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    She probably isn't a bad person in real life though. Sometimes ppl tend to come across as bitchier and more arrogant online while they are actually normal, quite pleasant people. She told me that Kylea2 and BlkSharpie are two of her best friends in real life and that both of them hang out with her in person, so maybe they have a better idea of what shes really like or why she acts the way she does online?

    One thing I didn't understand though was how she had sooo much time to be on here. She accumulated a couple THOUSAND posts in a matter of months. I don't even have that many yet and I've been using the same account for over a year! I don't understand that, especially if she is making so much money via escorting, since you kind of have to leave your house to do that unless I'm mistaken lol, and as much money as she claimed to make via escorting, i don't see how it's humanly possible. Plus, she has a young child so I also don't see how she would have time to be on here so much as a MOM in addition to being a "highly successful escort".

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    soooo who wants brownies i made some with some "medicine" inside ..wink..wink
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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    I noticed that too. I saw many members spiral downhill trying to be like TG. It was really sad. Also, although I agree that TG has a lot of useful information about escorting and camming, it was disgusting to see her become top thanked since most of the posts she is thanked for aren't her being helpful, but her being bitchy and hurtful towards other members. There is no reason why 25 people should thank TG for bitching out a new member for not knowing what MFC stands for.
    This x 100! I noticed the EXACT same thing. She would even use some of her other accounts to glorify herself in the past. I wouldn't be surprised if she gave a lot of those thanks to herself under her different accounts! She was obsessed with them but it's really not a big deal, dude! lol. It's not supposed to be a contest... I was also told that she would refrain from giving certain people "thanks" when they helped her out because she didn't want them getting as many or more thanks then her. If that's true, that's kinda lame.

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    Granted online you can't tell tone. I felt that the way she worded some things it came across as abrasive. I don't think I have enough time on my hands to develop a separate online personality. I know she'll come back again and be the top thanked! lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    Lol Bambalina I didn't even read what you wrote past calling me insane. I don't have time to partake in anymore long drawn out dragged out threads and posts on this forum. It's too unproductive IMO. I could care less what people think of me. Yes I know TG is dramatic, thinks she knows it all, confrontational blah blah. Who cares? Some people choose to let her bother them, when all they have to do is ignore her. Ignoring people works really well. I know she is offensive. I have no clue what she did nor do I care. The main reason for my post was because I don't understand why people are even talking about this. She always gets banned then comes back. I am sure she is here right now, and probably loving this what happened to TG thread. Call me insane or whatever. I don't plan to argue with people about TG and her many come backs because it's silly, not making me money, nor do I have the time. And unlike some people I do not have it in me to argue for about Oh 7 to 20 pages LOL. So have fun with this, and I'm out.

    Ok, and please don't be offended by being called insane, no harm meant, and I think almost everyone here, including me, are insane by most standards....so enjoy...

    And make money, it is WAY smarter than engaging in drama! I agree with that...

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    I've been on her since 2006...5 years... and I post enough that everyone knows me...and I only have 788 posts...yep...in 5 years.

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    I wish i never left and deleted my old account.
    I believe i originally joined in 2004.....
    I sure as hell didn't have that many thanks nor posts either.
    Better known as... DirtyLittleSecret.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    I noticed that too. I saw many members spiral downhill trying to be like TG. It was really sad. Also, although I agree that TG has a lot of useful information about escorting and camming, it was disgusting to see her become top thanked since most of the posts she is thanked for aren't her being helpful, but her being bitchy and hurtful towards other members. There is no reason why 25 people should thank TG for bitching out a new member for not knowing what MFC stands for.
    some of us had to get a spot on the home page the old fashioned way, by posting a lot of useful crap and only the snarky comment (ok, maybe more than occasional) .

    anyway, I dont have anything against TG. i do find it comical how every time she rises from the dead she is much more mild mannered until her post count skyrockets, and then she is back to her ol' sassy self. I guess i dont read thru camming connection enough to know when the drama gets out of control, so im not sure why she was banned this time around. i wasnt aware she had more than one account though...making plural accounts to 'thank' yourself seems a little bit farfetched to me. but heck, it is the internet, and people do spend much time on here and get caught up with politics with people that they have never met.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
    She probably isn't a bad person in real life though. Sometimes ppl tend to come across as bitchier and more arrogant online while they are actually normal, quite pleasant people. She told me that Kylea2 and BlkSharpie are two of her best friends in real life and that both of them hang out with her in person, so maybe they have a better idea of what shes really like or why she acts the way she does online?

