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    1.
    im currently 19 never been to a strip club
    n was very curious of going one
    so me and 2 of my friends decided to go one 3 days ago
    lol we had to drive 50 mins to somewhere else
    becuz the city we lived in only had 2 strip clubs
    n both had to be 21 or over to get in
    so looked up places where we can get in under 21 n we found a whole bunch of strip clubs in west palm beach FL that allows 18 yr olds to enter, just had to pay alittle more for the entrance fee.
    the place was called dreamgirls
    my first time was amazin, there were alot of beatiful nude womens around
    i was nervous at first wen i step in
    but later became more relax n just enjoyin my time
    after i went home i feel morally wrong seein/using women as a object
    throwing dollar bills at strippers n touchin them
    i feel disgusted with myslef n wanted nothin to do with strip clubs again
    later i discover this website
    which made me even more depress on wat i did

    i guess my question is, is this article about strippers really true?

    2.
    lets just say i did the stupidest thing
    i started having feelins for this 18 yr old blonde stripper
    we didnt talk much but for 3 days now i couldnt stop thinkin about her
    maybe becuz i havent had a girlfriend in so long
    im not ugly or crazy anything, just couldnt find the right one lol
    she made me feel wanted i guess
    the feelings might be lust or somethin else im confused with
    her pretty face n amazin body just constantly popin up on me
    made me kinda sad why would a girl like her would become a stripper
    she can so much more
    which is another reason why i didnt want to go to strip club again
    kinda depressin seeing her like this
    i wanna forget about her but its hard, what can i do?

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    Default Re: 2 part question advice needed

    Two part answer...

    1.If you feel guilty about going to strip clubs than don't go. It sounds like you are too young to handle it and definitely too inexperienced to understand what is going on inside of the club. The women there are working for a living. Nothing more and nothing less. The angry blog that you stumbled on to is a series of stereotypical generalizations.

    2. A dancer's job is to get your money. In order to do that she is going to show you a good time and make you feel "wanted" as you said. As soon as you paid her she moved on to her next customer and forgot all about you. You need to do the same...
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    Are you just trolling loll or are you actually coming to a stripper's site and telling us what we do is morally wrong??

    That article is completely wrong. Everything they say stripping isn't, it IS, and everything they say it IS, it ISN'T!

    I and pretty much all the strippers I know dance because it is empowering, fun, and most of all for the money. I do not have a drug habit, I don't have a debt, I have a day job and I'm not forced to strip.

    When you step into the strip club, the women are objectifying you a lot more than you are them. They want your money, nothing else. If you think stripping is morally wrong, don't go to the club. But I would recommend you get off your high horse and platform you're putting yourself on and see if for what it is - a legitimate, awesome way for women to make money and men to have fun.

    As for the blonde stripper you love, well she loves your money. If you want to create the fantasy that she and you could be something, go right ahead. It'll cost you though.

    Or, come to my club and I'll turn you into my regular and take all your $$ Loll this is why my favourite targets are the youngest...

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    I know what you mean. I don't go to strip clubs. I have a split conscience about visiting the local SC but my better half wins and I go find something else to do. The last time I was there I met a really nice girl and when I left really wanted to see and talk to her again, but never went back. I actually like the female employees better at the boring neighborhood coffee place. I've got nothing against strippers, otherwise I wouldn't be here! I think the women on here are some of the smartest and freespirited women on any forum chat site. I don't hate strippers just the clubs!!!

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    Default Re: 2 part question advice needed

    i think im good now
    hearing strippers are there just to hav fun n make money
    nothing like the article saids
    i dont feel guilty anymore
    i think im ready for another trip to the SB

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    while i was there
    one of my friends was talkin to this 20 yr old stripper
    they talked for like an hour
    at the end lol
    she actually convinced my friend to get a lap dance
    but later on my friend told me about her situation
    she told him, she hav 1 or 2 kids
    n shes strippin for the money so she can pay bill n provide for the kids
    n told my friend she wanted to quit soon n study "electronics" exact word lol
    how likely is all she saying is true?
    does strippers make up stories so customers can feel sympathy for them?

