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    I can never walk away from the opportunity to play this clip




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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlettbelle View Post
    I do a LOT of roleplay shows. I used to feel awkward about doing certain ones, but I learned as I went. I never turn down a roleplay show unless the guy wants something that's against the site rules. Don't worry about wasting their money - they're paying as they go so they can always leave or give you better directions if they don't like what you're doing. You may be surprised by how laid back a lot of the roleplay guys are. As long as you put in some effort and follow their cues you'll be fine! I know some guys won't give you *anything* to go on, but that's on them.

    Roleplaying is just improv. If you feel like you want to work on your skills off cam, maybe take some improv classes or look up videos online. In my experience though, the best way to learn is experience. The more shows you do, the better you'll get. There are tons of guys who are in to similar things, so you can always use lines and ideas from customer A on customer B.
    This is really great advise, thank you! I'm going to try just rolling with it. Asking questions about what they want and just give it a try. Thank you for the perspective.

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    Okay, I'm stumped at whats going on with my encoder. It starts starts dropping bit rates :254, then 206 then 131, then switches to frame drop. THEN it blinks and starts going up the scale: 420, 450, 534, up to 724 then blinks and starts going down again. My cpu is fine, never goes over maybe 40% and my upload rate is like 3.5, I've cleared all cookies and even tried resetting to the medium cam settings so what the FUCK. I can't get shows looking like a freezing blurry mess.

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    ^^^ I am sorry, this is just happening sometimes, if ur connection is OK then it's on SM's side, it happened to me too several times, it just got fixed on it's own but not right away, u never know how long is going to take.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AliceFun View Post
    ^^^ I am sorry, this is just happening sometimes, if ur connection is OK then it's on SM's side, it happened to me too several times, it just got fixed on it's own but not right away, u never know how long is going to take.
    Yeah this has happened to me before, but this is a BAD time for extra days off since I'll be taking time off at the end of next month. I guess if it does it again tonight I could try streaming without the encoder so at least I'll be online.

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    omg I've been online for like an hour and all i've gotten is a bunch of in and outs, sometimes so fast that it doesn't even make sense lol. nobody has even said hi to me so I've just stopped saying hi because I feel stupid saying hi to people who log out right as I say it. *cries* lol

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    I haven't had an exclusive yet tonight and I didn't have a single one on Saturday night. Instead I'm having lots of long privates. I had two almost thirty minute privates two days in a row, which is almost unheard of for me. Long sessions are nearly always exclusive. It's really odd. Am I just having a weird weekend or has anyone else experienced this?

    EDIT: Nevermind. Finally had an exclusive. Guess I'm just having a strange weekend.
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    Has anyone else been getting kicked off of streamate over and over, in the middle off shows, gold shows THE WORKS??!? W.T.F.??? PLEASE HELP

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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous camgirl View Post
    I usually get mine on Mondays but today I got it on Tuesday! have faith sista.. Why oh why do they not offer Direct Deposit!.. has anyone suggested this! ,.. All my other sites mostly are DD
    they dont offer it because they have a bank deposit partnership with payoneer. ive noticed that most sites that dont have direct deposit are partnered up with payoneer for bank transfers .this is how mine is set up. on friday the money goes into my payoneer account then it goes right into my green dot card and i get the money on tuesday and the fee is only 1.50 vs 3-5 for having it go right into the card.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlueBunny View Post
    I had an SM account which I stopped working because of the love/hate relationship I have with this site. It is now deactivated by SM due to inactivity. I want to start a new account with them and actually take advantage of the new girl status. I am guessing that even though my account is inactive, I will still have to email them to ask for it to be completely closed.. am I correct on that? My other question is: once they close the account, can I reuse the same email address to start a new account, or will I have to use a different one? I am trying to minimize however long they take for initial account setup by not screwing up too much in the process.
    they close ur account after 3 months of not using it and its still there its just frozen . email support and tell them u want it back . they generally dont let u make a new account that easy anymore last i knew
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    I'm disappointed.. I guess I'm gonna have to unblock myself from time to time.
    it takes a 24-48 hours for it to kick in when u turn it on or off just FYI
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    Welll.. I Have been suspended for one day on Streamate for "No masturbation in Free Chat" .. I wrote support because I am really confused. I do not EVER do this in free chat, and I have never shown below the waist nudity. WTF.