    One thing I didn't understand though was how she had sooo much time to be on here. She accumulated a couple THOUSAND posts in a matter of months. I don't even have that many yet and I've been using the same account for over a year! I don't understand that, especially if she is making so much money via escorting, since you kind of have to leave your house to do that unless I'm mistaken lol, and as much money as she claimed to make via escorting, i don't see how it's humanly possible. Plus, she has a young child so I also don't see how she would have time to be on here so much as a MOM in addition to being a "highly successful escort".
    Awwe man, dont bring me into this! Seriously though, TG and I know each other through this forum and we talk on the phone...we havnt met in person but yeah, do have a pretty tight friendship and looking forward to being able to meet up sooooon!

    On the earnings, I dont know...I dont question what someone says they make. Sometimes its embellished, and sometimes its downplayed so as not to seem like bragging or lying...Ive really seen it happen both ways.

    To be honest, just yesterday I took all the appts I have from my calendar and tracked out how much Ive made escorting since I started two months ago. I was *floored!!!* And thats with me getting one if Im lucky 2 dates a week, which equates to an average 3hrs week on dates, plus about 2 hrs a day between advertising and replying to emails, 4 hrs sleep a night and an hour a day thinking about going on cam (Im still being horrible) leaves me with about 115 hours a week to annoy my daughter So for someone more established...or even working longer than my measly 2 months, yeah..I can imagine the earning potential is there.

    Anyway...I wont say anything neither here nor there about this or that...just wanted to say, I havnt read on here anything where she said we've already met, and we havnt. And when anyone says talks about their earnings, I take it for what it is cause I dont know.

    I woudlnt have said anything at all if my name wasnt mentioned I dont like the heat, so I stay out of the kitchen....figuratively and literally!

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    ughhh why are we even discussing this??
    hah!

    i dont think its truly necessary in my opinion to start a thread and continuing with the explanations and 2-cent giving

    ..its just going to cause even MORE drama if she does become "zombified" and makes a comeback

    tired of drama!!
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    It's always hilarious to me when people allude to the fact that "talking about this" (or that... or that...) is stupid/pointless/dramatic, but they are inevitably STILL talking about it themselves by posting in the thread that talks about it! Oh, the irony.

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    Maybe this isn't the right place for me to be posting - but there isn't exactly an apology or "hey let me back in the playgroup" circle after a timeout thread.

    Point being - I got banned and yet here I am - even AFTER I asked them to delete my account...

    Won't stop me from speaking my mind - won't stop me from being myself.

    On the issue of time.....

    I thought about some things on my weekly punishment..

    I have to stop listening to the caddy-ness of some and the judgements that "some" think I am just a bitch rather than honest and to the point....not drama and rather in your face and tell it like it is. I have to ignore the snarky comments of some and just let the remarks of some thinking they are better than me go in one ear and out the other. I am here to learn, gain experience, learn from my mistakes and improve MY business. If I jeopardize that, it's not hurting anyone's cam score but mine.

    A newer quote I found and have adopted is - "Women who pay their own rent don't have to be nice."

    My downfall is that I like to help people. I help people and I let myself be taken advantage of. I was taught to work for everything in my life and apparently, I have had to learn that some, haven't had to do the same. (Again, this isn't drama - this is fact.) Example - Rich Kid vs. Poor Kid = Some don't realize the value of certain things. So, at this point, my stance is this. I am here to offer input and help to a certain point but in a limited position only because I am not going to put myself into a position to be talked down to like I need a SW Mom or get banned. Limited capacity. I'll bend over backwards for those I'm close with here - but others will need to work on that friendship before I go that far. I don't care about double posts. I don't care about minuet questions or opinions. There's a bigger purpose to this forum and I am choosing to stick with that purpose...

    While I was gone, I could still read what was posted with being banned because I wasn't at my home when I was banned. So, I came on - and used that time to make my so-called "reference binder" for all the Cam Sites, tips and such I wanted to make. I got much accomplished and thought about about how I did act to a certain degree and thought about cause and effect. I will say in some respects, some of the ways I acted in some posts, was fucked up. In other posts, I still hold my ground. Some of the things I said MAY have been out of line but again - my straightforward personality - a lot of people can't handle - and that's ok - and that's ok.

