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    Default Regulars Gone Bad.....

    Im not a ferm believer in regulars, people come and go.... but I do invest time and patience into talking to them and hopefully making them my regulars...
    works with some, doesnt with some and thats ok........
    what do u do when regulars start almost ignoring u... they dont pay anymore and they dont even talk........... yet they do spend time in your room.....

    I am nice with them... if they say hi I say hi,, ask how they are,, they say good and then silence...

    Do u keep being nice to them if they dont pay anymore in hopes they will eventually?

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    hmm..Good thread, dearie!
    i do believe that a regular could change their mind and one day in time get a prvt again
    ..however, fuck if im going to give him ALL of my devoted time talking to him and missing out on NEW regulars..
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    Fuck em!!! I had a reg that felt he could come to my room and start shit because he use to tip big in the beginning... No sir... Not me... Lets just say he in no longer on my friends list.

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    OMG! You know what I HATE....

    I hate it when they say OMG I am in love with you....

    At that point I cut them off. I am done with that relationship because that's where it is dangerous. I tell them all this is business - that's it. I am all for having a good time. But if any of them are like I really like you or anything - I AM OUT....They think they when they say they are in love with you or they like you or they can say they want to marry you or throw some lecture about having kids or some life story they do not have to pay you anymore - sorry son, not for me and I am moving on to the next customer.

    There's a few that always want to talk to me - and they are like - Hey how are you...and I am like I am doing well how are you - they will reply I am so weak and I will ask why - and they said because I get weak talking to you - and I say well if you want to continue me to talk to then start paying because I AM DONE DOING SHIT FOR FREE.

    I will not be sorry that I am there to do a job and they are lonely fuckers. But there are PLENTY of them to go around. I hate to say it but they are disposable. They can call me heartless or a bitch but hey, it is what it is.

    I am not there to be loved. I am there to fuck myself and make money.

    When they say they are in love with you or something like that - your safety is at risk and they could become a stalker or something...and personally - I have enough going on in my life that I do not need to add those into the mix.

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    GREAT advice Kitana, thank you

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    Any time.

    I am just saying - I love it when they ask me, where are you from?
    Ok - does it really matter where I am from? OMG YOU BEING FROM PITTSBURGH MAKES ME SO HORNY AND I WANNA BEAT MY DICK SO FAST!

    I love the ones that want to me so adamant about meeting thinking they have some special to offer - I always tell them they could be that they could be the next Dahmer in the making and they wonder WHY I won't meet them? One time, this guy made up this BS story asking me - Are we gonna meet soon? You said we would! I said - I said NO such thing because my NUMBER ONE RULE is I DO NOT MEET. He's like well you said it. I said well sweety - you got me FUCKED up. I went to my archive and I pulled up all of the three convos we had and emailed them to him and I said where did I say it? I said go find it and tell me - and he came off with this CRAZY idea that i implied it and that I did not have to say it but he knew I wanted to....you are out of your MIND son.

    As disgusting and easy as guys are to get money from in this business - they are sick, fucked up and psycho....but they forget - I AM JUST As PSYCHO. Just because I am 5'6 does not mean I do not know how to fight, use a gun or defend myself. So therefore, I will do what I need to do keep myself safe and that means NOT MEETING, NOT DOING IT no MATTER what the PRICE is and if someone does come after me that is a customer - I have no issues shooting them - plain and simple - because if they do it - they are psycho - no debating it. Period.

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    I guess I'm in the minority here. I know there are different approaches to camming and you've got to do what works for you, keep your boundaries on your own terms, etc. But I fucking love my regulars. They know my boundaries and for the most part they respect them. If they don't, I cut them off.

    If they're cool and they stop paying, that's fine with me. They know that I have limited free time, that I make paid camming a priority, and they know where they can find me. But if I've got free time to respond to an email or chat a little on Skype, I'm usually happy to stay in touch.

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    Default Re: Regulars Gone Bad.....

    In the words of Janet Jackson "what have you done for me lately?" If the answer is nothing then you get nothing. Most of my regulars know this. I even had one tell me he lost a job so he wouldn't be around. He stayed gone for about 6 months but came back with a new job and something from my wishlist. My guys know if you don't have cash on hand don't bother me, end of.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KitanaBlades View Post
    Any time.

    I am just saying - I love it when they ask me, where are you from?
    Ok - does it really matter where I am from? OMG YOU BEING FROM PITTSBURGH MAKES ME SO HORNY AND I WANNA BEAT MY DICK SO FAST!