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    Default Re: 2 part question advice needed

    Uuurgh, please don't listen to that article.
    "She loves her job and considers it a valid career choice (admittedly, the only dancer I heard make this claim was abusing painkillers, was sexually abused as a child, and was struggling with mental health problems)"

    wtf?!! So bad it's funny.

    I love my job and consider it a valid choice, but I definitely was not abused, am not abusing painkillers or mental! My reasons to start dancing were entirely pragmatic. I had no knowledge or preconceived ideas about what happened inside a strip club before I started. And I met a young boy just like you on my first night who left feeling guilty and thought that I was 'better than this'. Insulting. I made a conscious decision to do it, and he could tell I was a well balanced person- probably why he felt I was above it. I do not need saving- I do this for the money and flexibility while I study/search for ways to use my science degree. Even if someone does dance full time and you think they are 'wasting' their potential, it does not mean they don't have other pursuits in life. A job does not define a person.

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    Default Re: 2 part question advice needed

    1. No the article you came across is crap.

    2. Understand we're at work, we're not interested in you sexually or romantically.

    3. Her story could be true, it could not be true. It's not our job to tell you the truth, it's our job to create a fantasy.

    4. Please stop writing as though you're texting. It's seriously obnoxious. Full sentences, with grammar and punctuation please.

    You sound way too young to handle this and way too young to understand what's going on here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Please stop writing as though you're texting. It's seriously obnoxious. Full sentences, with grammar and punctuation please

    HOLY CRAP...I thought it was just me. If this is the future of writing, and it's due to texting, then fuck all....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    HOLY CRAP...I thought it was just me. If this is the future of writing, and it's due to texting, then fuck all....
    yeah....very annoying to me, but i would feel like an old grumpy man complaining about it.......so thanks for doing it for me.

    On the one hand, its an informal message board.....on the other hand the OP has to realize that he isnt just texting his teenage buddies, there is a wide age and cultural range of people on here. He needs to realize that it makes him look like a fucking uneducated moron to a good part of this population.

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    wtf
    this is a fuckin forum
    not a fuckin essay that i need to turn in for school
    if it makes me look uneducated than watever idc
    just try to get point across
    how many time do i hav to say this
    i thought the sterotype about strippers were true
    hence why i feel morally wrong
    but now im GOOD lol
    n no im not too young
    been wrkin since i was 10
    so i matured at a very young age
    i wrk n provide for myself, never leech off my parents

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    Default Re: 2 part question advice needed

    Who cares if her story is true? Does it matter? I would occasionally get bored and make up stories about having a 4 year old son.... I don't have kids... It's not like you guys are friends. Does it change the way she does a lapdance? Then who cares if she's making it up or not. Maybe she's just making up stories about her goals in life because she doesn't actually have any but she's sick and tired of people who tell her "she's too good to strip" - I HAAAAATE that line. I seriously almost quit one week because I heard it so many times in a night. It's the most insulting thing I can hear at the club. Honestly, I would rather have a guy be a douchebag and just call me a whore. At least then he's just an out-and-out asshole. But the guys who tell me "I'm too good for it" think they're being nice.... you're not. You're telling me that my job isn't worthy and basically that I'm stupid for choosing it. We're grown-ass women and we all have our reasons. Remember that.

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    Default Re: 2 part question advice needed


    1. Go back to school.
    2. Learn to write standard English
    3. Grow up.
    4. Come back in about 10 years.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemiwinks31 View Post
    yeah....very annoying to me, but i would feel like an old grumpy man complaining about it.......so thanks for doing it for me.