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    Welll.. I Have been suspended for one day on Streamate for "No masturbation in Free Chat" .. I wrote support because I am really confused. I do not EVER do this in free chat, and I have never shown below the waist nudity. WTF.
    Did you do the "masturbate off camera view" thing or maybe "hands in the panties rubbing" thing? I've always assumed those two things qualified as masturbation in free chat... but I see people do it all the time. Thats my best guess.

    Sucks tho! Sorry bb!
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    Did you do the "masturbate off camera view" thing or maybe "hands in the panties rubbing" thing? I've always assumed those two things qualified as masturbation in free chat... but I see people do it all the time. Thats my best guess.

    Sucks tho! Sorry bb!
    hmm.. I haven't ever masturbated off cam in free chat. I have occasionally put my hands down my panties in free chat but I have done this through TV gold show countdowns plenty of times without any problem. I never show anything, and I would NEVER do any part of a show for free. It's just frustrating because I really needed to log on and make money today OH well. Guess I'll use the day to make content for my site!


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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyAdams View Post
    hmm.. I haven't ever masturbated off cam in free chat. I have occasionally put my hands down my panties in free chat but I have done this through TV gold show countdowns plenty of times without any problem. I never show anything, and I would NEVER do any part of a show for free. It's just frustrating because I really needed to log on and make money today OH well. Guess I'll use the day to make content for my site!
    You should contact sm, I know lots of people who've gotten suspended for something that they didn't do in free chat that had it lifted so they could work. Ask them what you did to get the suspension because you don't ever masturbate or simulate masturbation in free chat and you want to make sure that you know exactly what you did so you don't have this issue again. Argue your case and see what they say!

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    You should contact sm, I know lots of people who've gotten suspended for something that they didn't do in free chat that had it lifted so they could work. Ask them what you did to get the suspension because you don't ever masturbate or simulate masturbation in free chat and you want to make sure that you know exactly what you did so you don't have this issue again. Argue your case and see what they say!
    Thanks! I wrote to them and am waiting for a response back. We'll see!


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    Cuckold people: I've literally had five cuckolders enter my room and spend/waste/use 10-20 mins of my time during Guest Chat narrating their cuckold stories ("Cuckolding: The Genesis Story" is how I see it -__- ). Even worse, a few would enter my room 1-2 days later and then continue with their "fascinating" stories. So, basically I've gotten sick of these cuckolders after a week of interacting with them because they just wanted to share their experiences where I acted engrossed in the stories for free. (I hinted to them "look, this type of talk is for EXC, not for guest chat" and they would respond along the lines "we'll go EXC I just need to tell you my story first for [insert reason]").

    The last cuckolder I interacted with, 2 days ago, I told him upfront that I wasn't really up to listening to his cuckold story for the reason stated above. The cuckolder was understanding and even said that those other cuckolders were rude for continuously coming back to my room to continue with their stories. Well, he said he wanted to gauge how I am as a person before taking me EXC, so I let him begin his story. I did... after about 5 mins of feigning interest, I told him, again, that I can't continue with this and that he was wasting my time and this was for EXC. I emphasize that I was both polite and professional. He had the audacity to tell me that "it wasn't like I'm wasting your time. No one is taking you prv." Again, I was polite&prof and essentially told him that this was unacceptable and that I felt like I was being taken advantage of and he was like, "Ok sweetie bye."

    What should I have done? I was sticking up for myself. Did I do it wrong? What's your experience with cuckolders?

    This shouldn't get to me, but I've been feeling burnt out for the past 4 days. I've had a lot of traffic in the guest chat, but only made $25 on 4/17 and 4/18(I'm in California). I took Sunday 4/19 off because I needed a proper break. My profile was approved Apr 5, but started working Apr 9. My first two days [before the pay period ended] I made $250; The Apr 12 week I made $499, but it was on 4/16 when I began making practically nothing! For 3 days, I barely made anything. I'm online for 7-12 hours a day. My regular customers inform me of my front page ranking when I ask. I fluctuate from the top row to a few rows down. Has anyone experienced this? High traffic, but little customers despite working it right? My camera quality is a little shitty, but that's the only thing I can think of that may be affecting me...

