my stage show is really messing with me. the fact of people at the club always raggin on me about not dancing like a black girl. now, my confidence in everyday life hell i'm good. but i feel like because i don't make as much money from my stage shows as the other girls sometimes i feel like something is wrong. then after that i hear these customers telling me it was hot they enjoyed it. i'm good but i'm like ok.. if im that good why didn't you get your ass up an tip me (thas what i'm thinking to myself). doesn't anyone dance slow and sensual anymore wtf. i be watching myself in the mirror as i'm dancing and i don't think i'm all that bad. hell i do more than some of the other chics and they still get more tips than me HELL WTF...
now the reason i say its messing with my confidence is because after i come off stage i'm shy to hustle drinks. i still try to venture off and do it but its so damn hard. i know i'm new to the club but i've never in all my years of hostessing had such a hard time hustle'n drink fuck.



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Not saying you shouldn't practice moves to become a better dancer, but with everything else in this business that will come with time. The main thing is don't look nervous up there, and smile smile smile, show you are having a good time even if you aren't, that's what the guys want, they are in there to have a good time so of course they are going to pick a girl that looks happy over one that is moping around. Another big thing lots of girls do is give up on stage and not give a fuck if no one is tipping, that hurts you even more cause then they definitely aren't going to tip you, it sucks and we all hate it but lots of guys wait til your last song to tip.

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