    Roxy said - I mean EVERYONE has a bad side, a bad temper, or someone who just rubs them the wrong way. But there are better ways to handle such situations.
    and that's something I need to work on - and everyone has to understand you can't hear the ton of voice - all you have is words...that's the hard part.

    What makes us all different is because of who we are. I accept everyone here as an equal to me as for WHAT we do - regardless if you have asked a stupid question or came out your face wrong to me. With that, for anyone I may have offended in that post in regards to professionalism, typos, or whatnot, I apologize. In some respects I went overboard on my point. On some points, I did not. From this day forward, if anyone has an issue about anything - I invite you to come to my little box and let's talk like women should do instead of fighting like girls do. Again, my apologies. There was no excuse for the lack of adult behavior I SHOULD have had. I said before - I was woman enough to stand up and admit flaws and mistakes and take the brute force for it - so there you go. I did not mean to offend anyone personally - but I feel that many times here, things are blown out of proportion because you can't hear what someone says and all you can see is words. You can't hear how the person is coming across. So - I have to work on how I come across on many of responses to things. I know that I can be straight forward but I have to learn not to be such a big cunt about it.

    Again, I apologize to anyone I may have offended and if you want to further speak to me about it, my box is open.

    On the TG dealio....

    I just want to point out - that regardless of what anyone thinks - when I got banned - my e-mail was on FIRE asking me why I got banned. Clearly, it wasn't hard to figure out. It was from people that I hadn't even responded to in any threads or even saw on SW before....That kinda upset me on the nosey scale.

    I don't care what TG did. I don't care what Angel did. I don't care what the can of worms was about. They both give good advice on which I have taken and used a few times. Women that are aggressive are very successful. When I talked to TG last, she said she was super busy and was booking alot - and she was...I so jump up and down for her. If she said something that was out of her face wrong - ok she did, so what. I came to realize it was none of my business and I shouldn't want to know about it. What that fight was about has no bearing on how I make money so I can't even have an opinion about it. I realized that too...I am going to stop being so judgmental of people here - because I was on a few - and I shouldn't have been. I agreed with TG and MANY OTHER girls here who got pissed at noobs that can't read the "new cam girls start here" section. I won't apologize for thinking and it being proved that the same posts happen over and over and no one wants to find things for themselves anymore. That part hasn't changed.

    The other thing is - I don't see the point in sitting here and entertaining the thought of talking about me (DESUVS) TG or anyone else...Ok yeah so what we got banned? No one is perfect. So what are emotions got the best of us and we got a little shitty about it? I took my time and punishment - Came back, apologized and I am getting back to business here. It's not about mimic or anything Desuvs - some people just are naturally aggressive by nature. I am one of those people. I don't do it to be a bitch. I don't do it to go after people. That's how I am. As you see above, I said and acknowledge that I was wrong in SOME instances and clearly stated that I am going to WORK on them. You have to get to know someone to find OUT why they are aggressive instead of just assuming the WHY are they aggressive. It's a natural thing that normally deals with their upbringing. That's being judgmental going by words on a screen. It's not fair. Take time to at least get to know someone before you make an opinion.

    This happened when - a week ago? and I am asking - everyone says people should mind their business and don't worry about what everyone else is doing but the moment the "banned" word comes on - now there's a thread? I understand everyone wants to know - but I think GOSSIP is the biggest part of the problem of why everyone is pissed off, aggravated and wants to kill each other all the time. But that's just my opinion. It's quite funny to me - while I have been off doing some self-fixing, you are still sitting here quoting me on one of my bad moments? Sure - won't be the first or the last time I will have one. That comment was directed at you because of how you are coming off at me and I fired back - it was a stupid, pointless argument that should have never gotten started in the first place. If you feel the need to keep entertaining it to point out what I said about it, that's perfectly fine with me. But again...

    Yes - I said it. I'll paste the ENTIRE thing if you would like me to so all of SW can see it. I owned up the mistakes I made in it. I said this is what I am doing to rectify it. I apologized and called it a day. I think I am adult and woman enough to do such a thing. You can take that for what it is. I am not here for you. Like I said above - what you are doing isn't affecting my cam score and vice versa.