    I hate being this person, asking what am I doing wrong? But going from making $80-$100+ per day to $20-$40 per day is a hard blow and I can't wrap my head around it. I'm getting on this evening for a few hours, so hopefully I'll make $$. Hell, I even tried starting gold shows for $30 for a 10 min show... I have yet start a successful gold show. I'm sexy, smart, and fun. I have a neo-classical, french moulin rouge theme with jazz in the background. I've gotten so many (mature) compliments about my set-up and allure. Maybe it's the hours... I've noticed the afternoons are shit. Most people are on in the morning and late evening.

    And I have yet to receive my paycheck via mail despite e-mailing Support inquiring about my pay status/check delivery after they took me off the 3 Week Delay. No response.

    I have issues and I'm sorry for being this person who is whining. I think once I surpass this noobie stage, I'll be less of a bother.
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    THIS PERSON RECORDS

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    I already emailed Support about this guy who was recording me.

    User: highfryballs

    He was in my guest chat and stupidly admitted to recording me. I asked him "why are you recording me?" to assess his seriousness/facetiousness, and he said it was for jacking off to later. I assessed he was being serious.

    highfryballs << beware of that user if he enters your room!

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    [QUOTE=PeterPan;2751340]Cuckold people: I've literally had five cuckolders enter my room and spend/waste/use 10-20 mins of my time during Guest Chat narrating their cuckold stories ("Cuckolding: The Genesis Story" is how I see it -__- ). Even worse, a few would enter my room 1-2 days later and then continue with their "fascinating" stories. So, basically I've gotten sick of these cuckolders after a week of interacting with them because they just wanted to share their experiences where I acted engrossed in the stories for free. (I hinted to them "look, this type of talk is for EXC, not for guest chat" and they would respond along the lines "we'll go EXC I just need to tell you my story first for [insert reason]").

    The last cuckolder I interacted with, 2 days ago, I told him upfront that I wasn't really up to listening to his cuckold story for the reason stated above. The cuckolder was understanding and even said that those other cuckolders were rude for continuously coming back to my room to continue with their stories. Well, he said he wanted to gauge how I am as a person before taking me EXC, so I let him begin his story. I did... after about 5 mins of feigning interest, I told him, again, that I can't continue with this and that he was wasting my time and this was for EXC. I emphasize that I was both polite and professional. He had the audacity to tell me that "it wasn't like I'm wasting your time. No one is taking you prv." Again, I was polite&prof and essentially told him that this was unacceptable and that I felt like I was being taken advantage of and he was like, "Ok sweetie bye."

    Yeah this is always a weird one. I have lots (and lots and lots) of cucks, it's my main rp and generally if they start feeding me a story in free chat I listen until I get the general gist and say "oh, so you like *rephrase concept*, we can absolutely do that in an exclusive chat". I think paraphrasing their storyline down to 1 sentence before they get the chance to jerk off all over my free chat room tends to confuse them and then they have no reason to hang around telling me more details. Sometimes its hard because they are just trying to get a feel for what your like, that's just something you have to gauge.
    Truthfully I like knowing a little detail about the fantasy before we go anyway. I want to know if he's actually a cuck or a hawtwifer, totally different fantasy. Telling some guy that he's a worthless pile of shit who just wants to fantasize about a chick being with another guys is always kind of an oopsie! situation.
    I'm sure I've driven off plenty of guys who may have been great customers by telling them that they can talk to me in free chat but if they want to start giving details about their fantasy, they have to go to paid, but oh well.

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    Thanks! I wrote to them and am waiting for a response back. We'll see!
    I have noticed that a few times during tech issues on sm that my private show was actually being shown in free chat due to my encoder lagging and I emailed them immediately. This is the only thing I can think of happened to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlyssaJane View Post
    For cuckold fantasies they love to hear about how good//better another man is, how they (my cuckold) isn't good enough to be inside me, if they are lucky they can have the sloppy seconds, how I'll expect them to lick another mans cum out of me.[/url]
    That's been my experience with my first few cuckolders. They loved that I was degrading towards them and that I shamed them, etc. Another one just wanted to tell me their story and ask questions, while being dominant without the degredation. The last one I had wanted me to be interested and that was it.

