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    My mom has known for a while that I've been dancing. Told her about 5years in, so sick of lying and honestly I think she already knew about it anyways. She was not happy about it, which I knew she wouldnt be. She was starting to accept after a few years of knowing, even ask me questions about outfits, customers, ect. Well, after a breakup I'm having to work again and started camming a week ago tomorrow. She asked me if I had gone back to work yet ("dancing") and I told her yes. I don't want to spend another 5years, or however long I'm in this for, lying to her. I know one of the reasons she doesnt like me dancing is I drink alot at work and often drove home drunk (pls, i dont need a lecture here - i am not dancing anymore so im not drinking and driving anymore!) and wrecked my car this past December because of this. I feel like telling her about camming will relieve some of her fears of me getting into another accident BUT I also worry she won't take this job well either. Anyone have experiance with this and can list some pros over dancing I can tell her ? Or should I just keep my mouth shut and let her worry about what she already "knows" I'm going ?

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    I think you are better off just telling her. It sounds like you've already come up with the best reason why this job is better for you, which is that it doesn't involve drinking. The other part I would talk up to her is the fact that you can block certain areas, because she may be concerned about her co-workers or family seeing you on cam. Let her know you have control, & you can block by zip code, state, etc. Another advantage is that she won't have to worry about anyone following you home, things co-workers might do to you, etc. Camming has a lot of huge advantages, but the one disadvantage is that there's a good chance your content will be video captured & live on through the internet without you being paid for it.
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    I told my mom and although she wasn't happy at first, she got over it pretty quickly and took it pretty well. Now I tell her funny stories, talk about different sites, outfits, etc. One of the first things my mom said was "You're going to have some stalk/kidnap/rape you!" And I explained to her that I am working in my own HOME. Alone. No creep is going to follow me home from a club. Maybe she'd feel better about you camming because you won't be drinking while working, you can work whenever you want and you don't have to deal with creeps face to face.

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    I'm gonna be in the same boat too real soon. My mom is going to want to know why I'm doing so well now. On the surface she knows it's modeling because when I was on a trip a check came from Streamray to the house and of course she opened it, saw it, but didn't really question it - I guess because she thought hey at least I'm making money. My mom is street-wise and too smart for being lied to - and man she better not get an inkling she's being lied to or she will snap and break you. We both are fire signs and bump heads, the reason why I left but still love her. That is the reason why I don't want to tell her and try to avoid the topic, but I believe if I go to her like a woman, a strong independent woman who knows my shit and is getting money and making a better living for the time being, she's not gonna like it but she'll respect it. At least that's the story I play out in my head lol.

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    Same here. And I want my mom to be my accountant. She will not like the idea I'm sure. She wants me to wear smart clothes, a nice pair of glasses, carry a bag full of interesting law cases, and of course she wants to speak about her pretty and clever lawyer daughter to everyone. Lol, I do have glasses for work, but all her other expectations failed.

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    I just graduated from college and I didn't want to move back to my parents place so I moved to a place two hours from them ... on the other side of my college. I pay my own rent, groceries, etc. I don't have another job right now so they don't think I do anything. I'm pretty sure they just think I'm wasting time and partying up here. Hah. I don't know how they think I pay rent. I don't intend to tell them. I tell all my friends that I work part time at my aunt's store. My aunt totally has a store, but it's in another city soooo :p but it's so small that no one would have heard of it anyway. It's been working so far!
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