My mom has known for a while that I've been dancing. Told her about 5years in, so sick of lying and honestly I think she already knew about it anyways. She was not happy about it, which I knew she wouldnt be. She was starting to accept after a few years of knowing, even ask me questions about outfits, customers, ect. Well, after a breakup I'm having to work again and started camming a week ago tomorrow. She asked me if I had gone back to work yet ("dancing") and I told her yes. I don't want to spend another 5years, or however long I'm in this for, lying to her. I know one of the reasons she doesnt like me dancing is I drink alot at work and often drove home drunk (pls, i dont need a lecture here - i am not dancing anymore so im not drinking and driving anymore!) and wrecked my car this past December because of this. I feel like telling her about camming will relieve some of her fears of me getting into another accident BUT I also worry she won't take this job well either. Anyone have experiance with this and can list some pros over dancing I can tell her ? Or should I just keep my mouth shut and let her worry about what she already "knows" I'm going ?



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