    I fucking hate those people. Why? Because 10-20 mins they leave without taking me exc, or much less a tip for taking up my time in guest chat. I haven't had a good exp with them so far. :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by PeterPan View Post
    Cuckold people: I've literally had five cuckolders enter my room and spend/waste/use 10-20 mins of my time during Guest Chat narrating their cuckold stories ("Cuckolding: The Genesis Story" is how I see it -__- ). Even worse, a few would enter my room 1-2 days later and then continue with their "fascinating" stories. So, basically I've gotten sick of these cuckolders after a week of interacting with them because they just wanted to share their experiences where I acted engrossed in the stories for free. (I hinted to them "look, this type of talk is for EXC, not for guest chat" and they would respond along the lines "we'll go EXC I just need to tell you my story first for [insert reason]").

    The last cuckolder I interacted with, 2 days ago, I told him upfront that I wasn't really up to listening to his cuckold story for the reason stated above. The cuckolder was understanding and even said that those other cuckolders were rude for continuously coming back to my room to continue with their stories. Well, he said he wanted to gauge how I am as a person before taking me EXC, so I let him begin his story. I did... after about 5 mins of feigning interest, I told him, again, that I can't continue with this and that he was wasting my time and this was for EXC. I emphasize that I was both polite and professional. He had the audacity to tell me that "it wasn't like I'm wasting your time. No one is taking you prv." Again, I was polite&prof and essentially told him that this was unacceptable and that I felt like I was being taken advantage of and he was like, "Ok sweetie bye."

    What should I have done? I was sticking up for myself. Did I do it wrong? What's your experience with cuckolders?

    This shouldn't get to me, but I've been feeling burnt out for the past 4 days. I've had a lot of traffic in the guest chat, but only made $25 on 4/17 and 4/18(I'm in California). I took Sunday 4/19 off because I needed a proper break. My profile was approved Apr 5, but started working Apr 9. My first two days [before the pay period ended] I made $250; The Apr 12 week I made $499, but it was on 4/16 when I began making practically nothing! For 3 days, I barely made anything. I'm online for 7-12 hours a day. My regular customers inform me of my front page ranking when I ask. I fluctuate from the top row to a few rows down. Has anyone experienced this? High traffic, but little customers despite working it right? My camera quality is a little shitty, but that's the only thing I can think of that may be affecting me...

    I hate being this person, asking what am I doing wrong? But going from making $80-$100+ per day to $20-$40 per day is a hard blow and I can't wrap my head around it. I'm getting on this evening for a few hours, so hopefully I'll make $$. Hell, I even tried starting gold shows for $30 for a 10 min show... I have yet start a successful gold show. I'm sexy, smart, and fun. I have a neo-classical, french moulin rouge theme with jazz in the background. I've gotten so many (mature) compliments about my set-up and allure. Maybe it's the hours... I've noticed the afternoons are shit. Most people are on in the morning and late evening.

    And I have yet to receive my paycheck via mail despite e-mailing Support inquiring about my pay status/check delivery after they took me off the 3 Week Delay. No response.

    I have issues and I'm sorry for being this person who is whining. I think once I surpass this noobie stage, I'll be less of a bother.
    You don't need to listen to their stories AT ALL in free chat. As soon as I see someone writing a novel about their fetish in free chat I say "Sounds like fun! We can do that in Exclusive!" If they keep going I ignore them completely.

    They need to tell you a BRIEF rundown of what they would like to do, then explain the rest in Exclusive. DO NOT TOLERATE BAD BEHAVIOR. Nip it in the bud as soon as it happens or they will walk all over you. They know what they're doing! Guys like that prey on new models because they know you'll be nice and they can push your boundaries. It happened to me all the time when I was new, but I learned very quickly that I HAD to put my foot down immediately with those guys. I promise you, those same guys who walk all over new models are politely buying shows from models like me who don't tolerate their BS.

