
Originally Posted by
Aurora_Sunset
This is why I think it would be good to bring it up eventually. She shouldn't care, and I would wait until it comes up naturally in conversation. I think the only thing that would weird me out is if a guy didn't tell me when he could have mentioned it, and then I found out, I'd think "oh he must have not wanted to tell me for a reason...." I would start thinking that he's a serial dancer-dater or he must have dated other girls in my club and that would weird me out a little. I mean, don't bring it up until it comes up naturally cuz like everyone else is saying, it shouldn't matter what the jobs of previous gfs are, but if it comes up, speak up about it. If you dated a mechanic in the past, you would bring it up if you fixed something with your car and would say "oh yeah, my ex was a mechanic and taught me that." Don't make it a big production, but if it the topic comes up, I would just say it so it doesn't seem like a big secret.
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