    If many of you would like to think I am drama or what not, that's fine - you are entitled to YOUR opinion. I am ALRIGHT with that. I am still going to do what I am going to do here which is help in the capacity I am comfortable with. I plan on using the ignore button to make sure that I don't fly off the handle again like I did a week ago. I had a "episudeeeeee" as my baby cousin would call it. Either you get over what happened a week ago or you will harp on it. However, I do think in many ways a good many of you girls are bullies to other girls here in a lot of ways and I will never let someone back me into a corner - that's part of my aggressive attitude.


    So yeah - to sum it up - YEAH - Desuvs and I got into it....She said something to me. I flipped shit. I got banned for a week. I came back - man'ed up - went down the list, I did this wrong and la la la, I apologized and said I will work on this this and this....case closed on my end. It was a bad night and shit happens - So what I got banned for a week.....I didn't kill someone's cat or

    Thanks guys - If you need anything you know where to find me.

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    Again - I apologized and let it go.

    I said my piece just like you girls did except you guys did it while I was not here - and I'm totally cool with that. I could fly off the handle and flip shit - but I'm not going to.

    You have your opinion and I have mine.

    There isn't any reason to pick my post apart and over analyze it.

    I come back. I apologized. I let it go. I moved on from that - I would appreciate it if you could do the same.

    People can't change in a week or 25 minutes from the post.

    We will have to agree to disagree. I respect your opinion but I handle myself and my personality the way I feel I should - just like I have to respect others for how they wish to carry themselves. I can't fight with someone when that's the way they are - it's just not possible. People change when they want to - not when people tell them to. People can certainly give a wake up call - but they can't rush the process any faster then the person is willing to go.

    If you want to pick my post apart, that's ok - but I won't entertain it. I am just going to politely ask to move on about it. You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to my feelings and opinion also.

    I had offered to post everything for them to read myself - but since you are doing it for me - that's ok - it saved me the time and effort. You don't see me arguing with you about that I was wrong on things do you? Some things I felt I was wrong on. Some things I wasn't.

    If you need to cut and paste or if you feel the need to explain to everyone why, who, what and where, please go right on ahead. That's fine. I'm not here to fight with anyone or get into a battle about who is better or what not.. You aren't going to catch any complaints or objections from me. If you choose to take a small pattern of bad behavior that close to heart, that's your god-given right. I apologized directly to Desuvs - and I am sure she will share it with her friends. I explained to her privately and in detail why I reacted the way I did - so, if that message is put out there - so be it. If she puts it out there - and people want to laugh it up, that's fine too. I have no shame or nothing to hide. I'm a pretty strong person and while I may have my moments - I can admit faults, mistakes and flaws with the common decency even if I have acted like the biggest jackass of the month.

    There's an ignore button...and I will just use that. It's the easiest way to where I don't have to hear it. I feel better that I apologized and cleared my mind on the things I wanted to say. It feels good after you do that when you know you were wrong on some things.

    So again - I came back, apologized for what I thought was to be apologized for, and moved on. I would appreciate if you and everyone else could do the same.

    Enjoy your holiday weekend ladies and be safe! xoxo
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    Woah, for a second there I thought you were revealing yourself as TG. My mind was blown!

    Then I looked at your Twitter and saw a white girl and I got really confused.

    *eats popcorn*

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    Ok people. Admit it.
    Without these "types" of people or events, this place would be uneventfully dull.

    Sure, sometimes it gets out of hand and you have to squirt them down with the hose. But other times heck, its down right entertaining. Not in a "ha ha, you just got you e-ass handed to you" or the creative uses of curse words. But in a sense that two views battling it out, holding there ground and eventually learning who is with them and agrees and who is not.

    Its the same in the real world isn't it? Eat or be eaten. Given a fish or learn to fish. Its essential to this site for there to be combative views for as long as there handled in mature and reasonable ways. If we all just agreed, we'd all be like freakin lemmings talking about the same mindless dribble post after post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
    This x 100! I noticed the EXACT same thing. She would even use some of her other accounts to glorify herself in the past. I wouldn't be surprised if she gave a lot of those thanks to herself under her different accounts! She was obsessed with them but it's really not a big deal, dude! lol. It's not supposed to be a contest... I was also told that she would refrain from giving certain people "thanks" when they helped her out because she didn't want them getting as many or more thanks then her. If that's true, that's kinda lame.

