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    Default Crossing the line w/ owner and management

    This is kind of a two in one question.

    I just started dancing at a club that charges a house fee of $20-$35, takes half of the total fee for dances, and "recommends" (/requires) that you tip out 3 different people (and the manager if you've had a good night) $1 a piece per lap dance. I'm new to the club, but it doesn't take a genius to figure out that the dancers are being completely robbed of their money. That's more than 60:40/club:dancer ratio.

    Now, the owner, who only comes in once every few months, happened to come in the second night I was working, and I chatted with him for a long time without knowing he was the owner (you know just general chit chat). He has been asking to take me to dinner, and I'm weary of crossing that line even if it's already been established that it's a casual sort of thing. But I'm willing to cross that line if I can talk business with him and change the earnings ratio for ALL the dancers.

    I'm just curious what your take is on this.
    Is it fair for me to take advantage of the situation and bring it up? If so, how would you approach it?

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    No way in hell. First off, most managers think dancers are sluts so he'll think he can fuck you. Second, most managers don't respect dancers so even if you bring it up he'll not take you seriously. Don't do this it'll make you look like either a slut or a dancer no one else can trust.

    Btw, sounds like they know they are scamming dancers and they won't likely change.

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    Yeah I'm terrified of giving him the wrong idea, but he did ask me to take his daughter to get her nails done, and go bowling with him, so it doesn't come off as sleazy, as plenty of owners and managers have been at other clubs.


    What makes dancers stay at a club where the fees are ridiculously high? I make pretty good money at this club, but I don't understand why the girls who do shitty are willing to stay someplace that robs their own wallets, rather than the customer's.

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    Default Re: Crossing the line w/ owner and management

    Quote Originally Posted by fionatulip View Post
    This is kind of a two in one question.

    I just started dancing at a club that charges a house fee of $20-$35, takes half of the total fee for dances, and "recommends" (/requires) that you tip out 3 different people (and the manager if you've had a good night) $1 a piece per lap dance. I'm new to the club, but it doesn't take a genius to figure out that the dancers are being completely robbed of their money. That's more than 60:40/club:dancer ratio.

    Now, the owner, who only comes in once every few months, happened to come in the second night I was working, and I chatted with him for a long time without knowing he was the owner (you know just general chit chat). He has been asking to take me to dinner, and I'm weary of crossing that line even if it's already been established that it's a casual sort of thing. But I'm willing to cross that line if I can talk business with him and change the earnings ratio for ALL the dancers.

    I'm just curious what your take is on this.
    Is it fair for me to take advantage of the situation and bring it up? If so, how would you approach it?
    It's a nice idea but you have little to no chance of him even remotely taking you seriously. He just wants to have sex with you. Do not get involved in his personal life. It's a recipe for disaster and will not end well.

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