Hi, so recently I car pooled to my club and then got fired by our manager for some BULLSHIT, so I had to leave but didn't have a ride. I called a lot of my friends but most were busy, blah blah blah. So my little friend from the club, an 18 yr old girl who I've grown fond of, asked her boyfriend if he could give me a ride home. It obviously wasn't my first choice since I don't know him, but I didn't HAVE much of a choice. So, I get in the car and we were just making small chat until he tells me that this girl isn't his official girlfriend (although they live together). He tells me that he's not tied down and he can still talk to other girls. This was shocking to me, because she was complaining that she thought he was cheating and she was worried just a few weeks before. So obviously she does not share his point of view. Worst of all, when we pulled up to my house he asked me for my number. I told him I was taken and wouldn't do that to my friend. But he pursued and I just said no.
What should I do?? If I tell her this, she'll leave him, and I feel bad because she's told me before that she's so attached to him and doesn't really have any friends besides me (and we aren't even that close). She has a tattoo of his name, they share a car, and she relies on him for mostly everything. I also suspect that she's pregnant. I don't want to start drama but I think she should know that he would be so outwardly nasty. I also considered that he did it as a test, but that would be weird wouldn't it?? Ugh, I don't know... I don't wanna stir the pot, but I feel like I should... Also, now he knows where I live, so he could come back and try to cause problems if I told on him. But he really took the risk with me by hitting on me, because how did he know I wouldn't tell her? Seems like he didn't care.Advice?



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