I raised my banhammer for the first time. The guy was saying it was stupid that I wouldn't tell him what state I am in. It just rubbed me the wrong way. Whoops, ban. First of many bans I am sure.
omg this is my 6th day in the web camming world; on SM (currently online)
I am learning fast, ladies.
No longer do I show my ass when someone asks, even when nicely.
Starting today, I refused to show my ass for free when someone (nicely) requested me to. I was reading other posts about that, and yeah, I SHOULD be tipped for an ass preview.
As for feet, I'll let those Foot Freaks look at my toes, soles, heels, arches. Lol.
Ok, so I have an...issue? I don't know how I feel about this: these two guys have, like, "befriended" me. They're ok to talk to. Like, we have actual conversations, so, they allow me to fill the silence of my room here and there. And we have interesting topics to discuss every now and then. So, not too bad for freeloaders. (and he let's me know where I'm placed on the website).
But, THAT is the issue. They're freeloaders in my room. One even admitted that he won't take me to private because he can't afford to. And they say shit, like, "I'm glad you're back" "I'll dream of you" "I was thinking of you" "I'm wouldn't want you doing that in pvt" and things that are meant to be sweet, but really just annoy me cause they aren't paying me shit.
What would you do? I don't want to block them, but sometimes I feel a surge of annoyance and want to kick them from my room because they won't pay for my time. But, I mean, they are decent people. But...freeloaders. Hmmmm..... Should I just let them be? >.<
Also, I have a regular that comes in and just tips to tease him in free chat. I don't show genitalia. If I'm not wearing a bra under my robe, I'll let a nip slip; flash my breasts. Anyway, he tips me in tokens, but they range from $1-$5, thought it's mostly $1 tokens a few times. Of course, I know I'm only getting chump change -_- Should I tell him that his tips need to be higher? Like, flash a tit and that should be a $5 token min?
Still much more to learn... like WTF STREAMATE WHAT THE SHIT IS THIS "3 WEEK PAYMENT DELAY" fuck you, I got rent to pay. I e-mailed them today when they replied with that shit. I told them that I absolutely canNOT wait 3 weeks when I have rent to pay, so hopefully they'll send me my check. I'm hoping to hear from them tomorrow.
There is a thread about the Streamate paychecks, and I read posts from the other girls. Has anyone experienced the 3 Week Paycheck Delay? Their damn "21 days hold to prevent fraud" shit.
Also, I never knew that cuckolding was a word nor a thing. And da fuq penis humiliation, holy balls, dude. holy balls.
noooo honey, don't show ANYTHING for free! if I have to get off my ass, they're gonna have to tip for it. I only flash my tits/ass/feet or stand up for tips. if they don't wanna tip you a measly $3 or $5, you know not to waste time on them because the chances of someone like that going private are veeeeery slim. most guys just leave, some will even be like "lol really" and them I'm like "lol really banned lol". Don't give them what they want for free!
block them the second they come into your room. if you have guys that haven't explicitly said they won't take you private but do keep talking your ears off, ask them if they wanna go pvt since you guys get along well or whatever. if they don't... block them. they're NOT nice guys, they're taking advantage of you! they know perfectly well what they're doing.Ok, so I have an...issue? I don't know how I feel about this: these two guys have, like, "befriended" me. They're ok to talk to. Like, we have actual conversations, so, they allow me to fill the silence of my room here and there. And we have interesting topics to discuss every now and then. So, not too bad for freeloaders. (and he let's me know where I'm placed on the website).
But, THAT is the issue. They're freeloaders in my room. One even admitted that he won't take me to private because he can't afford to. And they say shit, like, "I'm glad you're back" "I'll dream of you" "I was thinking of you" "I'm wouldn't want you doing that in pvt" and things that are meant to be sweet, but really just annoy me cause they aren't paying me shit.
What would you do? I don't want to block them, but sometimes I feel a surge of annoyance and want to kick them from my room because they won't pay for my time. But, I mean, they are decent people. But...freeloaders. Hmmmm..... Should I just let them be? >.<
if you charge $5 for a tit flash, why are you giving him so much for way less? I wouldn't even do all of that in free chat on SM, I'd only do it in pvt. you're selling yourself shortAlso, I have a regular that comes in and just tips to tease him in free chat. I don't show genitalia. If I'm not wearing a bra under my robe, I'll let a nip slip; flash my breasts. Anyway, he tips me in tokens, but they range from $1-$5, thought it's mostly $1 tokens a few times. Of course, I know I'm only getting chump change -_- Should I tell him that his tips need to be higher? Like, flash a tit and that should be a $5 token min?
We all have to learn, so don't feel bad and just keep going!
I've had a lot of this my first couple weeks. The guys who stay for EVER and just want attention, spend no money. I havent had to ban. Usually when I ask them repeatedly if we should go private the slink away.