    I love the ones that want to me so adamant about meeting thinking they have some special to offer - I always tell them they could be that they could be the next Dahmer in the making and they wonder WHY I won't meet them? One time, this guy made up this BS story asking me - Are we gonna meet soon? You said we would! I said - I said NO such thing because my NUMBER ONE RULE is I DO NOT MEET. He's like well you said it. I said well sweety - you got me FUCKED up. I went to my archive and I pulled up all of the three convos we had and emailed them to him and I said where did I say it? I said go find it and tell me - and he came off with this CRAZY idea that i implied it and that I did not have to say it but he knew I wanted to....you are out of your MIND son.

    As disgusting and easy as guys are to get money from in this business - they are sick, fucked up and psycho....but they forget - I AM JUST As PSYCHO. Just because I am 5'6 does not mean I do not know how to fight, use a gun or defend myself. So therefore, I will do what I need to do keep myself safe and that means NOT MEETING, NOT DOING IT no MATTER what the PRICE is and if someone does come after me that is a customer - I have no issues shooting them - plain and simple - because if they do it - they are psycho - no debating it. Period.
    The "where are you from" question really gets on my nerves. If I say midwest, they'll say "which state" or just start guessing until I'm forced to make up a random state. Why the fuck does it matter? I don't mind if you guys know where I live, but I'm definantly not going to tell custies.

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    Default Re: Regulars Gone Bad.....

    Something I always tell girls I do promotion for...

    In your room, you are a goddess, and the rules of the game in your religion are worship me without ever thinking you OWN me or any part of me (I mean sheesh, you're a petty human and I am a fucking GODDESS...get real), and make regular offerings...tithe your wealth unto the Goddess....Me...If those things stop, then a true believer (Regular) becomes a fallen one, who has left the grace of Goddess...why would you reward that behavior?

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    Right lmao!

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    Default Re: Regulars Gone Bad.....

    thanks everyone for posting...
    this is almost a tie...I wish more people would vote , out of 200 views only 17 voted..
    anyway

    here is the thing..
    -- U cant tell a reg who constantly visits u " so, when u gonna pay, go prv/ tip.. etc" he will see u as money hungry and most dont appreciate it....
    -- If u give them a hint and try to be more"delicate" as in " I'd really love to do show/I love my tippers/ love privates" etc....they will just wait around because it was not directed to them.....
    -- if you pretend it does not matter and ur just "having fun" again they will not feel pressured...
    I saw similar discussions in the Strip Club threads, but when it comes to this subject, maybe its a bit easier in a SC to tell someone to fuck off cause they mostly likely wont tell other potential customers.. but on the sites they can type whatever the fuck they want. they actually take pride in "telling on you" to their fellow virtual buddies IF they have something bad to say.....

    Kissing their ass, stroking their ego and all that lame approach that I totally hate does not seem to work.. its like they have their own mind, lil bastards how dare they LOL..

    I know U can say Fuck it!....... NEXT!!!! and try to get new ones but with new ones u dont know for sure how good they can be ( aka how good they can pay lol )... so it does make sense to try all u can to keep your claws in the good old ones..... or should I say old ones only... since they' r not good anymore...

    Seriously I feel like I need a psychology degree for webcamming lol

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    Default Re: Regulars Gone Bad.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    Seriously I feel like I need a psychology degree for webcamming lol
    No kidding!

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    I have a WHOLE COMPLETE E-book section on psychology...

    I am working on looking for psychology and sex for future readings.

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    Ignore them. They are just acting like little boys and want you to make a fuss over them. Be polite if they say something to you, but focus your attention on the rest of the room.

    New regulars are born every day!


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    Default Re: Regulars Gone Bad.....

    If a regular stopped spending money regularly (ie. once a week, once every two weeks) then he won't be getting as much of my attention. Our job is to entertain and engage these guys for a paycheck - so my priority is giving attention to the guys who pay for it.

    That being said, I won't flat out ignore non tippers/spenders, because I appreciate those who contribute to my room in other ways, but any guy with half a brain and a somewhat firm grasp on reality has to know that us girls need to focus on the paying customers. If I worked at BestBuy, why would I spend all time chit chatting with random friends who pop into the store with zero intention of buying something, when I could be assisting a paying customer in their purchase? Its like that for EVERY business.

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    Oh gods I think I thanked every post here lol

    Great thread guys!