    On the one hand, its an informal message board.....on the other hand the OP has to realize that he isnt just texting his teenage buddies, there is a wide age and cultural range of people on here. He needs to realize that it makes him look like a fucking uneducated moron to a good part of this population.
    He probably is. We have to wonder how he got access to a computer, and managed to operate it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    Who cares if her story is true? Does it matter? I would occasionally get bored and make up stories about having a 4 year old son.... I don't have kids... It's not like you guys are friends. Does it change the way she does a lapdance? Then who cares if she's making it up or not. Maybe she's just making up stories about her goals in life because she doesn't actually have any but she's sick and tired of people who tell her "she's too good to strip" - I HAAAAATE that line. I seriously almost quit one week because I heard it so many times in a night. It's the most insulting thing I can hear at the club. Honestly, I would rather have a guy be a douchebag and just call me a whore. At least then he's just an out-and-out asshole. But the guys who tell me "I'm too good for it" think they're being nice.... you're not. You're telling me that my job isn't worthy and basically that I'm stupid for choosing it. We're grown-ass women and we all have our reasons. Remember that.
    calm ur nipples
    it was my first time in strip club
    n i was just curious if strippers actually make sad story
    n why the fuck
    am i beeing attacked for askin question here
    n sayin im the one for beein a troll

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    Quote Originally Posted by winkawak View Post
    while i was there
    n told my friend she wanted to quit soon n study "electronics" exact word lol
    how likely is all she saying is true?
    It seems rather odd that you are LOL'ing at a dancer's choice of words considering the fact that you yourself appear to be functionally illiterate.
    By the way, there are colleges and trade schools all over the country that award degrees and certificates in the study of "electronics"..

    Quote Originally Posted by winkawak View Post
    does strippers make up stories
    Do you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    It seems rather odd that you are LOL'ing at a dancer's choice of words considering the fact that you yourself appear to be functionally illiterate.
    By the way, there are colleges and trade schools all over the country that award degrees and certificates in the study of "electronics"..



    Do you?
    lol
    never knew i could get attacked
    by a gang of strippers online
    sayin electronics is kinda like saying engineering
    both are general not very specific
    electronic could mean anythin
    engineering can also be mechanic or genetic
    plus wen my friend ask her
    she didnt seem to kno what she was talkin about
    thats why both of us loled
    as if she made up story up
    which is why i asked the question
    lol im done
    apparently i cant ask a simple question as a first timer
    without beeing ridiculed

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    Quote Originally Posted by winkawak View Post
    wtf
    this is a fuckin forum
    not a fuckin essay that i need to turn in for school
    me look uneducated than watever idc
    just try tif it makes o get point across
    how many time do i hav to say this
    i thought the sterotype about strippers were true
    hence why i feel morally wrong
    but now im GOOD lol
    n no im not too young
    been wrkin since i was 10
    so i matured at a very young age
    i wrk n provide for myself, never leech off my parents
    No one cares. Cursing at us doesn't make the point any less valid. Write like an adult, or don't write at all. How old are you? 4? And yeah, if you're going to SC's and falling for the dancers it matters not at all how long you've been working, you're too young. Which you continue to prove every time you post. Go back to your playpen.
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    Quote Originally Posted by winkawak View Post

    apparently i cant ask a simple question as a first timer
    without beeing ridiculed
    You've summed it up pretty well...
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    Default Re: 2 part question advice needed

    This whole thing was bogus anyway. The poster was simply trying too hard to come across as some kid with a texting addiction. However, he properly spelled words that many would mispell and was not nearly creative enough in how he chose to botch the simple words.

    I guess some people just have a lot of time to kill.

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    Quote Originally Posted by winkawak View Post
    lol
    never knew i could get attacked
    by a gang of strippers online
    sayin electronics is kinda like saying engineering
    both are general not very specific
    electronic could mean anythin
    engineering can also be mechanic or genetic
    plus wen my friend ask her
    she didnt seem to kno what she was talkin about
    thats why both of us loled
    as if she made up story up
    which is why i asked the question
    lol im done
    apparently i cant ask a simple question as a first timer
    without beeing ridiculed
    wait, I think I get it
    hes typing in a new form of epic poetry
    to emulate it
    all you have to do
    is separate your sentences
    into short bits and pieces
    and not capitalize
    or use punctuation or grammar
    and shorten random words
    like im doin right now
    and also make pseudo-nouns into verbs loling
    i think i get it lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    wait, I think I get it
    hes typing in a new form of epic poetry
    to emulate it
    all you have to do
    is separate your sentences
    into short bits and pieces
    and not capitalize
    or use punctuation or grammar
    and shorten random words
    like im doin right now
    and also make pseudo-nouns into verbs loling
    i think i get it lol
    ROFLMAO!!

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