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    I'm gonna be traveling to work at clubs that do topless dances. I hate them. I hate having my boobs touched. I hate how guys don't listen when you say not to touch nipples, or they try to lick nipples, UGH, it's disgusting. I don't even let my man touch my nipples. Right now at my current club I only do bikini dances and I can get away with pretty minimal touching.

    So how do you approach this? How do you keep guys from touching your breasts when the only available way to sell dances is topless? I've thought about just not taking my top off at all, but I figured some guys might complain, and the room I'd be giving dances in is public so there's at least a few other dancers in there at a time who will inevitably be topless. This is one aspect I'm REALLY not looking forward to. Any tips?
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    Default Re: I hate topless dances

    ^^This is great advice. Also, don't put them close to the customers mouth. If they can't reach it's more difficult. Explaining your rules beforehand never hurts either; and do not EVER be afraid to walk out of a dance if a man doesn't respect your boundaries.

    FYI: I hate my nipples being touched too, even by my husband. I'm beginning to think it's a by product of this business, because all my dancer friends I talk to hate it as well.

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    Default Re: I hate topless dances

    Working in Vegas, well - the boobie touching is kinda just the norm. But that doesn't mean I have to like it!

    One of my favorite things to do with a grabby custie is to take his hands OVER mine - like, slide my hands underneath his - and lock fingers. Then, I can touch MYSELF and control him. It seems to add to the tease. Several girls in my club picked this up from another dancer and it works like a charm! They feel like you're a tease, you have them in control.

    If all else fails, I pull a dominatrix. Forcefully pin their wrists to a chair, to the wall over their head, etc.

    If that fails, a kick in the balls and a call for the bouncer usually does the trick.
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    ...sweet things alone are not enough. Seduce me with more fire."

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    Default Re: I hate topless dances

    I guide their hands. Guys will try to get away with whatever they think they can.

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    Default Re: I hate topless dances

    At my old club, sticking boobs in people's faces was just what you did all night. A girl there gave me this advice about putting your boobs in faces: guys - always above the nose, girls - always below the nose. For female customers, who may or may not be there of their free will, you don't want to scare them with full on BOOBSINFACE! But the rule for guys especially, you don't want your nipples anywhere near their mouth. From my experience, most guys know beforehand that touching boobs with hands is not ok. Or they ask to make sure first. Any guy who just grabs for them, grab his hands, say "no touching" and hold his hands down. And remember, either keep them far enough from his face that he can't do anything, or stuff them in real fast far above his mouth. God, I hate lickers/biters... just yeeeeech! I remember the first time a guy bit my nipple I reeled back so fast, I almost fell. I was in such shock that anybody could think that was ok

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    Default Re: I hate topless dances

    I take my hands and put them over my boobs so they can rub my hands and imagine. Feel free to turn your back or stand/dance if they are out of control.
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    I sometimes run both my hands through his hair at the back, then if they try anything I pull their hair and jerk their head away from my tits. Not had a problem yet.

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    Default Re: I hate topless dances

    it's tough because you want the money and 100% of the time when you firmly tell them to stop they won't get another dance after that.

    what works better is to place their hands to where you're comfortable and make them think that you loooooove being touched there. if a guy gets handsy I turn around and put his hands on my waist. 9 times out of 10 he'll automatically start rubbing my back and I start moaning while rubbing my butt up against his crotch and say "ooh that feels SOOOO gooooooood!"

    I hate having my boobs touched too but what I don't mind as much is having a guy's hand on my butt while I'm straddling as long as he stays out of my buttcrack/asshole. if I'm working in a high contact club and a guy buys a couple dances in a row I'll put his hands on my buttcheeks and tell him I like having my buttcheeks rubbed (I don't, but it's WAY more comfortable than the alternatives)

    if you don't like any kind of contact, work in a no-contact club and when a guy complains about not being able to touch you just laugh and say "well good luck! none of the other dancers are going to let you touch them either."

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