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she sells sanctuary
a lot of guys who go to clubs these days only go to hurt and/or piss off strippers. some are actually total masochists who want to make you punish them, but since they objectify strippers too, you won't make them spend money by telling them you're a person. lol.
either way, they best response is to just walk away. i have a temper, and it's hard to take my own advice. it always hurts my money. always make more when i just walk away from the douchebags.
think of them as internet trolls IRL. don't feed the trolls.
and btw, it's actually a pretty big pua technique, among the more scummy variety. you talk smack to girls to see who reacts, who tries to defend herself. must qualify potential victims. if a girl just laughs and walks away, she isn't a good victim. this isn't negging, just for the record. it mostly appears in the form of saying something mean about women (or a type of woman: strippers, americans, attractive, feminists, etc), as if we're all the same, so the potential victim will try to prove that he's wrong, and that it isn't true about her, her friends, etc. then he knows she's a good victim who'll bend over backwards to prove that she's nice. i'm embarrassed to say i fell for this when i was younger (because i grew up being told i was bad, and trying to prove i wasn't, not because i was otherwise insecure about myself, which is why other pua shit generally never worked on me). stuff like peacocking and negging get all the attention, even though they're pretty minor. i think the puas put stuff like that out there so no one will look deeper into the genuine mindgames they play. neuro-linguistic programming, hypnotism, and just plain psychology is really big in that community. anyone who says it's just about helping shy guys get dates is either kidding themselves or lying. it's all about mindfucking someone so you can use them.
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