    Personally, since she's banned, I think she should be removed as the top thanked.
    Plus if she was using multiple accounts to up her thanks...wow...

    For someone who is "living the life" and "making millions of dollars, driving Bentley's, etc, etc...", they sure have A LOT of free time to do stupid shit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoxyHart View Post
    Ok people. Admit it.
    Without these "types" of people or events, this place would be uneventfully dull.

    Sure, sometimes it gets out of hand and you have to squirt them down with the hose. But other times heck, its down right entertaining. Not in a "ha ha, you just got you e-ass handed to you" or the creative uses of curse words. But in a sense that two views battling it out, holding there ground and eventually learning who is with them and agrees and who is not.

    Its the same in the real world isn't it? Eat or be eaten. Given a fish or learn to fish. Its essential to this site for there to be combative views for as long as there handled in mature and reasonable ways. If we all just agreed, we'd all be like freakin lemmings talking about the same mindless dribble post after post.

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    Damn this just bever gets boring

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    I'm not sure...maybe I fail...but I truly try to be the kind of person who is strong-minded, speaks my piece, doesn't back down, has somewhat original ideas, and yet doesn't consistently insult people, hurt feelings, etc.

    I also try to give credit where it is due, and not be a Know-It-All. Because I believe true intelligence is knowing how LITTLE we actually know.

    Once again, I believe this subject is one where there is a line. And that line is civility, and civility goes a long way.

    You don't have to like me, you don't have to work with me, we can be locked in a serious disagreement on principles and ideas, yet I will try to always stay civil to you. (I fail dismally at times, and sometimes don;t even realize I did till you tell me).

    If you think this thread is about me, you missed the reason I wrote it.

    Also, for me, being nice, and making people's lives happier and more fun and joyous, is FAR more valuable than being right. It is FAR more valuable than being a "go-getter, who makes money", and I'll take one happy idiot, to 1000 atom bomb making assholes....

    Someday you will die, and being right, being a bitch, being a hard-ass, being a go-getter who doesn't have time for bullshit, will get you dying in regret all alone wishing you spent more time loving and appreciating those who gave something to your life.

    So, I'm blunt (born and raised in the CITY of Chicago) but it isn't worth hurting feelings and screwing up friendships.

    Something I learned a while back that really helped me in my life, is the concept of before making decisions or taking action, learning to ask yourself "What is the outcome I'm looking for?"

    I think KB will tell you she acted in a way which did NOT get the outcome she was looking for, and THAT is what she apologizing for (sorry if I am wrong and putting words in your mouth), and for sure TG doesn't get the outcome she is looking for, since she likes being the most thanked, and likes being a mentor and teacher, and MANY people make fun of her or look at her as a hothead, and can;t hear her message because it is obscured by anger, or bitchiness or whatever.

    If your outcome is good, you will do well, and if your outcome is mean, you will not...if it is petty, then that will show through...if it is noble then you will shine...

    The outcome I am looking for is to help camming, help all the wonderful women I have met here reach goals they never even knew they could attain, and make myself a buttload of money and boatload of lifelong friends in the process of doing the other stuff. Plus I want to learn, and teach, and share information because I am an information junky.

    So what is your outcome?

    B

    PS. Want to truly make use of this? Then you need part 2 and 3....

    1.What is the outcome I am trying to achieve?

    2. How do I get from here to there? How do I accomplish that outcome?

    3. Am I doing that RIGHT NOW?

    (I think that last one would give anyone involved in drama a lot of problems)

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    Thanks ladies.

    I appreciate it.

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    No problems B - at least you tried you decipher what I was saying - you hit it on the head.

    I'm not perfect and I don't try to be. I don't expect anyone to "do as I say and not as I do" but really - I had a moment and that was it, but that's not going to stop me from being the person that I am really am. I just know I am going about things different from now on.

    Thanks for the warm welcomes back.

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    Well, I would hope that everyone welcomes you back, and that everyone is supportive of you working at being more of the you we NEED on this forum, as opposed to the you that is the least common denominator...know what I mean?

    If Camwhore and TG can resurrect as many times and often as they have to hearty welcomes back, then I don't see why you shouldn't be offered an opportunity as well...

