk about pretty much anything. Heck, you CAN talk about anything. You can also offer escort meets, free meets, car meets, sex all night for the price of a dinner meets. You can pretend to offer meets, and you can talk about meeting as part of role play or fantasy. You can exchange contact info and send them your full home address if you weren't afraid of the consequences. On SM however, you can't do any of that. So I am finding the difference is quite stifling.
Had 3 guys contact me on SM wanting to meet me (as in date me). They've ALL sent pictures, including cock pics (bleh). They sit in my free chat and talk about how they would look after me if I was theirs. On AW I can dodge these easliy by saying something like "sorry I don't date for free, please see my profile for escort rates" (which usually results in them leaving and not returning)...while on SM I can't say this. So I'm having to dodge these questions on SM by literally telling them off! I've got to the point where I'm saying "DO you really want me to be kicked off? Because you are asking for something that's against the ToS of SM"
<<<actually having just typed that I realise I need to get harder on them. They don't want a show, they want free sex and they don't care if I get banned from anywhere because their penis rules.
Just having a bit of a rant there, but if anyone can advise how to up my SM hustle while fending off the "romantics" (aka: meet for free sex) I'd love to hear your stories

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