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    Default Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    I HAVE NOT DONE THIS.... but I met this guy, and I wouldn't really mind letting him fuck my brains out. I haven't had sex in 7 months.
    I won't have any kind of sexual contact with anyone at work ever (not even for money). If I decide to hook up with someone I'll be doing it because I want to and solely for the sexual gratification of it.
    So, has anyone ever met with a custie outside the club and hooked up (not for money)? Just because you were actually attracted to the guy?

    How'd it work out for ya?

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    you are way too early in the game to be doing this.

    though, when you're new, you are prone to doing dumbshit. oh the stories we could tell. use condoms and make sure three friends know where you'll be at, preferably if one has a firearm.

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    Yes. I married the bastard -_- don't do it. That is all.
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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    Yes - I didn't meet to hook up with him though... I took a friend to visit him at the bar he worked at, thinking it would only help my money later on if I established good rapport by leaving him a good tip at his job. Then I ended up dating the guy... I would say that's not particularly common though.

    If you choose to do it, I would go so far as to say, not only let other people know where you are, but in your initial meet-up, have it be in a public place and bring a friend with you while you suss out the guy IRL - she'll also then know exactly what he looks like and he'll know you have someone looking out for you. But think carefully - would you rather have the sex or the money? The second you hook up with a customer, be prepared for him to think he doesn't need to spend on you at the club anymore.

    I think it would be a different story if this was a long-time customer that you had gotten to know really well and you thought you actually liked him - even then, it's tricky to decide. But if it's purely physical, I would decide that the money will far outlast any sexual gratification. Just think - what if he sucks in bed anyway?

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    How will you react if your friend attends the club and buys dancers from other entertainers?

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    Don't do this, it'll just make you look like a slut. I am being honest. No, I never had a booty call from a customer but dating one. Bad idea and it only caused trouble by breaking my heart (and this was after a long time friendship).

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    It can't be THAT hard to get a non customer booty call, can it?
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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    Thanks for everyone's replies.
    I'm not concerned about looking like a slut. Just because I'm a stripper people already think I'm a slut and I'm really not concerned about it.
    As far as finding a non-customer booty call it is kinda hard for me. I do not go out, ever. If I ever do its with my daughter so I definitely don't end up socializing with strangers. If he came in and bought dances / tipped other girls I wouldn't care. I know I'm young but I know myself well enough to know I can handle that type of relationship. It is even easier considering I don't have the time to hang out with people between work, school and taking care of my baby.

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    Make sure your daughter's out of the house and that they never interact.
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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    Make sure your daughter's out of the house and that they never interact.

    more....

    dont bring him to your house....ever. Dont let him know where you live. This isnt a lifelong friend that you are going to finally hook up with. Its someone you just met. You dont have only YOUR safety to worry about...

    If he turns out to be a crazy stalker. You dont want your home and daughter to be affected by it. I would even make up a different last name.

    Its just sex....do it in your car, do it in his bar after close....

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    I know you all mean well but I really am not that stupid. Of course I wouldn't bring someone like that around my daughter....... ever!

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    Jesus christ, what a bunch of pollyanna's here. If you're attracted to him, then hit it. He won't be a customer anymore, so don't expect him to spend any more money on you in the club. aside from that, you're human, we get horny and all kinds of guys go to the club. Have yourself some fun if you can handle booty call type affairs. I can, but not everyone can, some women get too emotional. Know what you are and make the decision you want.

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    you are way too early in the game to be doing this.

    though, when you're new, you are prone to doing dumbshit. oh the stories we could tell. use condoms and make sure three friends know where you'll be at, preferably if one has a firearm.
    That is sooooo true!

    OP, we all make mistakes when we are new. I can tell you that you are likely to regret this. There are so many reasons not to do this that they outnumber the "he's hot" & "I haven't been laid in ____" excuses.


    1. He could be vice, & you could land in jail if you are in a state with strict laws.
    2. There's a 99% chance you will lose him as a customer. Personally I'd rather have my bill paid...
    3. You are likely to find out what a jerk he is if you get involved with him, thereby ruining the fantasy you currently have of him
    4. He could put your job at risk or make you miserable if he starts running his mouth about seeing you outside of work. If your manager finds out you could be fired, & if the other entertainers find out they are likely to label you either as a prostitute or cheap/easy target for customers... & they may take up attitude or steer totally clear of you.

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    Unless your ready to move to a new club and maybe a new town I wouldn't do it. And non costumers are easy to find. Go to the library in a nice outfit and read, if you drink coffee or tea go to a cafe house.

    I have this small line of rules and one of them is always. Never shit where you eat.

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    It happened to me and i wound up with mixed feelings about it, probably coz i expected things to go in a completely different direction than it did. But i dont regret it at all. It did make me grow up abit.

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    I decided not to because of something my friend said:
    What if hes not even a good fuck?
    Seriously. I think about all the times I've picked up a delicious, juicy.............. cherry and bit into it only to find out it is bitter.
    As far as dancers talking shit or avoiding me, I keep to myself as it is and I work in Miami, so a lot of them are prostitutes already so I think if anything they'd be more friendly towards me if I was one too. I think so because I had an incident last weekend, a guy actually fingered me through my thong while I was dancing and I ended up in the dressing room crying. When one of the nicer dancers asked me what happened and I started telling her a few dancers laughed at me and walked out. But anyway, back to the topic, this guy came back to the club the very next day, and I realize now he likes the whole fantasy thing, the tease. He is probably a better customer than a booty call.

    Thank you guys

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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    I think you made the right choice. It must be hard when you havent got any in so long. Any past FBs or old flings you can call in a favour and get it out of your system so you dont get distracted by temptations?

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    I really wouldn't recommend this so early in the game, if ever.
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    Default Re: Ever had a customer turn into a booty call?

    Whenever you decide not to, it's always a good choice made.

    I've only done stupid things in the club....(like sex hidden under my schoolgirl kilt). Usually if you get carried away with a custie, they don't pay for much longer. They'll either get clingy and bug you about leaving the club with them or get bored after 'conquering' you. In my opinion, that's a no-win.
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