    B

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    Well B - I have come to terms that if I don't get warm welcomes - I am ok with that. I don't need warm welcomes to feel fulfilled in one way or another. I am a big girl when it comes to my mistakes and I owned up to what I felt was the right thing. It makes no difference to me what others opinions are in what regards to what my rights or wrongs are. I know that I can't make EVERYONE happy. All I can do is the best I can possibly do in any situation there is. The only thing I can do is do the BEST possible thing there is and that is to act right - which I did. I can't PLEASE everyone. If people want to scrutinize me and think what they will of me - that is what they will do. If people want to think badly of me - they can. I am allowed to speak freely and I have to work on certain aspects of my personality that gets me into trouble. These things are called FLAWS.

    I'm not perfect by any means. I'm not going to say that I am. However - this doesn't mean I am going to stop speaking my mind but I will change the way I present myself in speaking them. I am going to change myself in ways in presenting myself in ways I come across. If this SOUNDS confusing - well sit back and go read some of the posts I have already made and see for yourself...if not, well don't worry about it. My changing doesn't really affect anyone's cam score but mine like I have said - at least I had the balls to stand up and apologize...some people would have just ran off and never came back or just ignored it all together. I'm not saying I deserve anyone's sympathy or respect for apologizing either. All I am saying is that I am here for the same reason everyone else is...and I shouldn't be treated any differently for it. I am just going to handle things differently as far as the drama and comments are concerned. I don't have any problems with camwhore or TG. I like them both....

    Anyone who I happen to have an issue with or will have an issue with in the future - let it be known now - they will just be put on the ignore list and/or I'll try to settle the matter privately in the private message box. I don't see the need to let the drama keep me from fulfilling why I am really here....and that is to help the fellow cam girl. There's no reason to even pay attention to it..So might as well let that be known now. I won't tolerate it and I won't deal with it. I love and respect everyone here - and I just won't deal with anything aside from the real deal.

    If they don't offer me that opportunity B, it's totally fine - there are plenty of new cam girls that come here every day that will need help and I will have no problem pointing them in the right direction. as long as I keep my nose clean I shouldn't have any problems. : )

    Thanks love. xoxoxox

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    Quote Originally Posted by KitanaBlades View Post
    The other thing is - I don't see the point in sitting here and entertaining the thought of talking about me (DESUVS) TG or anyone else...Ok yeah so what we got banned? No one is perfect. So what are emotions got the best of us and we got a little shitty about it? I took my time and punishment - Came back, apologized and I am getting back to business here. It's not about mimic or anything Desuvs - some people just are naturally aggressive by nature.
    This may be the case... but my mention of you as example (not by name, btw.), was relevant to the discussion at hand.
    If that's just how you are, very well. I was merely using you as an example of the type of behavoir that seems to overwhelm OW when TG gets going on her rampages because you were the most recent example without me digging through other threads.

    Quote Originally Posted by KitanaBlades View Post
    I apologized directly to Desuvs - and I am sure she will share it with her friends. I explained to her privately and in detail why I reacted the way I did - so, if that message is put out there - so be it. If she puts it out there - and people want to laugh it up, that's fine too.
    I do not appreciate the implication that I'm the sort of person who shares private messages.
    Just sayin'.
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Well Desuvs - I've let by gones be by gones...

    and if I wanted to go off about what was said about me while I wasn't here regardless if it was an example or not - I would but like I said for reasons stated above I am not.

    If you want to use everything I have said as your proof or as further conjecture as whatever person you think I am or whatever it is you are trying to do with that - by all means...take the reigns and deal with that. Whatever your point was that you were trying to make, I am pretty sure it was made awhile ago..No reason to keep it going. That's why I apologized, said what I said and I moved on. You didn't have to mention me by name though - plastering the posts there was clearly enough instead of saying it. There's no need to counteract it just because you did it another way. Again, I have NO issues with any of it. I'm not worried about an opinion - I'm worried about the greater good of helping fellow ladies of SW...and that's exactly what I have been doing.

    And - when I meant sharing messages. Come on, we are all chicks and I'm not stupid. Like all of us, we have friends...and that's what happens. My point - if it does, I'm fine with that. Just by the way I was jumped on and everyone was in agreement with you in that tiff, do you really think I would have thought otherwise?

    Like I said - it's not a big deal to me. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and their feelings and just like I am - the difference is - how I react and how I go about it from now on.

    Have a great day love! xoxox

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