    Keep sticking up for yourself, just do it sooner and don't be afraid to be a little bitchy (or a lot ). And don't beat yourself up - there's a huge learning curve. You'll figure it out as you go. As far as the inconsistent traffic/earnings goes...that's just how this job is. There are always going to be glitches, or football games, or whatever. Just keep trying to learn and improve every day. And don't be afraid to branch out to other sites, or start making clips, or doing PSO work. More eggs in more baskets = more stability.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    Yeah this is always a weird one. I have lots (and lots and lots) of cucks, it's my main rp and generally if they start feeding me a story in free chat I listen until I get the general gist and say "oh, so you like *rephrase concept*, we can absolutely do that in an exclusive chat". I think paraphrasing their storyline down to 1 sentence before they get the chance to jerk off all over my free chat room tends to confuse them and then they have no reason to hang around telling me more details. Sometimes its hard because they are just trying to get a feel for what your like, that's just something you have to gauge.
    Truthfully I like knowing a little detail about the fantasy before we go anyway. I want to know if he's actually a cuck or a hawtwifer, totally different fantasy. Telling some guy that he's a worthless pile of shit who just wants to fantasize about a chick being with another guys is always kind of an oopsie! situation.
    I'm sure I've driven off plenty of guys who may have been great customers by telling them that they can talk to me in free chat but if they want to start giving details about their fantasy, they have to go to paid, but oh well.
    omg Kitcatt, I've seen your profile on Streamate. You're so gosh darn cute/attractive. I think I'm fangirling over you a bit. Haha.


    Right, I've done exactly that. Let them tell their tale and after a while, I would paraphrase what they've told me and say something like, "I can do that and so much more in EXC." They would either ignore me or falsely promise to make to EXC soon. I make sure to act interested and enraptured by their story cause $$$ is always wonderful. ha.
    But, a couple of days later, I realized that the ones who just kept going on and on really were taking advantage of me.

    I think I'll be able to handle these fellows with better ease at this point just from your reply alone! Thanks so much! ThankyouThankyouThankyou.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlettbelle View Post
    You don't need to listen to their stories AT ALL in free chat. As soon as I see someone writing a novel about their fetish in free chat I say "Sounds like fun! We can do that in Exclusive!" If they keep going I ignore them completely.

    They need to tell you a BRIEF rundown of what they would like to do, then explain the rest in Exclusive. DO NOT TOLERATE BAD BEHAVIOR. Nip it in the bud as soon as it happens or they will walk all over you. They know what they're doing! Guys like that prey on new models because they know you'll be nice and they can push your boundaries. It happened to me all the time when I was new, but I learned very quickly that I HAD to put my foot down immediately with those guys. I promise you, those same guys who walk all over new models are politely buying shows from models like me who don't tolerate their BS.

    Keep sticking up for yourself, just do it sooner and don't be afraid to be a little bitchy (or a lot ). And don't beat yourself up - there's a huge learning curve. You'll figure it out as you go. As far as the inconsistent traffic/earnings goes...that's just how this job is. There are always going to be glitches, or football games, or whatever. Just keep trying to learn and improve every day. And don't be afraid to branch out to other sites, or start making clips, or doing PSO work. More eggs in more baskets = more stability.
    Thank you so much, scarlettbelle!!

    So, brevity and BS tolerance, then. Lol.

    And, yeah, I'm going to test the different hours. Instead of staying on for 7-10 hours from noon-past midnight... I'll def test different parts of the day.
    I have to constantly remind myself: "New, but not naive. Still learning, it's too early for disappointment." Haha.

    Thank you very much!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella28 View Post
    I have noticed that a few times during tech issues on sm that my private show was actually being shown in free chat due to my encoder lagging and I emailed them immediately. This is the only thing I can think of happened to you.
    That is what I was wondering, too!! That's the only thing that I can think of... or some other model who reported for something that wasn't necessarily true. I get a lot of models in my room that try and clear out my room etc.

    Streamate hasn't responded .. I feel like by the time that they do the suspension will be over regardless, so I'm going to thank whoever the reason behind this is because it gave me more time to produce content for my site and depend on SM a little less


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