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    I get a decent amount of requests from men asking to be dominated. Im not naturally submissive and have small cock humiliation down perfect but don't know what to say to these guys and they leave private quickly. Also I cam with my gf who is naturally very dominate. Im sure if we knew some good phrases/language we would be great. Help please!

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    Btw my search function isn't working so sorry if you've answered this question before

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    I, for one, always speak more formally when doing domination. I speak more slowly, my voice is deeper and I always remember to enunciate. My movements are more precise and my carriage more elegant. One does not simply speak with their words but with their entire body. This makes sure that your gestures and actions do not contradict what you are trying to say and the power you supposedly command.

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    I talk to them like I'm instructing a child.

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    You have to get them to talk first so you can figure out what they want. The silent subs piss me off. They are no better than average joe just wanting to nut quickly and leave . Domination is about getting inside their minds.

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    In terms of phrases and language, you'll find that some guys already have specific terminology in mind (which is why you should take kittykrane's advice and get them to talk first). If they don't, you can just go with what comes naturally. If nothing comes naturally, you could try watching vids to see what others dommes say.

    For me, it's pretty rare to get someone who's clear and forthcoming about what he wants without any sort of prompting, so getting a sense of what he needs is usually 80% of the work. That's just my experience.

    Recently, I had someone come in and say, "Talk dirty to me." I could have just launched into random raunch-talk, but when I made him clarify, it turned out that he wanted a pretty specific form of domination with lots of verbal humiliation. So forcing them to talk can be pretty important.

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    My E-books on Female Domination - some really good reading in here.



    It's in the Sub/Domination Folder.

    I suggest reading the titles - Female Domination, Miss Abernathys Concise Slave Training Manual, and the Mistress Manual.

    I keep them printed out in a binder. Best way for reference - when you print - do multiple pages per sheet - like 4 to a sheet - and then use those sticky page markers to what you want to keep a fast finger to.

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    Yes, the Mistress Manual is wonderful for it! I actually wrote a review after that download, it was so good. Thanks tons again, Kitana

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    YW

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