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    Quote Originally Posted by housewench View Post
    Oh gods I think I thanked every post here lol

    Great thread guys!
    me too lol

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    Should I ( us ) flat out ask them " why they stopped contributing/privates?" etc..
    Its almost a no brainer...
    why? most likely they will say..
    1.cause I dont wanna spend on you anymore
    2.Cause I dont wanna spend on anyone anymore
    3.Cause Im very busy ( lie lol)
    4.cause I was not on the computer much ( lie lol )
    5.Cause Im broke ( lie lol )
    .................................................. .
    this leaves us with 2 options..
    1.cause I dont wanna spend on you anymore
    2.Cause I dont wanna spend on anyone anymore

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    I love everyone's attitude in this thread.

    Don't mean to thread hijack, but I have a question for y'all. I was talking to one of my regulars (BIG spender) a few days ago, and we had this exchange:

    "Is your roommate gay?"
    "No..."
    "Really? Last time you were getting mad at people who wanted to take you PVT because you said your roommate's boyfriend was over."
    "No, my roommate is my ex-boyfriend. Maybe you're confused."

    Then I got an automated message saying I needed to be a friend of this user to private message them.

    WTF? Okay, if I'm not accepting privates, I'm just not gonna sign on at all. He DEFINITELY had me confused with someone else. Then he unfriends me?! For what? Maybe he read my tone as rude or thought I was lying or something. Should I make an attempt to contact him and straighten things out, or just consider it a loss if he's gonna be such a big baby?

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    For me it depends on how they got bad. I'm not going to sit there and spend all my time with someone who doesn't pay anymore but I will still be nice. Business is business and they know that. But I won't put up with regulars who've gone creepy, talk shit to my other customers, rude to me, or expect me to do all this shit for them just because they've seen me a few times.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KitanaBlades View Post
    Any time.

    I am just saying - I love it when they ask me, where are you from?
    Ok - does it really matter where I am from? OMG YOU BEING FROM PITTSBURGH MAKES ME SO HORNY AND I WANNA BEAT MY DICK SO FAST!


    I'm asked "Where from bb?" ALL THE DAMN TIME. And the guys who are in the same area as you are even more determined to try to meet you...they seriously think they have a chance of meeting you JUST because you happen to be in the same state. SMH.

    And this whole "I'd like to be friends outside of MFC" thing. This ain't Match.com.

    And I'm not sure why guys feel the need to say "I'm gonna be travelling your way in about a week or so." Um, yeah, and??? Is that your subtle way of saying you wanna hook up? Not gonna happen, my friend!
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    Quote Originally Posted by DottieMay View Post
    But I won't put up with regulars who've gone creepy, talk shit to my other customers, rude to me, or expect me to do all this shit for them just because they've seen me a few times.


    After an argument I had with a regular who went all "Can you hook me up with this and that?" on me (he apologized and got back in my good graces though), I put on my MFC profile - in the turn-offs section - "I DON'T OWE YOU DICK!!!"...(referring to guys who think models owe them the world).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    Should I ( us ) flat out ask them " why they stopped contributing/privates?" etc..
    Its almost a no brainer...
    why? most likely they will say..
    1.cause I dont wanna spend on you anymore
    2.Cause I dont wanna spend on anyone anymore
    3.Cause Im very busy ( lie lol)
    4.cause I was not on the computer much ( lie lol )
    5.Cause Im broke ( lie lol )
    .................................................. .
    this leaves us with 2 options..
    1.cause I dont wanna spend on you anymore
    2.Cause I dont wanna spend on anyone anymore
    What I might do is PM a guy and be like "Hey, I haven't seen you on here in a while...everything ok?" or something along those lines. Usually guys will say "Hey, hun. I've been working, and you and I aren't on at the same times." But sometimes I feel like they're bullshitting, because I'll see them logged in at the same time as me, and I'll happen to notice they're in the same models' rooms that I'm peeking in on. It's fine if they don't wanna come see me anymore, but don't BS me. Plus I like to remove people from my friends list who I haven't conversated with in ages and who never respond to my news feeds or pm's (let's call 'em "dead wood"...haha).
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    Default Re: Regulars Gone Bad.....

    Searching for another thread I found this one and I'm bumping the zombie thread back into motion! I think this is a good topic that's still relevant. I'd be interested to hear some of the perspectives from girls who weren't on the board at that time. It would also be interesting to know if someone who has already posted in here has changed her mind!


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