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    I would like other strippers opinion on something that happened a while back with my husband and I at a strip club. We went in together and have been there 2 other times in the past few years. Nice place, slow night though. FYI, I had just started taking adderall and didnt know youre not suppose to drink while on it. So I was drunk and didnt know it, also do not remember much of the night except for bits and pieces. I asked her the rules before she started dancing and she said we can touch anywhere but between the legs. Mind you, this was not a private dance, it was in the corner with some sheer curtains in front of us. I touched her all over and had fun. My husband I guess didnt do any touching this time. She hung out with us for about another hour and asked if we wanted a couples dance. oh yeah, I also gave her 60 instead of 20 for the first dance! I dont even remember that. Second dance started wtih her tying my husbands hands over his head with her panties and her taking my hand to let me feel her piercing! I did not go further. Im right next to my husband sitting. She leans in with her boobs in his face, flips her hair over him and apparently lets him suck on her boob. She then turns around with her back to us and has me preoccupied while her right hand is stroking him! Both of them knew I had no idea what was going on. I was the one paying all night so I dont think she was trying to get more money from him. Just wanted opinions on why she would go that far and do it so I couldnt see.

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    I'm can't say Im surprised or shocked, but I am a bit disgusted by the dancer's behavior. I give A LOT of couples dances, and am always more respectful of the wife than that.

    Anyways, maybe she did it because this is how she always gives couples dances, or was hoping for a tip from him, or another dance with just him. It could also be because you tipped her so well for the first dance, that on the second she went further because of the generous tip.
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    This is sick. I've done couples dances but they weren't explicit.

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    Nasty dancer was why she did this, and you were probably the 1000th she's done that to. I hope you washed your hands~ and remember there are dancers that will give fun and clean dances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    I'm can't say Im surprised or shocked, but I am a bit disgusted by the dancer's behavior. I give A LOT of couples dances, and am always more respectful of the wife than that.
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    OP, she probably always dances like that for men & is now under the impression that she has to do that stuff to get male customers to like her. In other words... she's jaded.
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    Wow... I am sorry that happened to you. Yes not all dancers are like that, I would never! Have you talked to your man about this and what does he say about it? I hate when other dancers do this... For 1 they sell there selves short and 2 they make it hard for the dancers that are there to provide only hot adult entertainment to make any money.

    That is why I love to do more private party entertainment. You have less competition and you don't get pressure nearly as much to have to do extras.

    Girls like that are Gross Gross Gross... no self respect. Then you have to look at the people who receive it from the dancers.... that is why we have so many diseases in this world.

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    Hi, I must say that is sick. My husband and I just went to a strip club last week when we were on vacation and we got a private room upstairs for a half hour and I must say that the stripper was very good and did a very good job for both of us, although I did seem to get more of the attention than my husband. She was very respectful when she would dance on him she didn't go to far with him, now I don't know if that is because I was in the room or what but I must say we both enjoyed ourselves that evening and would go back to that club again.

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    Maybe she is trying to make you jealous? But usually I dance clean for couples out of respect for the wife. Unless they are superkinky then I'll dance a bit more sexual/sexy. That is wrong what she did.

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    This belongs in customer conversation... You're not supposed to post here if you're not a stripper. kthnx
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    What the fuck does "She then turns around with her back to us and has me preoccupied while her right hand is stroking him!" mean?
    Either you saw it happening but were so "preoccupied" with whatever the dancer was doing to you that you didn't CARE at the time... or you didn't see it... and later guessed? were told? that it happened.
    Confused here.

    Either way. You shouldn't have been irresponsible and drank on your medication and gotten so fucked up that you don't remember parts of the night.
    Your husband should've taken you home if you were so clearly out of it... and that's what you should be pissed about if anything. The fact that he didn't.
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    All parties were involved. She was probably just as drunk as you and your husband. It doesn't make it right. Just be in control next time and if another dancer is doing something you dont like tell her to stop. I hope your next strip club experience is better.

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    He was the one willingly sucking on the boob it sounds like I mean yeah it's fucked what she did but at the same time it takes two to tango. Not trying to be a bitch jusy sayin....

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    As far as drinking on the medication, I was not told not to mix and had no idea the affect it would have. It masks the drunkness and then just comes on fast. No one, including me had any idea I was even buzzed or that I wouldnt remember. My husband told me that I was just watching her dance between us while she did her thing to him. She had slid herself somehow between us so she could watch that no one saw what she was doing including me. When she put herself in his face, he said she directly pushed against his lips and allowed him to do what he did for a good 20 seconds without pulling away and was moaning in his ear. Like I said, her hair was long and flopped completely over his head while this went on and I had no idea it was happening to that extent. He told me everything the next morning and I just didnt understand why it seemed to be done in a way that I couldnt see. I also went out for a cigarette a few times and they stayed at a table alone. So I have no idea what went on there except that she did pull out her iphone and began showing sex pics to him. My reason for this whole question was just out of curiousity if this is the norm for strippers. It wasnt even in the VIP room which to me seemed even more insane. 60.00 bucks to me doesnt seem worth it to allow some guy to suck your tit and then jerk him off over his pants.

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    To answer your question I have been dancing almost 7 years, do many dances for couples and I would not ever dream of being that disrespectful to myself or another female/couple. I commonly ask what they are and are not comfortable with. The reason this girl did this is because that is sadly how she is used to dancing, some girls are extras girls and I'm sorry a HJ even through the pants is a blatant extra! I do agree that you should be worried that not only did your husband not even bother to check on you but that he was so disrespectful in that he didn't say no, push her away and most likely did nasty things with this girl while you were out smoking, I don't know if the two of you are in the "lifestyle" or not but regardless there are boundries and I personaly would be apauled if my husband acted in such a way. For future reference most medications you are NOT supposed to drink on and especially a stimulant like yours. You are very fortunate that you just had a night you don't remember when I was a nurse I had patients have heart attacks that were often fatal as a result of mixing medications with alcohol it's not pretty!!

    Bottom line a couples dance involves both of you and a smart dancer focuses on the female and doesn't need to do extras like she did to get people to spend, 60 for a tip is not that much for all the things you said she was doing I can only imagine what she does in VIP !!

    Please consider sitting down and having a discussion with your husband. I am not here to tell you how to run your marriage but I will say that it sounds like some boundries need to be established so that you don't have another situation like this (or worse) occur especially if you don't want to.

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    The dirty dancer went over board and was probably dying for more money,
    your husband most likely was thinking with his dick and being a dick at the same time.
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