NO. Make them pay.. to them your feet are no different than the guys who want to see ass or tits.
These guys are all freeloaders. They try to be gentlemen, white knights, get you in the friend zone, tell you you're too ___ to be doing this, or the don't feel right paying you, and so on and so on. Block and move along. They are going to waste your time, cramp your cam room style and funk up your hustle. Would these guys like it if you went to their work and fucked around with their time like this? No. You are not there to be these guys friends, you are there to provide them a service AKA work.Ok, so I have an...issue? I don't know how I feel about this: these two guys have, like, "befriended" me. They're ok to talk to. Like, we have actual conversations, so, they allow me to fill the silence of my room here and there. And we have interesting topics to discuss every now and then. So, not too bad for freeloaders. (and he let's me know where I'm placed on the website).
But, THAT is the issue. They're freeloaders in my room. One even admitted that he won't take me to private because he can't afford to. And they say shit, like, "I'm glad you're back" "I'll dream of you" "I was thinking of you" "I'm wouldn't want you doing that in pvt" and things that are meant to be sweet, but really just annoy me cause they aren't paying me shit.
What would you do? I don't want to block them, but sometimes I feel a surge of annoyance and want to kick them from my room because they won't pay for my time. But, I mean, they are decent people. But...freeloaders. Hmmmm..... Should I just let them be? >.<
This is the kind of guy you want in your room. Someone that is paying for your time. If he can't go to private at least the tips are rolling in. Keep this guy coming back for more and use him as example to other guys. You can make a tip menu for what ever you want that is ok with site rules. You must keep panties on so you can feel free to ask for tips for feet, ass, tits, shoe/sock/stocking change etc. Watch some girls on the front page to see how to get guys to tip for requests. If you have videos you can also include them in the tip list and send auto messages in your open room if it's slow and see if guys want to buy those.Also, I have a regular that comes in and just tips to tease him in free chat. I don't show genitalia. If I'm not wearing a bra under my robe, I'll let a nip slip; flash my breasts. Anyway, he tips me in tokens, but they range from $1-$5, thought it's mostly $1 tokens a few times. Of course, I know I'm only getting chump change -_- Should I tell him that his tips need to be higher? Like, flash a tit and that should be a $5 token min?[/b]
Not sure what something is? Urban Dictionary that shit. Penis humiliation is SPH, you make fun of their small cocks. It is so much fun, do not let those ones slip away!Still much more to learn... like WTF STREAMATE WHAT THE SHIT IS THIS "3 WEEK PAYMENT DELAY" fuck you, I got rent to pay. I e-mailed them today when they replied with that shit. I told them that I absolutely canNOT wait 3 weeks when I have rent to pay, so hopefully they'll send me my check. I'm hoping to hear from them tomorrow.
There is a thread about the Streamate paychecks, and I read posts from the other girls. Has anyone experienced the 3 Week Paycheck Delay? Their damn "21 days hold to prevent fraud" shit.
Also, I never knew that cuckolding was a word nor a thing. And da fuq penis humiliation, holy balls, dude. holy balls.Also, can't wait until you learn what CEI is!
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Ahhh that makes sense... Now i know why I am having my regs coming in under different usernames - and getting kicked out because of limits sooner than normally.
Bright side here is that I just contacted live support (while using my cstomer account) to see for myself how it works to get a higher limit, and it goes very easy and smooth. Got it done under 3 minutes and could choose my own limit (doubled it, while I dont pay for shows a lot.. like once or twice a year).
So the guys can go higher with ease
You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help enough other people get what they want - Zig Ziglar
"Be thankful for the troubles of your job. They provide about half your income Robert R. Updegraff
Okay, I have never seen the encoder do this before, I just finished an exclusive and I see the encoder log moving.. and it said:
Thu Apr 16 2015 09:44:25 : Start DVR command received
Thu Apr 16 2015 09:44:25 : Warning : Please prefix 'mp4:' to the stream name to record H264/AAC/HE-AAC encoded data at FMS using DVR feature.
Thu Apr 16 2015 09:44:26 : Requested DVR command has been successfully issued to Primary FMS server for stream o/14038815/show_98099209
Thu Apr 16 2015 09:45:15 : Primary - Network Status: NetConnection.Connect.Closed status
Thu Apr 16 2015 09:45:20 : Primary - Disconnected
As soon as I saw it I didnt start any command. Has any one seen this? now I am paranoid someone took control of my computer! (to much Cyber-CSI lol)
Dude comes in. Call me daddy, call me daddy, blah blah blah.
Me: Sure, sweetie, I'll happily call you that all night long in a session.
Dude: No, now.
Me: Okay, tip me a few gold and I'll call you that right now!
Dude: No, say it and then we go private.
Me: (rolling eyes, finger on kick button) That's not how it works with me. I don't do tricks in the hopes of getting a private, either you'd like to play or you don't. It's no skin off my back if you don't. (*sweet smile*)
Dude: *immediately takes me into premium* (first words out of his mouth are...) You made daddy mad.
Me: (*boggling that he paid after I apparently pissed him off*) Ooh, is daddy gonna spank me?
And we rolled from there. But lmao. What even.




He's not trying to get you banned. I've been doing daddy & taboo shows on SM for years even though they're technically not allowed. I've never once been warned about it or anything. Do it at your own risk of course, but IMO it's one of those rules that just isn't enforced at all. And I honestly think there is NOTHING at all risky about saying the word "daddy" whatsoever.



How can you tell what page of streamates you are listed on if you have your own area geoblocked so you can't see your self?




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